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whats christmas?
ok well this christmas seems like its going to be terrible... because i'm like gettting older, and all i can think about is who my friends are these days.. so it makes me in a terrible mood the whole time. I don't know what to do, because i'm not even excited. Ugh, somebody help please, what can i do to be happy? and i'm sorry if this didn't make sence..i'm just not really in a good mood =\
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All Christmases are terrible. Just grit your teeth through it, or pretend it's just a normal day.
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well listen to some christmas a nd watch some christmas movies and youll feel better. thats what i do. but im sooooo excited for christmas....just think about it, all the fun, family, presents that you dont have any room for. oh i love it! you should too!
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Well... as you get older, Christmas may seem to lose it's magic. For a little whle at least. I suppose these turbulent teenaged years are... well, difficult to muddle through. Don't worry. I feel the same way. Tomrrow is Christmas Eve... and so what? That's how I feel. I don't really care about the presents.. yeah, sure, a fence panal here, a CD there, a scarf here... yeah, ok. It's nothing big. I don't really care.
Maybe you're just in a bad mood right now, or maybe you are just like I am.
I was skating earlier... in a short sleeved shirt and cargo pants. What's up with that!? When is it warm enough to go without a jacket so near to Christmas? I just .. I'm not excited either.
I went to the Nutcracker ballet, and have watched half a million Christmas movies (all of which promise that if you're not in the Christmas spirit now, you will be when you fisish watching the movie)... and still, nothing.
Don't feel bad. You are not alone.
I don't have a lot of friends so they don't usually occupy my mind... except like 20 hours a day. ;)
If you haven't watched a lot of Christmas movies, try doing that, and wearing red and green, drinking egg nog, and wishing all your friends a merry Christmas (over IM, or E-mail, or try calling them on the phone). Other than that.. how should I know?
I think you'll get back into it though. There's probably between 3-9 years (more or less, depending) when you are just a little .. confused and don't enjoy things like you used to. When you get a little older, you'll like it again.
-FunnyCide
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don't worry about who your friends are or what people think of you. don't count your friends, count ON the people who love you. if you have one person who loves you and will be there for you no matter what, then you're fine! christmas is a time to be happy and a season to spend with the people most important in your life. if your friends are true friends, they will be there for you!
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well just have a nice cristmas and spend time with your family and friends because thats what Christmas is about!
Merry Christmas,
~*Melinda*~
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It happens to everyone :(
Try and take your mind of those kinds of things during the holidays, spends tons of time with your family, they will always cheer you up. Try doing one of your favorite things that make you relaxed & happy. Sorry i can't say much, but take care.
♥ Alli
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Im going through the same exact thing you are. Right now, I have one friend because everyone else is changing.. I even lost my two best friends this year, but no way am I gonna let that get to me. All i can do is forget about it. You can't change the past. Don't let this situation ruin your Christmas! It will get better.. just don't think about it and it won't get you in a bad mood. I think the not being as excited part is because your getting older. Im still pretty excited but not as excited as I was in the past years! I hope I helped! ♥
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ah sometimes i feel like you are. sometimes you just have to ask friends straight out. and think your not going to live forever, make the best out of what you have right now in front of you. i hope your christmas turns out ok, sorry this isnt great advice. :)
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