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Hey, I'm Samm and I'm 15-year-old freshman at Downingtown East High School. I've got a pretty average teenage life, except I'm in no way your average person. I doubt you'll ever meet someone exactly like me.



Feel free to drop one by in my inbox and I'll tell you what to do to the of my best ability in any situation. But remember, if it doesn't seem right, then don't do it. It's only my advice, not me telling you what to do.


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im scared cuz i use mascara and sometimes sleep with it and now i feel that my eyelashes are kinda getting less. i wanna know if eyelashes do grow back am scared help plz

I noticed eyelash loss as well, but they grow back just like any other hair on your body. I wouldn't worry about it too much.

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i wanna make my legs a little biggers so i can wear skirts and + short ny fashion tips please give as much advice as u can im desperate

Eat more food. Not like, junk. But more carbs in pasta and bread and stuff. And work out your legs so they'll be muscular. Use machines such as the stairmaster and stuff like that. GOOOD LUCK!!

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my boyfriend's internet was down and he didn't call me for 3 days so i was wondering if he was no longer interested. i checked his myspace page and found that this girl left him a comment saying "i'm talking to you on the phone right now. i loveee youuu" that got me pissed because i didn't know what she meant by "love". i asked her if they were going out and she wouldn't answer me. so then my boyfriend calls me 3 days later and he asks me if we are still going out because he said he's not going out with that girl and he said he's really sorry for everything. my friend had a feeling from the beginning that he was a cheater and a player so we put him to the test. i made up a new screen name and pretended to be one of his friends and here is our conversation


his friend - heeeeey its _____
my boyfriend - heyyyyy =)
his friend - i have something really important to tell you
my boyfriend - kay go ahead
his friend - well your not gonna believe this but i like you.....
his friend- more than a friend.
my boyfriend- oh really ??? =)
his friend - yeah are you going out with anyone?
my boyfriend - no (HE SAID THIS WHILE HE WAS TELLING ME HOW MUCH HE LOVED ME)
his friend- on you dumped that girl?
my boyfriend- yeah she was weird
his friend - did you ever like her?
my boyfriend - no i liked you

^^ that was me talking to my boyfriend who really thought it was his friend

so then i told him that he had been PUNK'D and i saw the whole conversation and i said "if you were so sorry why would you cheat on me?
his first reaction was "i think im gunna cry for the first time in my life and i cant believe this"
and then after he was done being shocked he was like oh my god im soo sorry. he said "i KNEW it wasnt my friend the whole time so i was just leading them on" and i go "uhm yeah right"

and now he tells me he STILL loves me. how can i believe it??? he'd probably cheat again

i haven't broke up with him yet but i'm really really mad and i just can't trust him. what if he was going out with that girl on myspace but just lied so i'd think he's single?

is what he did considered cheating?

what should i do?

I'm shocked you haven't broken up with him yet. He's a cheating, lying boy and is not worth your time. Seriously, he's such an idiot. He doesn't still love you, and even if he does, he should learn how to express his love for you and only you. Break up with him.. and talk to the girl that he's cheating on you with. Let her know you're not mad at her, but you just want to save her from heartbreak. After all, it's not her fault this happened, it's his.

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I have this friend named Tony, i met him when i used to date this boy Al. Al and Tony are really good friends, but Al broke up with me sometime in January. Lately Tony and I have been hanging out a lot lately. He just got a car so he drives me around everywhere and we really do have a lot of fun when we hang out. One day, me and him went to his house to get something. While he was doing whatever i just watched TV and then he came and laid with me and it ended up leading to sex. The issue is that I really like Tony and I'm worried that might have ruined our chances together.. He's coming over today and I kind of what to tell him how i feel but I'm not sure of how he does, so what should I say to him?

Well, by having sex with him before you really had feelings for each other isn't a good move because now he might just expect sex from you. If you want to have a serious relationship, tell him how you feel. Good luck

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im really lazy i hardly ever do anything for school and I want to get A's but i get stressed out when i do my work.

One hour of homework, ten minutes doing whatever. One hour of homework, ten minutes of whatever. Repeat until your homework is finished, and then the rest of the night is yours! Good luck

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I didnt exactly have sex withmy boyfrind but we were about to and he only put the head in for about 10 secs then the comdom ripped but he pulled out right away and we didnt do it again afterwards i havnt gotten my period at all this month i was supposed to get it around the 21st this happened the 22nd and no sign of it. I tok a pregnancy test and it said im not pregnant but what if its nto accurate. i have another one and ill wait 7 days to take the test again and if my period doesnt come i want to ask my doctor but i dont want to tell my mom becasue she would jump to conclusions and i know i would never be able to see my bf again

Did he cum into you? Because if he didn't then you're not pregnant, you can't be. But if he did, there's a possibility. But sometimes people are just late on their periods, so you can't be sure. Just wait it out. If you don't get it for awhile, do that test again. Best of luck

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If i cut out pop and junk and was doing 200 sit ups a night how much weight do you think i could loose in 25 days ??

Not very much. You have to work on other parts of your body too by running and going to the gym and using the equipment there and dieting and stuff.

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Ok, so this girl I like asked me to go to a play with her one night. I was just talking to her on AIM and she says "Hey, do you want to go see Le Miserables with me...?" I was like "Sure...?" So we went to the play and everything and we talked some...But I wanna know if this was a date or not..Please tell...

Haha, could've been. But who cares? You don't need to label it. But if was cool and you like her and she seems to like you, ask her to do something that's really date-ish. Like dinner? Good luck!

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Okay. so i was at the movies and this really hott kid asked me for my number, so i gave it to him. he texted me later that night and everything. The next day i asked him if he wanted to hang out and stuff. however we couldnt. I still texted him like trying to get to know him but now im afraid he thinks im annoying. I sent him a text last night saying "call me tomrrow" should i still try to talk to him if he doesnt call?

If he doesn't call or text you tomorrow, than don't worry about it. But if he texts you, don't answer right away. Keep him on the edge of your seat! AND IF HE CALLS, DON'T YOU DARE PICK UP FIRST RING! If the phone call goes well, suggest a movie. Good luck girll!

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this guy i liked, i dont really like him no more, i like this other guy, but how can i tell the first that i dont like him no more.
- NO suggestions about passing notes in class or anything.
- i'm telling him online.

thanks xx

btw im 13/f (if that helps)

Why do you have to tell him that you don't like him anymore? Unless you're going out, there's really no need. Just don't flirt with him anymore. You could still be friends and stuff, but just don't flirt.

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15 f

i'm looking for a cute and sexy tankini that i can buy online (not in stores becuase i dont wanna wear what everyon else is wearing)

preferably with a push up built in bra and under 60 dollars



any good websites you can think of?

Victoria's Secret has good ones, and if you look at department stores like macy's and stuff you'll find good ones, but I wouldn't suggest a push up. Your boobs will just look fake.

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13/f ~ misused and abused ~ im a screw up ~ im a freak a goth a punk a emo ~ i have only 3 friends that i love so much but were not that close ~ 2 girls and a guy ~ were very mixed personalities ~ i very depressed group ~ we go to a fucked up catholic school ~ i never try to get in trouble im not even the kind of person to talk out ~ every1 hates us even the teachers and kids ~ in catholic schools you can have no personality no colored anything or even peirced ~ im unwanted at school and at home ~ im not gunna see a phsycycatrist psycoligist or watever ~ i can never show emotion ive never cried when something happened or someone died ~ im used to it ~ theres about a funeral i go to every week ~ no tears when even my sib died ~ i have a very cold dark heart ~ unwanted everywhere ~ thats my life story i wana change ~ i will not try adoption or police or anyone like that ~ i only will use advice ~ i need advice

I agree with the girl before me. Really, life does suck sometimes. But if you try really hard to change things instead of complaining about them, lots of things work in your favor. Try to brighten up. Life may not always be perfect, but shortly it'll all work out if you put some effort into it.

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well i shave down there and i can only do it once a week because if i try to do it two days in a row or even two days later it hurts and i get alot of little cuts does anyone know why? also does baby powder prevent odor and razor dumps down there?

I feel your pain girl, literally. Ease into it. Do it every 4 days, for a month or so, then every 3 days for a month, then two. But don't do it every day, it's a sensitive area! You can also buy hair removal kits, but make sure that it says it's safe for that area! Good luck

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This is such an overrated question on the site, but I was wondering what are some good exercises for toning your tummy, thighs, and arms? I know wall sits, leg lifts, push-ups and crunches, but is there anything else that I might be able to do?

Overrated question? You mean over-asked. Seriously, search the question. You'll find answers there. Go to the gym and use the machines.

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well like my upperstomach is fine but my lower stomach has alot of fat, how can i get rid of it quickly.

&my inner thighs have fat and its gross.

&my like arms, theyre like flabby.

how can i get rid of my fat quickly.

pls help, i wanna look nice for summer.

Diet and exercise. It's really simple. You just need willpower. Find a buddy that maybe wants to join you three times a week at the gym and will diet with you. When you go to the gym, ask the people that work there, or any cuties, that can give you some help with the machines and how to use them correctly. Good luck!

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16/f

i need a job,and i found out that you can send your applications through the computer,i told my mom about it and she said that its not safe to do that,i thought it might be easier,so basically if i send my application like say petsmart or like chik-fel-a (sp) do you think its safe or not such a good idea ?

I don't see why it would be a problem, other than your social security number would be out on the net, but it's private, so I wouldn't think there'd be much of a problem. Go for it!

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i honestly do not know what to do. Lately i've been having nervous breakdowns. My parents are on me about my eating habits. i dont really sleep too much. But mostly, i cant concentrate and i tend to have nervous breakdowns a lot .. i dont know what causes them. I also feel dizzy and like im floating.. i have no idea. Any help would be great.

Try to find out what the cause of your breakdowns are. Don't say "nothing" because there has to be something. If you really can't find anything at all, try making a positive and negative list of yourself. That may help. If you still don't know what's wrong, then consider finding real help, like, from a psychologist. As for the dizziness, that may have to do with your breakdowns, because you feel exhausted from them. If you don't get much sleep, have breakdowns, and don't eat a lot, you may have a serious problem. Talk to a trusted friend about it. Talking helps. If you're close with your parents, talk to them too. Your mom knows more than you think. Remember, whatever is keeping you down will pass. And no matter what people say, you are wonderful. Even though I don't know who you are. =D

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hey guys(:

I got a haircut like, last year and loved it. But the problem is everyone copied me. Maybe they didn't exactly copy me, but whatever they did EVERYONE has it. So my point is i want a new haircut. Right now i have medium length, angled and layered hair with thick side bangs. What can I do to it to make it, err, unique?

http://myspace-829.vo.llnwd.net/01094/92/83/1094093829_l.jpg

There's a picture of my hair. Nobody really has hair like mine, but everyone comments on it. I don't have that cut anymore because I'm growing it out. But, I loved that cut while I had it! Also, that cut looks mega cute both straight and curly.

Also, I did my hair with this cut once, and everyone ADORED it!! http://i9.tinypic.com/4haur6h.jpg It's a triangle cut, if you want to tell your hair dresser that. best of luck to you and your new hairrrrrrr

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I like this girl who I am good friends with. We've been hanging out recently a lot and we've had a good time. I don't know if she likes me or not and I'm not sure if I should tell her I like her or not because that might ackward our friendship. But in contrast to that she could like me and I wouldn't know. So if u were in my situation what would u do?

You can try to tell her, but if she doesn't feel the same way, just be like, "well, I don't want our friendship to suffer from this," and continue to be her friend. Don't pester her with how much you like her, because this won't be endearing to her. She'll just get pissed off. But it's worth a shot--definately!

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I run on the tredmeal and i try to eat healthy but i keep gaining weight, this morning i was 130 pounds this after noon i ram on the tredmeal for a hour and then tonight i am 132 pounds, i don't know how i am gaining weight :(.I would give enything at all to be skinny, some one please help me!

This morning you weighed less because you hadn't eaten or drinken anything yet. You're not going to lose pounds in matters of hours. Don't weigh yourself so often, try only weighing yourself once a week. Otherwise, you'll become obsessed. I know this through experience. Keep up the exercise, eat healthily, and you should be fine. Good luck!

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