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okay here's my story..i had this realli mean ex b/f who treated me like crap! i cried n cried over him every single day we were dating and somewhat after we broke up! so one day i decided to stop all my crying and get even! he has this g/f that he never even met before! lol but he is always telling me and everyone how much he loves her! haha yea..anyways i got my friend who lives in texas to start talkin n messin around with my ex.. ( i told him that she was my homeschooled neighbor)---like she would say stuff like "ohh your realli sexi..i wanna be with you" and just completely act that way! and my ex was always telling me how he never cheated on me and how he never would cheat on anyone..blah blah blah! so basically i was also testing his skills to see if he is a player! well guess what i found out..he is! he was telling my friend how much he likes her and wants to hang out with her and all that crap! and i have everything saved! so yes he does cheat! and he was also telling my friend that he doesnt have a g/f! what a loser! so anyways..he unblocked me from the computer and writing to me ever since i hooked him up! so we were getting along perfectly..then my friend told him that it was just a joke..she wasn't my neighbor..and everything..and now he's soo ticked it isn't even funny! haha i told him off majorly tho yesterday! but anyways..what should i do?! should i apoligize?..but he's done soo much crap to me before and now i'm in counseling because of him! so i don't know what to do! please help! i will rate you! (link)
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don't apologize it seems like he deserves it anf why would u want to keep his friendship after how bad he treated u.but i think wut u did was right i would do the same thing.but as far as apologizing goes DONT!okay well i hoped i hepled...
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Hi JennaRESPECTS i am really upset. Im really worried that my best friend is avoiding me. I dont want to ask her because i dont want her to get mad at me. But i dont know what to do to find out if she is or not. what should i do? Help me please.. she means ALOT to me. I love her alot. Thanks so much!
Sincerley,
Confused and Worried.
My real name is alli.. but thats how i feel (link)
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you need to sit down and comfront her because if u really care about her then u need to ask her wuts going on and let her know u dont want to lose her friendship thats the best thing i think u could do.well good luck i hope i helped....:)
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hey i wrote on here b4 about my momz b/f with hep c and how i hate him and everything..well, the follow up on that is that today she just informed me that were moving in with him in a few weekz!! i have to change school and go thru the whole shit..shez trying to bribe me to move in...and i dono wut tah do!! plz i need help fast!!
siNcEreLy,stUck (link)
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ur in a really bad position but if i were u i would say no to all of that and get her to think twice before anything and really let her know what she getting herself into cause by the way he sound he the devil himself but wut can i say talk talk ohand talk to ur mom over over till she gets the point that u dont like this guy and hopefuly she will respect ur desiocion and leave him..good luck i hope i helped at least a little...
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My mom got engaged to this guy after 7 years of them being together. But, i HATE him and so do all my sisters. He's cheated on her MANY times and she even walked in on him and another girl about a week ago!! She hasn't cried more than she has the day she walked in on him and the other girl. He knows he can get her back though, so he walks all over her! And, she's soooo weak when it comes to guys. She's become soo depressed and right now, shes in Virginia for vacation with him! She's coming back today. And ive tried talking to her many times about this as well as all my 5 sisters. She just won't listen. I want her to leave him. He's causing her nothing but harm! Also, to top it all off, he has an STD, Hepatitis C. And, he got it from another girl while cheating on my mom!!! And, she STILL won't leave him!!
What do i do?? please help...i rate high.
Thanks so much.. (link)
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ur mom i think feels that she wont ever find some special so she stays with this guy that sounds really bad 4 her.if he cheats on her and ur mom wont do anything about it then scare him off in every way possible talk to ur mom and tell her how u feel and if it still doesnt get her to change her mind then prove to her in every way possible that he is bad NEWs and u wont take that.i hope i helped GOOD LUCK.
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Me and my sister (12) just got in a huge screaming match. i love her very much, we havent fought that bad in awhile, but we just got really really mad at each other and just started screaming and hitting and fighting.. what should i do? i want to be friends again but im angry and confused!!!! (link)
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my sister also 12 and i constantly fight like alwayz when im really mad i would ignore her but when me and her are happy we enjoy each others companies and i love her to death but she gets ANNOYING sometimes ya who blames u to be angry 4 wutever reason but u r sisters so u will be talking to each other pritty soon.well good luck...:)
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What do you do when you are in love with a guy but your parents forbid you to see him. im almost 18 and im having to sneek around at my best friends house just to see him. i cant even talk to him at school without getting in trouble. we have been together before and we want to be back together for good. we were together for 10 months. what do i do. (link)
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ur 18 that means u r under ur own authority but try to make him sound really good in front of ur parents and they will get the point you really like him.i hope i helped at least a little good luck.
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Okay heres the thing...My cousin and me used to be BEST FRIENDS when we were younger.And when i was about 8 she left and moved to tx. Well she moved back to az last year and we were the best of friends. WEll she mes this girl named cassie and like shes totally changed. Like she turned all "punk" and all her friends call me a prep cuz i dont have like a low voice and i am happy and I wear spaghetti straps and stuff. And like Cassie wears preppy clothes too!Sometimes she wears black and they all make fun of me and are all like "dude courtney natasha is such a fricken poser" and sh!t like that!And like they barely even kno me! It really hurts me cuz me and courtney were SO close and I love her so much (not as a lez but were cousis and i was bff w/ her!) and now she acts like it never happend. Like I'll call her and she talks to me for like 15 min now and like ugh! I miss her and i wish it could just be like it was b4.I feel like crying cuz she was so awesome.What do I do to get my best friend back?thx so much! (link)
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tell her how u feel or bring back old memories but that happens alot with friends and family ppl change but once u and her get to really talk i bet her oldself will come out of her i hope i helped good luck...:)
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ok well i just started going to a new school in 6th grade and now im in 7th, my friend *susie* is like one of my really good friends and will prolly do n e thing 4 me. and shes always just like asking me over and stuff or trying to get together with me n stuff but i always make up excuses. lately weve really been trying to get together, and she invited me over and i was all yay im goin to her house but then i got in a fight w/ my parents and was ticked so didnt wanna go. i told and idk if she was mad or not. next weekends a dance at my school so were gonna try and spend the night after that. but is there something wrong with me always making up excuses? bc like i would want to go soo idk please help (link)
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if she seems like a really good friend give her a chance cause it wont kill u it might even come out 4 the best and the excuses u need to try to avoid it and clearify everything to her because if she likes u and u come out with excuses i'd be pritty upset if i were her.well good luck
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Hi. Please answer. Right now my mom is going through divorce with my father. They were married 18 years and he can't find a job. My mom is paying him 1300 a month becuase he can't get a job. 'temporary living confindments' (she kept the house) is what its caused. This is making us have money problems. She travels for her job as well and I'm entering Highschool(Shes stressed) One day I was going to put something in my mom's glove compartement and I found a box of cigarettes. My grandparents were visiting and I told my grandma and so I confronted my mom. She promised not to smoke again. I took her cigarettes (we were together) and threw them out. Today I found a box of cigarettes in her glove compartement again. What should I DO? (link)
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with all the problem she seems she going through ya she's smoking 4 sure but she needs to know how u really feel about that and if it bothers u so much then it will cause her to stop because that isn't very healthy at all and as far as her friends go ask them to help u out so she wont smoke.i hope i helped.good luck
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There is a girl at school who I like its just that I think she has headlice and I want to hang out with her but I dont want headlice. Shes funny and kool I talk to her on the internet all the time its just that I dont want to get headlice. A little help here! (link)
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well wut can i say buy her shampoo or conditioner 4 her birthday.naw just playin but wut u should do is try to avoid the subject and when u r around her after u leave wash ur hair or something but i dont think that would be such a big issue....good luck
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is it wrong to be so in love that you would die for him? (link)
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no its not at all i personaly think that is wut love means to take any risks possible just to make him/her happy or safe.well i hope i helped a little.
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i am definitely not the hottest guy in the group (lil helpful info) i am very funny, great personallity, friend to all, some call me a super hero :) i am always good at giving advice...but this is 1 thing i cant figure out = /. if you have any helpful ideas they would be greatly appreciated. i am a 14/m (link)
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if u want girls to like u and u say ur as good as u sound then io bet gurls already do like u but u just haven't payed attentions to the right ones i know this 4 a fact because i like a boi who is the way ur discribe urself but he only like the girls that every other boi like and he is really close to me but i guess he cant notice that i like him cause he's over obsessed with the other popular pritty girlz.so wut im tryin to say is be urself thats all i can advice u to do.
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Ok, i really ReAlLy like this boy named Naz. This whole year, i worked hard at getting to know him, and it finally worked! So now i'm really really good friends wit him, and i tell him everything, like he tells me. My parents dont really care about me liking him, as long as i dont do anything. But then one night wen i wuz talkin to Naz, he found out that i was a virgen still, and he said, "i guess whoever u give it up to, u really luv them." Then he asked me if i wud sleep wit him. I sed i dont know. (And i know he's not usin me becuz for one thing, i'm really close wit him, and also becuz he knows i liked him this WhOlE year, so if he wanted to use me, he cud've tried to a long time ago. And i DiD kiss him before.) So anyway, i really want to, becuz i luv him. And i KnOw this is luv becuz....well i jus know. Everyone who's been in luv knows. So i want to sleep wit him, but then my brotha Miguelle cums into the picture. He says if i do that, i'm a slut and a hoe and that i shud be ashammed of myself. He made me feel really bad. But it's My lIFe, isnt it? I wanna listen to him cuz he's my brotha, but he jus has no idea how much i luv this dude. He doesnt understand, cuz he's neva been in luv before. But wat shud i do? (sorry its so long! I ReAllY need help on this, pleaz dont delete it! Thanx!) (link)
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you might really like or love this boi but you have to take things slow before something goes really far.if u truly love him and urself then don't because the best gift u can ever have is ur virginity but after u 2 do have "it" things might change and u will regret it and as far as ur brother goes he has no right to tell u those things but in the other hand he's just tryin to watch out 4 u.well i hope i helped....good luck
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I've been in love with my best guy friend for years. We tried going out when we first met but he didn't have strong feelings for me, so he dumped me and later on we became really tight. I'm still deeply in love with him and he has a GF who I'm close with too. No one knows how I feel and I know for sure he does not feel the same way. How do I get this wonderful, funny, perfect guy out of my head? What should I do? (link)
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i know how u feel but im kinda in the same situation but if u try to 4get about him it wont work cause u will end up wanting him more and if he doesn't feel the same way i'm sure he will sometime in the future but dont take actions on ur own hands cause it might not end good so stay friens with him and try to talk to other boiz BUT if he's like everything u wanted then think about it really hard before u do anything but maybe he might like u.well i hope i helped and trust me i know completely well how u feel.good luck
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is it bad to want you parents to get a divorce? because you dont really like your dad or something? cause i feel bad, but i kinda want them to split up :( i feel really bad... (link)
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ya same here i want them to split up because my parents make my life living hell and cause they argue to much but u not likeing ur dad thats pritty bad and i guess normal because my brother doesnt like our dad but u shouldn't feel bad because who blames u 4 wut u feel right?well good luck...:)
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ok my bff just stop bein friends with her old bff her old bff hates me she always puts me dowm and makes me wanna stab her she also calls my cell and says "ur ugly im pretty u need to die gay loser biotch" wat should i do??? i really need help or it will go on forever!!!!!!!!!!! plzz help.....thanx!! (link)
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what u need to do is cuss the bitch out cause that aint rite and straighten her out cause that isn't rite or tell ur bff because she did stop being her friend 4 a reason rite?OR u can just ignore her and show her u dont care cause after a while she will get the point u dont care wut she thinks cause thats a PI (personal issue).hope i helped fill me in the rest....
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Well there i this song called LONELY and i love it well the thing is everytime i hear it i think of someone in particular and i dont wanna think of him cuz it makes me feel lonely. wut should i do the boi is in my grade 7th and ive never liekd him before. So maybe someone can help me im usually the adviser but now i need help. (link)
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u think about this boi cause u wanna be with him right?well i think u should talk to him get to know him and see how things go if he sweet go 4 him cause nothing i bet is holding you back anywayz what r u gonna die if u say anything?i dont think so.so just let him know....i hope i helped.
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me and my boyfriend have been together for 15 months now. I'm 16 and he's 17. He's gonna be a senior this year and im gonna be a junior. We're in love so much, it scares me and even makes me cry sometimes. I'm so afraid of losing him when he goes off to college. is it abnormal to be feeling these feelings now? I would love to spend the rest of my life with him. We even talk about it sometimes. I tell myself "if it's love, it'll all work out" Yet i still think about it. I love him so much and would like die if we broke up lol. not really but u get what im saying. Is it wrong to feel like this so early? (link)
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It's comletely normal to feel this way.you just wanna be with him who blames you right?well i think you should tell him how you feel not neccesarily breaking up is the answer but c how things go before u take any action cause if he really loves you he might just wait 4 u but by the way u sound i bet he does.well i hope i helped tell me how it works out...:)
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Alrite my gf told me today that she kinda like my bestfriend.I do love her though but being with her and knowing she likes someone else it just wouldnt be the same.I want her to be with me but I can't force her to.What should i do or say to get this thing clear up? (link)
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What you should do is give her time to think things over and if u say u really love her try to understand wuts shes going through but do put boundries cause that shyt is wack if i were you i would of given up on him well in ur case her.
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HI uummm see i just broke up with my boyfriend because he was beating me, u know banging my head n his car hood, and stuff , so I broke up with him and well i still love him for some reason but did i do the right thing?
plz help! (link)
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Yes u did the right thing that isn't right that he hit u for any reason thats not right at all but u shouldnt be in a relationshipp with abuse in it cause its not healthy and it nevers comes out to be better he might say he's gonna change but he wont but if u love him so much then u should tell him or try to resolve it but its not right that he puts his hand on u 4 any reason.
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