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Caught with porn website
Alright, so i was messing around with an application on my i pod touch that allowed me to view websites through my computer. i had a porn website on my i pod, my parents walked to tell me goodnight in so i closed the app. Then because the app closed, the porn website popes up full screen on my computer. the whole time it was up my back was to the monitor and i told my parents goodnight. now i feel sick and i just want to die.
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I am a great deal older than most of the advisers on this site, so my advice will be somewhat different from what you may have received and may continue to receive from others.
First things first; while porn is much maligned by a load minority, there is nothing wrong with a young boy or girl watching it. If your parents saw what was on your computer and said nothing then their silence is speaking loudly that they do have a problem with your viewing pornographic websites. The problem if any comes in when these websites consumes all of your time. It would be the same with any website or activity that consumes all of your to the detriment of everything else. Pornography and related activities just happen to be the flavor of the times.
Young people have all these hormones raging through them with no real outlet for them. Pornography provides the visual acuity some need to masturbate. Contrary to perception over 90%, by recent survey, of adults and teens masturbate. By the way fingering and hand jobs fall in the realm of masturbation.
As a parent I much preferred my children indulged in joint masturbation and singular pleasuring rather than trying to get a young lady to have sex with them. It was safer, less chance of the young lady getting pregnant and less chance of anyone getting an STD.
I realize I got off the subject a little bit but hopefully the information I provide helps you some. As I said to begin with; if your parents saw what was on the computer screen, chances are they did, there is no reason to be embarrassed, you are normal. Their silence in not saying anything says they quietly approve. If you are concerned about being seen looking at porn ask your parents about your putting a locking door knob on your door for privacy or at the very least talk to your parents about respecting your privacy and knock before entering your room. You are getting older and you do not walk into their bedroom without knocking, if the door is closed, you would like the same respect for your privacy.
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Ok... so did your parent's see it or what? Don't be ashamed of watching porn. I don't know if you're a girl or guy, or how how you are.. but if you're over 16 then it's completely normal for people to watch it.
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