I've been in love with my best guy friend for years. We tried going out when we first met but he didn't have strong feelings for me, so he dumped me and later on we became really tight. I'm still deeply in love with him and he has a GF who I'm close with too. No one knows how I feel and I know for sure he does not feel the same way. How do I get this wonderful, funny, perfect guy out of my head? What should I do?
Premium1020 answered Saturday August 21 2004, 11:11 pm: I know how it feels ive been down that road before. Well think of it this way.. he gave you a chance right? Atleast you got that one chance but itd be best to stay friends because if you go out and end up having a rocky relationtion then things wont be the same as they were when you were just friends. Give him a little time and eventually hell go out with a bunch of girls and get his heart broken a couple of times lol.. be there for him and be nice and he might realize what a great gal u are and give you another chance. [ Premium1020's advice column | Ask Premium1020 A Question ]
SilentHelper answered Saturday August 21 2004, 8:36 pm: Hello. In reguards to wanting to get your best friend out of your head, that's not going to happen. He's your best friend, and no matter what, you're always going to have feelings for him, no matter if they're friendly or more. It's hard that his girlfriend is close to you and that you have to sit and watch them be so happy. However, there your friends, and you should be happy for them. Don't try to get him out of your head, because that won't help at all. Just be happy for what you guys had, be happy that he's your friend, and know that you'll always have him around. Thank you for your time!
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princs answered Saturday August 21 2004, 8:15 pm: I know exactly how you feel. I was in that same situation for a few years, and its really hard. No one can really tell you what to do it all depends on the person. You could ask him if theres ever a chance for the 2 of you, you know give you some kind of hope. In my situation there was never gonna be a chance for us so i did the hardest thing ever and i had to stop being his friend. It was just too hard for me, i couldnt be around him because i just loved him more and more every time i saw him. I suggest you need to take a break from this guy.
Think about this.....If you werent in love with this guy would you still be his best friend? If your answer is no then i say take a break from this guy and move on. If your answer is yes then keep being friends with him and you'll just have to accept the idea that you might never get to be with him [ princs's advice column | Ask princs A Question ]
MissIiVannaH answered Saturday August 21 2004, 7:03 pm: i know how u feel but im kinda in the same situation but if u try to 4get about him it wont work cause u will end up wanting him more and if he doesn't feel the same way i'm sure he will sometime in the future but dont take actions on ur own hands cause it might not end good so stay friens with him and try to talk to other boiz BUT if he's like everything u wanted then think about it really hard before u do anything but maybe he might like u.well i hope i helped and trust me i know completely well how u feel.good luck [ MissIiVannaH's advice column | Ask MissIiVannaH A Question ]
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