Question Posted Wednesday February 21 2007, 4:57 pm
13/f ~ misused and abused ~ im a screw up ~ im a freak a goth a punk a emo ~ i have only 3 friends that i love so much but were not that close ~ 2 girls and a guy ~ were very mixed personalities ~ i very depressed group ~ we go to a fucked up catholic school ~ i never try to get in trouble im not even the kind of person to talk out ~ every1 hates us even the teachers and kids ~ in catholic schools you can have no personality no colored anything or even peirced ~ im unwanted at school and at home ~ im not gunna see a phsycycatrist psycoligist or watever ~ i can never show emotion ive never cried when something happened or someone died ~ im used to it ~ theres about a funeral i go to every week ~ no tears when even my sib died ~ i have a very cold dark heart ~ unwanted everywhere ~ thats my life story i wana change ~ i will not try adoption or police or anyone like that ~ i only will use advice ~ i need advice
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Work/School Relationships? yoliv answered Thursday February 22 2007, 3:57 pm: Hi.
I think that you are wanted at home, but you just dont realize it. I know that you said that you werent going for adoption or police or counsiling, but i think going to a counsler would be the best thing. I know all you want is advice, but i think what you need is a counsler. Try talking to parents about how you feel. As for things at school, try and join clubs or something to meet more people and show the teachers that you are a good kid and that you dont WANT to get in trouble or mean any harm. I know you wanted simply advice but not about counsling or police help but i do think that that would be the best for you.
Hope I helped and that things work out ok.
-YOLIV [ yoliv's advice column | Ask yoliv A Question ]
imxkathleenx3 answered Thursday February 22 2007, 10:14 am: Hey. I bet you are wanted at home, you just don't realize it. As for school, no one is wanted at school becuase no one wants to be there. My advice to you is to do what you want, be who you want, wear what you want, and talk to whoever you want to. You might have a bad relationsships with parents and teachers, but that doesn't mean you have to have bad relatioships with potential friends. Just be nice and open-minded and try to let go of the bad things in your home/school life and try to be colorful and have a postive outlook on most things, such as "well, this isn't that bad, this could have happened and that's great that it didn't." Try to be more friendly with teachers, your family members, and other students. I hope I helped ♥ Kathleen. [ imxkathleenx3's advice column | Ask imxkathleenx3 A Question ]
hopeihelped answered Wednesday February 21 2007, 6:47 pm: I agree with the girl before me. Really, life does suck sometimes. But if you try really hard to change things instead of complaining about them, lots of things work in your favor. Try to brighten up. Life may not always be perfect, but shortly it'll all work out if you put some effort into it. [ hopeihelped's advice column | Ask hopeihelped A Question ]
Paige_Halliwell answered Wednesday February 21 2007, 6:26 pm: Dear Depressed,
Life is a bitch. Thats probably not the first thing you would expect from an advice giver but I promise it will help. i know life sucks right now but it sucks for any teenager (even the preps) life is never just any easy going thing, everyone has problems. Some worse than others but problems none the less. Trust me if any knows about having a hard life, I could be one to tell you a few life stories myself. my life hasn't exactly been easy but it has made me who I am today. i've learned alot of things in my life from the issues i've had. my only peice of advice to you is to not focus on the bad but instead focus on the good. it may seem hard right now. all you have to do is find that rag and clean the window to c the better side. i know this sounds corny but by looking at what you want and not looking at what you may have and not want right now you'll be able to get what you want. Good Luck ! and i hope that i have been of some help.
*Paige_Ambrose* [ Paige_Halliwell's advice column | Ask Paige_Halliwell A Question ]
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