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Hey everybody ! I'm Callie. I'm from St. Louis Missouri.. yes yes SoCo,Mo. I'm 16. sophomore at MHS. 2010 bitchesss. I'm involed in a whole bunch of shit at school .. I'm class president for the 2nd year and a StuCo officer. StuCo is more than a club, it`s a passion. I`m in Paws & Peace, STL, yearbook, A+ tutoring, Sophomore Executive, cheerleading. I`m an over achiever and I love it.
I LOvE to give advice; if you ask me a question you will get an answer. If you ask a dumb question, you will get a dumb answer. Easy as that. You can ask me about anything; I know what I should for my age, maybe more. I've been through alot.. maybe not all personally but I've seen alot of shit happen with my friends and just people around school. I'll help as best as I can. Any question you ask I will answer it as best that I possibly can.. even if it's just and honest answer of " I don't know. "
Don't rate me bad because you feel like it. If I don't answer your question the way you wanted me to, then don't rate me bad.. just don't rate me. If you honsetly think that my advice to you was absolutly horrible then okay rate me bad. I don't mind. Please comment when you rate me thought :)
If you wanna want to ask me anything at all, I have an AIM screen name. Don't send me messages on here saying ILY or HAPPY BIRTHDAY or THANKS or anything like that. Send me an IM or comment. Advicenators gets mad if you send it in my inbox. I also have facebook that I'm compleatly addicted to, it's kinda sad. But if you have a question that you want answered right away, send me a message on facebook. I'm on there atleast twice a day.. not on here so much. If you're not old enought to have facebook.. I also have myspace. I'm on there about once a week. But still.. more than this. I'm really gonna try and start this up again. I really enjoy giving and receiving advice so I'm gonna try hard. My screen name is on the bar along the side. If you IM me I'll tell you my usernames for myspace and what not.
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I'm dating a good Christian boy.. it's been more than 2 months now. He's great in every way, however, all our convos are really "mushy" and "romantic" I guess I am pretty 'innocent' however, I sorta want to spice up our relationship a bit. We never talk 'kinky' or any of the sort. It might be because he's religious.. although that seems like a bit of an excuse. I'm just getting a bit bored, is all.
Is this a stupid request? How can I bring this up to him? Do most people talk kinky with their boyfriend/girlfriends? I'm a little ignorant to all this. Thanks everyone, though.
my bf goes to church all the time too and we have talked about this kind of stuff. we know eachothers limits i guess if thats what you wanna call it. we have been going out for 7 months and i tell him when i am bored with our status and he usually agrees. it really helps. i think it really depends on your age and how long youve been together. if this is something that is easy for you to talk about then talk to him about it. and if its not then talk to one of his guy friends and have him ask your bf about it. if hes just shy about it then you do something first! although mushy conversations are always good! lol! i hope i helped!
XO KALIE
Im sick and i have been for the last 3 days...I dont knw wat i have and i would really like to knw so maybe i can treat it and get better b4 christmas eve/christmas day. here are my symptoms: sore throat, stuffy nose, headache, coughing, stiff neck, getting the chills when i dont take medicine like tylenol for awhile,and not being able to sleep. my mom wont take me to the doctor, the thing that i would love to be without is the sore throat all the other stuff i can deal with. wat should i do?
thnx i rate 5 to anyone who tries!
keep taking your medicine! cough syrup! ohh yes! and have a halls fruit breezer occationally! its probably just a 4-5 day flu or cold. but since you have a headache and a stiff neck i think it might be the flu! hope you feel better! merry christmas!
XO KALIE
I'll make this as quick as i can. I have liked this guy for a while, but he has a girlfriend (who is a total bitch and VERY full of herself). SO in science class he sits across from me, and he started staring at me. I know that he had liked me last year. But now im not sure because of his girfriend in all. So he was like stsaring at me with his hand pressed up against his chin like he was admiring me or somtheing. Then he smiled and reached out to grab my hand, but then the bell rang and i kind of ran out. So what do you think he thinks of me? Would it be terrible if i tried to flirt back? Will he breakup with his incredibly annoying Gf? Thanks!
guys can be like that, you never know what they are thinking! they can like more then one girl tho so he might have feelings for you again/still. i say flirt back! if shes a bitch like you say she is then shell get mad at him not you and she would dump him! and if he likes you that much then hell dump his gf!
XO KALIE
I was just out for a walk to the nearest grocery store to pick up some stocking stuffers. I ran into my ex bf. He was walking towards me. I smiled at him and he looked right at me and didnt smile or even say hi. He kind of looked uncomftable.
My feelings were a little hurt because even though we broke up 5 years ago I still consider him to have been a big part of my life, he was my first bf and we spent a year together. I lost my virginity to him. I was the one that ended the relationship and at the time he was choked, but that was so long ago. I figured he would have moved on like I have.
Do you think his reaction meant he still has feelings for me? And why do you think he acted the way he did?
i think that he just didnt really have anything to say. but just being friendly he shoulda said something! if you dont keep in touch then he shoulda been like "hey i havent seen you in so long! hows life" and if you do keep in touch he shoulda been like "i just talked to you 20 minutes ago" or the next time you talk to him be like "what was up with that? acting like i was a total stranger" and your relationship was ended 5 years ago, dont get your hopes up about him likeing you again! no offence!
XO KALIE
ok...im 13/f and well i had a bf this last summer and he broke up with me but the thing is he was perfect for me . i no everyone says that but he really was everything i could ask for in a guy and i had liked him for about 2 years. when he broke up with me i was devastated and i still haven't gotten over him and he promised we would be friends but whenever i try to talk to him on aim he signs off. and i can't stop thinking about him. he's always on my mind. like when the song we belong together comes on it makes me cry b/c that was the first song that we danced to and im just ready to get over. help
awwww thats sooooo cute! i believe you, he probably is the perfect one for you. if you guys are really ment to be you'll get together somehow someway. i think that's kinda rude that he signs off when you im him. do you ever call him?? if you do, when youre on the fone with him play that song in the background to see what he has to say about it. i dont think that you will compleatly 100% totally get over him. it really hasnt been that long. if he promised to be friend then i really doubt that he ment it. there's like a 2 out of 5 chance that youre gonna be friends after a serious relationship. im practically best friend with on of my ex boyfriends. we went out off and on for 3 years and now im with the man of my dreams and the ex is just a best friend and nothing more! i guess it helps if you were friends before the relationship to still be friends after it. if you talk to him at home or at school normally, i think you should let it go for a while dont talk to him, and then start talking again after like a week or two. and see if hell talk to you or if you have to be the one to talk to him first! i really hope i helped!
XO KALIE
So a few weeks ago i just got dumped, and i really like this guy a lot still. I always ask himif he likes me and sometimes he says kinda and sometimes he says no. He acts really cute to me and stuff when no one else is around, or he will tell me he likes me but then the next day he will say he doesnt then 5minutes later he will tell me that he loves me. I like this guy so much and i would do anything to get him back.
Does he like me? Any ideas to win him back?
once you love someone, that love never compleatly goes away. so keep that in mind! well i think that he does like you but he doesnt want to admit it because he is the one who broke up with you. you said that you always ask him if he likes you... dont do that. he probably feels pressure and wants to give you an answer that will make you happy instead of the truth. maybe he's playing hard to get! you can never really know. just give it time and if he loves you back, he will ask you back! but make sure that he knows how you feel about him, he might think that you dont love him anymore and move on. so just make sure that he knows that you still care for him. if youre the one who normally calls him or im's him, dont; see if he im's you.
XO KALIE
hey um like my teacher is a dumb ass and when we get all the credit for something she things that we are spoiled and everyone hates her except for Megan the teachers pet. Megan always hugs my teacher and the teacher only gives her hugs and stuff. Every 5 minutes. Megan gets out of her seat to go hug my teacher she is probably only being that way to get attention. well i'm going to get to the point how do i aviod Megan from hugging my teacher so much thats about 120 hugs each day help me!!!!!!!!!!!
maybe theyre secretly lesbian lovers! i dont know! let her be a teachers pet! shes the suck-up not you! if you dont like her then all well you cant like everyone! and i bet she doesnt like you either! sorry! its megan's life.. she can hug whatever gayass teachers she wants!
XO KALIE
ok well im in eighth grade and like im definately not overweight...and my arms are skinny and stuff and my legs are kinda muscular cause i play sports but you no how like you thighs are kinda fat well i wanna no like exercises where you can make them like muscluar.ooo and like my stomach im thinking of like just not eating because my stomach like kills me i always look at myself in the mirror and think just like uhhhh i wanna lose it and i cant!!!! sooo i dont no what to dooo!!!!
please help!!!
im in 8th grade too and i definatly know where you are coming from. you said it yourself... youre not over weight. keep in shape and youll be fine. you have to eat or you will get so sick and it wont be pretty. ive seen it before. it puts you in bad moods and you are most likely gonna be cranky. if you dont eat at all yeahh youre not getting the fats but youre also not getting the daily nutrients your body needs. just excersize. and i know it is harder during the winter because of the weather but you can make up your own workouts and diets. do it with a friend. buy some richard simmons videos! lol! do yoga! thats always fun! eat litely but make sure you have enough food in your system. try small snacks like: cheerios or fruit in the morning school sered lunch (not very appetizing i know but you cant really do anything about it) or you can bring an apple or orange slices to lunch and after school have some veggie sticks or toast and for dinner eat what is served with a side of a vegtable or cottage cheese. if you are used to drinking 2% milk, work your way down to skim. drink 1% for a couple of weeks then get skim. after a while you cant tell the difference! i did the same thing! but dont think of it as loosing weight; think of it as staying in shape! i hope i helped!
XO KALIE
I just got ares and im downloading some music but i cant think of any songs. i like rap&&hiphop. if u could give me a list of songs id appreciate it!!! thank you!! =)
either me or my friends love all of these songs--
black eyed peas - my humps
nelly- grillz
eminem-my band
mariah carey- we belong together
the click five- just the girl
fall out boy- grand theft autumn
kelly clarkson- because of you
mariah carey- dont forget about us
pussycat dolls- sticwitu
fall out boy- dance dance
gwen stafani- hollaback girl
d4l- laffy taffy
korn- twisted transister
eminem- when im gone
all american rejects- dirty little secret
yellowcard- ocean avenue
relient k- be my escape
ciara- oh
aly and aj- do you believe in magic
lindsay lohan- confessions of a broken heart
backstreet boys- incomplete
city high- what would you do
green day- wake me up when september ends
hawthorn heights- ohio is for lovers
ciara- 1,2 step
weezer- beverly hills
gavin degraw- i dont wanna be
missy elliot- lose control
fall out boy- sugar were goin down
mariah carey- shake it off
maroon 5- shiver
new found glory- all downhill from here
omarion- girlfriend
outkast- roses
t.i.- rubberband man
paparoach- scars
pussycat dolls- dontcha
usher- caught up
rascal flatts- skin
just my ideas. a couple of my faves. i listen to everything. take the ones you like and go from there! have fun!
XO KALIE
just monday my boyfriend and me had a fight.You see on sunday i called him and his sister answered and she was telling me that my boyfriend and his ex-girlfriend ericka had a relationship ever since we were going out but she ever found out about are relationship and the next day he was telling me that he was not cheating on me. But i did not believe so i asked his friend that he never lies to if he was telling the truth so he was but because of his past it interfere our relationship and on tuesday he wrote a letter saying that he still liked me and never would cheat on me at the end of the letter he asked if i trust him and i said yes so ever since that day me and him are still going out but now i am still having thoughts if he is still liking any of his ex's but now he is backing away from his friends that are gurls and his ex's. I am wondering if i did the right thing.
it takes a while to gain trust, a moment to break it and a lifetime to get it back! you might still be thinking about his ex and where he stands with her but if he took the time to write you that note and came back to YOU then he obviosuly cares for you waaaayyyy more then her. although you might not fully trust him yet, if you truely love him then you will soon! i hope i helped you!
XO KALIE
hey! you know me and i know you! i dont know what ull say to this but i love you! ive always loved you callie! p.s. im a boy and uve known me for a loooong time! i just thought i should let you know
NICK??!! ahh baby i love you so much! it seems like ive known you forever; really it does! i think its funny how we dont really remember HOW we met! all well! who knows!?! i love my christmas presents and i cant wait to see you again! i love you forever!
XO KALIE
does caco butter smoth your ass and does it somoth your other private parts?
thnakz 14/f
haha! dont make fun of me! BTW your spelling sucks!
XO KALIE
my nose is very sore and irritated from blowing it so much. what can i put on it to soothe it?
COCOA BUTTER! IT CURES EVERYTHING! i totally promise! plus it smells really good!
XO KALIE
13/f ok so i moved to a completely different state and i came into the 8th grade. well i met this really nice group of girls and then they introduced me to their guy friends. and i lets say his name is jack. well he's on my bus and i really like him so we have been talking online a while and we've talked in schooll and on the bus a couple of time. but then his friend jordan on the bus asked me infront of him if i liked him and if i wanted to go out with him. so i sed he's my friend besides i'm not sure if he wants you aking this infront of me. so jordan kept saying over the next few weeks why do you like her jack, do you wanna go out with her and sumtimes her sits with me on the bus and i'm rele confused and i dunno if he likes me or not but jordan is gonna ask him if he likes me and hopefully he'll tell me but i really like him and i dunno what to do please help!
boys can be like that sometimes but it can be for real and 'jack' is just shy! or maybe theyre playing around; thats how it is at my school! i think you should talk to 'jack' about it alone online or something.. be like "okay 'jordan' is really getting on my nerves asking me that kinda stuff and talking about it all the time and if he's lying about it then he needs to shutup its not funny and if its true then you should tell me yourself" and see what he says and go from there! hope i helped!
XO KALIE
My bf is a stubborn jerk, to be blunt. Well for starters he got mad at me the last time I phoned him becuase it was before 6 pm. He moved away to another province 6 weeks ago for a job. He hasnt phoned me or emailed me since then. I also suspect he was annoyed becuase I didnt sound more upset that he was moving.
Everyone has warned me about long distant relationships, and I used to think me and my bf could do it. But now I can see what they were warning me about.
I cannot believe that my bf hasnt even wished me a merry xmas yet! Or bought me a gift and sent it in the mail!!
So my question is should I wait for him to email me or should I?
honestly, if he hasnt emailed you in a month in a half then i honestly dont think he will. definatly email him and see what's up. and the christmas present thing.. either he's a terrible bf or he is an amazing bf and doing something special to surprise you. call or email him and find out what's going on.
XO KALIE
ok well this christmas seems like its going to be terrible... because i'm like gettting older, and all i can think about is who my friends are these days.. so it makes me in a terrible mood the whole time. I don't know what to do, because i'm not even excited. Ugh, somebody help please, what can i do to be happy? and i'm sorry if this didn't make sence..i'm just not really in a good mood =\
don't worry about who your friends are or what people think of you. don't count your friends, count ON the people who love you. if you have one person who loves you and will be there for you no matter what, then you're fine! christmas is a time to be happy and a season to spend with the people most important in your life. if your friends are true friends, they will be there for you!
ok so this is gonna be confusing but here it goes. i know this guy (nick) that my best guy friend introduced me to. well things were alrite and then we started getting REALLY flirty with eachother...like hey baba, i love you, watcha doin talkin to you hottie, ALL this stuff...some stuff i dont even wanna say. but ok heres my problem: well i knew he had this other girl that he likes i give him advice on how to get close to her and stuff. before it didnt bother me that i was kinda hot and heavy with a guy with another girl on his mind also, and who's ALSO friends with my ex b/f. but now..it bothers me. i wanna get out. he's a really great guy and i wanna still love him but just as a friend. i still wanna be "his girl" but just as a friend. i'm afraid i can't do this, not flirt and everything without him getting mad and not even wanting to be friends anymore (he told me he likes me a lot too..but we live a little ways away) so how do i get to not flirting really a lot with him and just sort of sink in to being friends. also my best friend that introduced us has in different words pretty much said to me to be careful. that he just really likes girls and all this. how do i get not SO close to him, but still be close friends.
one way is to find a guy that you like better to keep him off of your mind. i know that it is really hard to do and it's not the easiest thing in the world to accept the fact that he likes more then just you. it's really hard! another way is for a while, take a break from talking to him and spend more time with your friends. they will be sure to keep your mind off of him. even though when you are trying to not think of someone it makes you think of them even more, once you get caught up in conversation you will end up being like "ooooohh yeahh nickk...." i really hope i helped!
XO KALIE