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Imet this guy when Iwas 17 we had this off and on relationship im 41. He ask me what do you want out of me ididnt answer him he said this is going nowhere i dont want to go out with you.i answered him 10 months later i told him in a letter get to know you have fun and a relationship. when he called he said i was flattered by your letteri said i forgot about the letter.Hesaid hes to immature for a relatioship hes 41.buthe said I can come over his house.Do you think this guy will call or is he looking fora roll in the hay.or was he mad cause isaid oh i forgot about the letter.for years ago i was suppose to call him and i didnt thats how it ended 4 years ago is he paying me back by saying he doesnt want a relationship. thanks for your advice i keep blming me. julie 41 female (Indeed)
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Ok well, wow. If he thinks he's too immature for a relationship at 41, I think that maybe you need to just forget about him and move on. It doesn't really get much more mature than such an age. I think you need to really just let go. If he's interested in having you over but has already told you he isn't interested in a relationship, then yes, he's probably looking for a "roll in the hay."
[sidenote: your typing scared the hell out of me]
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My best friend has OCD... and she reminds me of it like 24/7. Whenever she leaves the house she asks like over and over if she left sumthin on and such. I keep reminding her that OCD is just that she is detailed and stuff like that (my parents are both doctors and explained it). It's driving me NUTS! help! what do I do?
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Mess up her stuff and then laugh at her! Just kidding. If she really does have the disorder, I'd give her a break. It's not really her fault that she obsesses over these things, so you should be a bit tolerant. Or before you go somewhere, before she has a chance to worry - tell her everything was turned off and there isn't anything to worry about. Maybe she needs to get help for her problem. Since your parents are doctors, ask them what you can do to help her.
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hey. yeah, i'm an insomniac. as long as i can remember i haven't ever been able to fall asleep is less that like 3 hours. so i basically go to bed at 3 and wake up at 6.30 (school days). i don't take medicine for it but i need to! i want to sleep and my mom has sonata (i guess she also has insomnia) and i want to take one. she'd never notice and i dont think she'd really care. should i take one? i mean what bad will it do? also, does anyone else take sleeping pills or have insomnia? thanx (Indeed)
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Do not take pills that aren't prescribed for you. You have no idea what the side effects will be. Sleeping pills are not healthy for the most part and can do a number on you, so don't even go near your mother's. If you really think you need to, tell your mom you need to go to the doctor and have yourself a chat with a professional. They might be able to give you some remedies besides pills or they might prescribe something for you that is actually meant for you.
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Yo Fern, I would like to say that the USA is totally better than your Canada. We are UNITED!!!! hehehe....beat that.
Muah
AG (Indeed)
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My country is better than yours because the United States of ...um... CRAPPINESS, um... SUCKS!
Yea! Move to Canada!
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Yay Fern! Your answers amuse me greatly! And you're so lucky to be Canadian.. I think I'm gonna move there as soon as I can.. Is Canada as awesome as I think it is, or am I better off in Iceland? :) (Indeed)
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Canada is awesome, maybe even... awesom..er than you already imagine.
Ever watched the movie Canadian Bacon? ALL TRUE. Heh, well sort of. Really, when you compare things between the states and Canada, there are only a few big differences. We are just cooler in general however.
We have better potato chips and we have poutine. This all equates to us being cooler and awesome.
Come visit, we like people. There were Americans at my place of employment the other day and I decided we have cooler money than America also :P
Screw Iceland!
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23/f my holidays were ruined.... when my chritmas tree fell................on me. i was rushed to the hospital but they were unable to get out all of the pine needles. i do smell like a car freshener, but the pain where the trunk hit me wont go away. i have been recomended for a therapudic setion to get over the terror but i couldn't pay for it becuase of the hospital bill, so i decided to use my computer to ask before i had to sell it..... how should i get the pine needles out? and, while im at it, how do i stop smelling like a car freshener...... and which pain reliever should i use? (Indeed)
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Aside from pulling the needles out, I suggest you not put your Christmas tree upside down next year.
Be useful and go sit in someone's car at least.
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Your name is Erin? I LOVE THAT NAME!!! When I'm older I will call my first daughter Erin (providing I have a daughter). And when I call her Erin, I will think of you and thank you for the name. (Indeed)
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Your child will be the devil just like I am!
Muwahahahha.
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which day/days of your cycle are you LEAST likely to get pregnant? which day/days of your cycle are you MOST likely to get pregnant, and how do you tell? be specific, dont just say "your period." and dont tell me not to have sex or use protection cause that's not what i asked. thanks! (Indeed)
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This seems to support what others have said: "The trouble in young women is that it generally can take your menstrual cycle up to five years to regulate, so charting your cycles simply isn't very reliable or easy to do. If you want to hazard a guess, then from about three days after your period, for about ten days, avoid any sexual intercourse, or sexual activity with a risk of pregnancy. HOWEVER, you STILL need to use a form of birth control for the rest of that month: those days are simply about the days you are MOST likely to get pregnant. That doesn't mean you cannot become pregnant on the other days. You can."
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Fern? Blindfolded? Interesting. (Indeed)
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I have a wooden spoon and I am not afraid to beat you senseless with it.
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Hello, this is K'. May I bear your children? (Indeed)
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Yes on the following condition:
You develop impecable reflexes.
We will have to coolest children ever.
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are you allowed to answer stuff that you find in the hell mode questions? even if its not a terribly amazing question? thanks. (Indeed)
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Matt or his friend, hello. It is not recommended because those questions were obviously deleted for a reason, but there isn't anything stopping you from answering them. I'm not sure they will show up on your column however.
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I am holding a guitarpick-in-mouth vigil until you return. (Indeed)
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You should have sent me that message telepathically and I would have been back sooner.
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omgz! since lyk3 I hav3 b33n hom3 w3 hav3 not spok3n. DAMN THIS CRAPPY COMPLUGER! We should hang out, but just not in public, because I'm like all embarrassed to be seen with you and what not. Joel called me on Sunday and was all "where were you Friday? You gave me the wrong cell phone number!" and then I felt like a jerk. Respondez vous to this question or email me, or LMAOROFLWTFBBQ call me! Hope your examine went well. (Indeed)
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Let's just kill Joel! Don't worry, we both look bad because of that situation. I will take the crap for it, because I fit the part of an evil evil harpy or something. Totally.
New years, what are you doing ho.
I cleaned my room. You are impressed, I know.
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Hi, right off the bat if you know nothing about the looks of classic cars from the early 70's and back dont even respond, if your going to respond just to say a color and dont know what a valiant looks like, go to google and type in 1968 valaint and look for one you lazy bum, but onto the question. Does anyone know of any good colors to paint a 1968 Valiant100 4 door sedan. i do ont want two tone, nor do i want metallica, also i do not want strips just one straight color that you think looks good on a valiant, you can also look at my profile picture and you will see my car. (Indeed)
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Black or medium blue.
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You give really great advice and I was wondering if you could tell me how to do the elevator down and elevator up thing. Could you please help me thank you. (Indeed)
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I can't tell you. You have enough crap on your column for one life time.
Seriously.
Get rid of the music.
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ok my column name is *MeEe* and last week i banned my self so i could study for finals well it said that my account would be reactivated on DEcember 17, 2004 12:00 pm. and now it is december 17 12:20pm and my account is still banned. i thought maybe you could help me since your a level two mod? (Indeed)
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Alright I realize this is a bit late now but the site runs on a set time, and that may be an hour to a couple hours off of your actual time. This might not be the reason, but it's a pretty good bet.
If you are unbanned right now then it might have just taken the server a little bit of extra time to hash for account back into activity... or something.
I'm going to check right now and see if you are still banned, if you are I'll try and fix it.
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Ok I'm 13 years old me and my boyfriend are having sex what do i do it feels good? (Indeed)
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Ok well, it may feel good but you are going to end up either pregnant or without a real relationship. At 13, it really isn't healthy physically or emotionally to be having sex. Really. It isn't. Is there anyone that is an adult that you could talk to about this? Such as a parent? I know that seems impossible but you do need to talk to someone about this.
If you are concerned that you are having sex or think you are too young - stop. If your boyfriend isn't ok with that, or tries to make you feel guilty about it, then you need to get out of that relationship. Talk to your boyfriend about your concerns.
If you continue to have sex, at least be safe and talk to your parents or doctor about birth control and use a condom.
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well I am a 19 year old female who has been in a relationship with a guy for 4 years. I feel i am insecure about myself and constantly feel myself feeling and thinking that i am not as pretty as the girls that he sees. I have become controlling because i tell him he cant look at other girls and he can not have girl friends. I feel if he loves me like he says he does then why does he need to talk to other girls. I do not like him to work with pretty girls because i am afraid that he will flirt with them and not tell me. I get angry when he stares at other girls. We are constntly fighting. Is this all my fault. How can i stop being so scared that he is going to leave me for someone better. Even though everyday he says he wont i still get scared. And when i even see a pretty girl i say she is ugly so he wontlook . i know we care and love eachother so much . i do not want us to fight we are getting married soon please help my problem stop (Indeed)
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The most important thing in a relationship is trust and you do not trust this guy. This puts your relationship in bad situation - he wants your trust but your own insecurities are preventing you from trusting him.
Instead of thinking "if he loves me like he says he does then why does he need to talk to other girls." Why not think "if he loves me like he says he does - what do I have to worry about?" If you continue controlling him, which you are, the relationship is going to end up one sided. Every girl gets a bit jealous when the guy they care about looks at other girls, but you have to realize that that has no bearing on your relationship - he doesn't love them, he loves you. If he didn't love you he wouldn't be on the verge of marrying you and he wouldn't have stayed with you for 4 years.
You need to sit down and rethink why you are still together, because you've been together for four years, why is it he hasn't dumped you for someone else? That's because he loves you. Wake up and realize what you have isn't going to go away until you yourself push it away with your jealous and controlling attitude. Learn to trust him.
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hey,
i was banned for a little over 3 days, and im on day 2 right now. under reasons, one of them was for having multiple columns. i checked the why you were banned FAQ, and it had nothing to do with mutliple columns. so am i allowed to or not? because i have a brother that has two, and i have one that is currently in action, while my frecklymatty is for inbox questions. so is this ok or not?
thanks. (Indeed)
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Hey Matt. No, you weren't banned on account of the columns. The banning was for the constant sending of personal messages to columnists I am certain.
I wouldn't worry much about the columns situation but concentrate more on your behaviour with asking questions to other columnists and your chatroom behaviour.
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wut happen 2 ur pic y0 (Indeed)
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it ded
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