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so i've only thrown up about two times in my life and that was when i had my tonsils removed when i was 6.. all of a sudden a few days ago i felt very nauseas and threw up multiple times. now, three days later i'm still feeling nauseas.
i'm just concerned because this is very rare for me.
- my digestive system has always been messed up. i don't often "go to the bathroom" so i figured i threw up because it was a way of getting everything out. but yet, i'm still feeling sick.

Is there any chance your pregnant?
If not, you may have just caught a stomach bug and just take some vitamin c and get some rest.

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so i'm a freshman in college and i feel like all my friends are just throwing themselves out there, like its the college thing to do. but i don't like being a slut, i'm the only one whos still a virgin because i feel like i haven't found the right guy yet. even all the guys i've messed around with i've felt a connection with, like i actually cared about them. i'm not into one night stands but i feel left out when all my friends talk about it:/ not to brag but i am a pretty girl and guys do try to get with me but i'm just not into it, i want a serious boyfriend...what should i do?

Are you really a freshman in college because this is a question a freshman in high school would ask.
If you don't want to sleep around don't. Idiot.

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I don't know what to do with him! I found out from my bff that my bf made a facebook group thing about our relationshp. I went and red a few things on it and it is personal and nothing anybody should know but us so I told him I knew he had a secret he was keeping from me but not what it was so he would tell me or something but he didn't. i kinda thought that he posted stuff and didn't think it was bad and I wanted to give him chances to say so but he just said he didnt have no secrets so i went back to read the rest and he had made it private only so now it is hidden from me.

I guess what I am asking is if he didn't think this was wrong why did he hide it when i found out? He still denies everything and now i got no proof because i cant see it anymore!!! i have been crying about this and i feel betrayed like he has a secret life on facebook or something! should i stay with him if he isn't going to be honest and still hides things?

Sorry if this is too long!

Why did he even create the facebook page in the first page, it seems really odd.
But to answer your question, no never stay with someone who does things like that. For one is just plain creepy that he would even make that page, and if you think about it if he is hiding a page on facebook whats going to stop him from lying to you about other things or cheating on you.
Once a lier, ALWAYS a lier.

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Alright, so i was messing around with an application on my i pod touch that allowed me to view websites through my computer. i had a porn website on my i pod, my parents walked to tell me goodnight in so i closed the app. Then because the app closed, the porn website popes up full screen on my computer. the whole time it was up my back was to the monitor and i told my parents goodnight. now i feel sick and i just want to die.

And your question is....?

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Hello i just came back from the vet today and i was given a bag of science diet for my toy fox terrier who is only a few months old. I've been giving her Iams small/toy breed food since ive gotten her and i was just wondering if the food the vet gave me which iks science diet is better than the Iams, and if so why is it better and is it worth it spending the extra money?

Thanks

The science diet maybe a little better but all dog food are all the same, the first three ingredients ie important ones are the same.
So there really isn't much different in foods it really is just wasting your money.

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I'm 18/F
I've been unemployed for months now. I've worked at one job for three weeks but I was dissatisfied with my co workers so I quit. I regret that very much now because it's been 4 months and I still haven't got another job. Before my first job(the three weeks), I was searching for 3 months. Why is it so hard for me to get employed. I'm competent and skilled to do tasks with excellent efficiency. I've applied to over 60 jobs. Walmart passed me over but I thought the scenario questions were hard to answer because I could've think of situations I've experienced that would be relevant to the scenarios and I did my best to answer. I was pressing for answers and what I delivered was weak. Also they thought I was nervous but I wasn't at all. I don't understand why the perceive my struggle for answers as nervousness. I interviewed with Moe's and I believe I did well with what I delivered but I had trouble trying to come back to check back for their feed back on my application status. I never know when to come in and when I come in they tell me to come back again another day when the hire manager is there. One thing that bothers me is that the hire manager and the interviewer are two different people and it makes my position harder. I came back to this mexican restaurant once and the hispanic guy couldn't understand me and the manager came in and I tried to gesture that I acknowledged his presence and the hispanic guy didn't even realize he was there. The manager stood there smiling as I made a fool of myself trying to speak to the hispanic guy. I kept repeating my question and he is like you want an application? And I'm like wtf? That's NOT what I asked you imbecile. I didn't say that but I was thinking it. I blew it. Another time I was interviewed, I was very cold and I shook the whole time and I made the mistake of talking too much about my former employee than about myself. The shorter the interview, the worse it went. The interview with Moe's was long but I haven't been able to get to speak to their hiring manager and for some reason the fear of rejection keeps me from going and visiting to ask about my application status. It's been a week and a half now since I interviewed. Is it too late now? I feel like I keep messing up my opportunities. I did get a job with Vector but the didn't call me to inform me of their relocating so that's now off the list. I would have loved the opportunity of the experience even if I only went to the initial training seminar. Working with them required purchasing their product and I don't have the money for that. I did find my first client. Too bad I won't be selling. I've learned a new technique that is really efficient to my job hunting: The phone Book. Yeah, I go down the list. If the say We're hiring, I get them an application and then I got myself an interview. If they say we're only taking applications, I look over them as a waste of time because that is usually how it is. Is there a place in the state of Georgia that helps the unemployed get employed? Also is there a such thing as unemployed insurance? I have my phone bill and gas bills to pay. I could do temp services but the problem would be that I wouldn't be by the phone at all times because my cell is off and if you don't pick up, they go on to the next person on their list. I'm willing to do any kind of work. Even dirty work or heavy lifting. Anything! I wear the right attire. Different places expect different wardrobe. Walmart made me go home and change into a blouse which I don't own so I had to borrow a friend's. Sorry I'm rambling and all over the place with my words. I need help on when to go back and ask about how my application is doing: got the job or not? I need to learn to phrase a question better to ask about my application status. Just an understandable formation because when I asked of the status of my application, only 1 out of 2 understand what I mean. Also I applied to Outback and they gave me a test. I failed it. It asked scenario questions and what I would do in different positions. Also it had some sort of IQ test. The shapes were hard to make sense(asked which shape didn't fit in or whether a shape went with what shape) but I know I got all the mathematical questions right easy. I'm great with calculus and algebra, and geometry. I believe I took the test too fast; I thought at the time that I was being timed for completion. I know that even though I didn't pass the scantron test, I knew I could perform all the tasks of the job I applied for and I knew I had the wisdom to handle different situations. I learn really well with experience. I also need help on how to answer the most common questions asked in an interview. I probably acquire more help but maybe I can get a job with the help you can give. I hope so. I do keep eye contact and I shake firmly and I try to give them what they are looking for.

Oh my god no wonder you can't get a job, did you mean to post in your journal and accidentally post here?
If you ramble this much during an interview I wouldn't hire you. You can't even find the question you are trying to ask in this mess.
Learn to just get to the point someone doesn't want to hire someone if it seems for them to get from point a to b they also need to stop by f q and z.
When asking you scenario questions everyone knows they are scenarios that never happen you just tell them what they want to hear, don't try and think of a time when you had a close experience because that's where you fumble.
If I get to the interview I always get the job here are some pointers:
Show up early,
Dress well even if its for McDonald's (ie black dress slacks and a nice blouse)
Walk in with a bubbly personality and be overly friendly to the staff and managers,
When they ask you a question make it short and straight to the point do not ever ramble,
Look online for sample interview questions to be prepared for answers you don't have to give honest answers and try to always start with 'my previous job/ situation taught me how to (answer question) because it shows you learn and take your knowledge with you.

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I already have one tattoo that goes from my pelvic bone (hip) to my back and I'm getting the second one done on my upper rib right under my breast. Its a short quote. I'm getting it there no matter what but I was just wondering how bad it would hurt. The one on my hip didn't hurt as bad as I thought it would but it still had a few spots that made me cringe, and a few spots that actually tickled. So I know what a tattoo feels like but what about the ribs?

I only have one tattoo and its on my rib and it was the worst pain I have ever felt in my life. Its high on my ribs and a few times the pain would shoot through to my nipples even. But I have another friend who has a tattoo there as well and she laughed through it because it tickled her.

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I am asking this for a friend. my friend like to know where it says in the bible that clebrated christmass and jesus birthday. sorry bad grammer.

Like the other person said Christmas is not in the bible. What the other person got wrong though is yes around the date of December 25 is a pagan holiday the pagans didn't celebrate for Jesus birthday. The church in trying to convert more pagans made most the christian holidays on pagan holidays to make it easy to switch.

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Hello I am a women that has known another women for a very long time. Her and i both had husbands and kids. Her husband died. She still likes sex but she has no selfisteen so she is going out with a man who treats her like crap.I think she just keeps him around for sex.She tells me hes no good all the time and them she sneeks around and gos and see him. Do you think if i went and bought her a sex toy she would leave him alone and what would she think of me for geting her this kind of presents

If you are unsure, ask her. Instead of you going and buying something for her, have a girls date and go together (if she is down with the idea).

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My boyfriend, 15 and I, 14 are very close. We've been together for a year and a half. He's NOT gay. I'm just wondering why we don't do anything. We've never been on a date. Well, football games but nothing specified, "date" material. We HAVEN'T KISSED. We do some things though. We touch each others legs? I've kissed his neck? We hug (: haha. I just want to KNOW that i'm turning him on. He says I do but... I'm just not too sure. When we're at lunch, I'll touch his leg and as my hand gets more "up there" (not his penis just upper,upper thigh) He won't let. He'll move his legs closer together and he'll move to holding my hand instead. What does this mean? Do I turn him on? I know this is a good guy, but... seriously?
I'm just seriously wondering why he hasn't DONE anything. Can any guys or girls please tell me, because I just can't figure it out.

Are you for real? You are 14 and trying to whore yourself to your boyfriend. He's only 15, most guys that age aren't ready to do anything, your body also isn't ready to do anything, you just think you are supposed to because of TV. If you really like him you'll leave him alone or he'll leave you because he is mature enough to know he isn't ready and doesn't need a whore for a girlfriend.

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OKAY. Had the same boyfriend for..4 1/2 months now. I'm really starting to have these intense passionate feelings for him. We're even starting to talk about having sex. Like, i feel like i love him. But i CANT trust him. Like, i have this friend. she's seriously..the biggest slut you will ever meet. and i guess he was with his friends and they all hung out. so when this happened i TOLD HIM UPFRONT i don't like him doing that, and that it makes me real upset..so..now..on facebook..hes TALKING to her. like honestly, WHAT THE FUCK. Also..whenever im with him..his phone goes off like 200 times. and its all girls. and it just like..i don't know! He gets mad at me for not trusting him..but honestly, how can i! I talked to my bestfriend about this..and she said its because hes just such a nice guy. But i really feel like hes such a flirt..and like, i can't. this is actually to the point where it hurts. and idk what to do! help pleeeeease!

Try writing a sentence without the word 'like' in it then think about having sex.

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I just started taking the pill about a month ago and I was wondering if it can affect your mood? I've been pretty sad and stressed lately..but it comes and goes. I just started college so I don't know whether to blame this major change or the pill..or probably some of both. Any insight would be helpful! thanks

The pill can affect your mood. Since you just started your body just might need to adjust to the change in hormones. But if after two or three months if it doesn't get better or gets worse, talk to you doctor about putting you on a different kind.

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Hi I am 18 years old female. I have taken one a teen advantage, one a day womens, and now I am currently taking centrum womens multivitamin. And each one after a few hours my stomach gets terrible cramps. I taken them with food. I've tried taking them in the morning in the after noon and at night, but the same thing always happens. What i am asking is what is the best multivitamin to take for a sensitive stomach?
Thank you!

I have the same problem and I talked to my doctor about it and she said to take chewables, or the drink kind.

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like diet cleanses for the body? or drink mixes or something? or pills? but they must really work!
thanks

I've done this before and it made me feel amazing afterwards.

http://www.lemondetox.com/index.php

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So i have been dating this guy for a couple months. He is a really great guy. Everytime we have sex i orgasm from sex alone. Ive heard this is a mental thing, but its never happened until now. I am not complaining, i love it. I just want to know why you think this is happening? Do you think i am just extremely connected to him? or do you think its just luck? What about your personal experiences? I just feel that it has to be more than "luck", but im not sure. Any info would be great!

Thanks

Who ever said to orgasm from intercourse is a mental thing was wrong. Its just not common for women to orgasm from it I believe its only 20%. So its not from you being connected with him, it really is just lucky that you can orgasm from it.

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How can i still look tomboyish with this shirt. I like the style that they have these days and the leggings and tights but is still want to have my guyish side there with this shirt.

http://charminglychic.com/wp-content/uploads/2008/12/kimchi-blue-buffalo-pintuck-tunic.jpg


Just wear it with jeans, it will look 'guyish'.

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I really need to buy a car of my own. I have to go to work every day and my mom is so tired of me using hers. I told my mom I would go out and look at cars soon but I don't know anything!

It'll be my first time buying a car and I don't have a whole lot of money. I figured I would go to a dealer and make payments or something on a decent car. I'm not really looking for shiny and new though. Just something that takes me to work and stuff.

What should I know before going to look at cars? What do I need to check out, look for, ask about, etc? Any tips on buy a car would be extremely helpful!

i only have one thing to add to what the other persons answer, and that is to take an older male with you.
sellers know that (most) girls don't know about cars and will try and screw you over but if you are with an older male they will be less likely to try in fear of getting caught and losing a sell all together.

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well i broke up with my ex
were not friends anymore
still love him, in the way that i always will. because he was my first true love.
i feel as if i dont have the capacity in my heart to love like that ever again.
i feel as if i gave him all my trust, and theres no more to give to anyone else.
i feel as if i wont be as confortable with another guy until i get married. (me and my ex were extremely close. too close for my age, and it got too serious so i broke it off)
i have lost hope for the future.

i dont know what my question is, maybe, does anyone have anything to say that can ease this empty feeling?

my best friend's fiancés broke up with her and her mom gave her a book called 'its called a break up because its broken' by Greg Behrendt and Amiira Ruotola-Behrendt.
and it really helped her like it was only three days after the break up and she was alreay feeling better and over it.

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why's it that when girls cry over a guy he comes back to them? like shouldn't he not because they're showing their weak? idk im still in love with my ex and we broke up like a month and a half ago =/

the guy goes back maybe 1 in 10 times. if a guy goes back its not because the girl is crying over him there is always a reason.

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okay so me and my bf are gonna have sex pretty soon and was wondering why guys find it so attractive when girls swallow after a blow job..

because its 'dirty' and 'naughty' and they do it in porn.

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