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hey im rachel. im a cheerleader. {sorry idk how to get pictures to work. im dumb with computers} ive been thru alot with friends and stuff so feel free to ask me anything. ill do my best to try and help anyone.
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Ok, I was just wondering what color eye liner you thought would go well with me. I have blue eyes most of the time (they change) And brown hair but not really dark. And also blonde high lights. Plz help (link)
i use a dark brown. brown looks good with blonde hair. when youre putting it on - dont press too hard. use light and kinda short strokes {if that makes sence} and if you want it darker, then just go back over it.


My friend is throwing a party and invited my crush. The thing is my friend said that I have to tell my crush by the end of the party that I like him or she will. I know I have to tell him I just don't want to deal with the potential heartbreak right now. Should I talk to my friend and hopefully convince her not to do it or just tell my crush? Oh and if I tell him his ex is probably gonna be close by since she's invited too... I rate high for good advice! Thanks! (link)
try flirting with him a lil bit at the party and see his reaction. if its good then try and plan a time where just the two of you can hang out - like at the mall or sumthing. maybe then you culd tell him how you feel. good luck

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My best friend has such a pretty face. She doens't have a great body but whatever. I'm always so jealous of her. Today she was wearing eyeliner for the first time. She was gorgeous! For some reason whenever she looks good I don't tell her...because im jealous. When I look good she tells me. I feel so bad. How can I stop being jealous of her??? (link)
well everyone is beautiful in their own way. i know that sounds cheezy but its true. just tell her shes looks pretty or wutever. it culd turn out she might feel the same way about you. just be a good friend to her and soon the jealously thing will fade away. hope i helped

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Ok I was talking to this boy that I like online, and tomorrows the last day of school and we have a half day so he asked me if I want to come over his house tomorrow. So I was like yea and I asked what he wants to do..and he was like I don't know we could watch a movie, makeout, have sex, or I will eat you out! and im like um ok..I really want to go but I don't really know if I want to have sex with him I mean I do want to but I don't...its really confusing. But he says its totally up to me up to me..so what should I do? Thanks iLL rate hiGH!!! (link)
well i think watching a movie and making out is alright if you like the guy. but having sex and all that stuff is going a lil far.. especially if you dont want to do that. so if you dont wanna do sumthing with him, then just tell him. if he makes a big deal bout it then hes obviously not right for you if hes not going to respect you. hope it works out

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Okay people think that i stuff my bra when i really dont and then people are like oh i saw it but i really dont what should i do?
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just ignore their stupid comments. they must be looking pretty hard to be able to notice that. sum girls made a list at my school about who stuffs their bra and it wuz basicly all the girls with sumthing actually there. it culd just be their jealous. if you know that you dont then thats all that matters. good luck

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i am 14/f with very low self-eteem. I have grown up ugly and now some guys tell me i'm hot, but some tell me i'm ugly. I dont understand. Also, I am quiet and am aftaid of rejection.

I am working on loving myself, but it is hard when you have so little friends.
Any sudjestions? (link)
well guys can be so stupid sumtimes. just dont listen to wut they say. try hanging out with people who make you feel good about yourself. maybe people who culd make you more outgoing. well noone likes being rejected so thats a pretty normal thing. good luck

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Okay, well theres this guy I really like.. I loved him for a year now and he used to like me, we even went out before but it never worked out. Now my best friend likes him! So i told her she can go out with him and that I didn't like him anymore (infact, i told everyone I don't like him) because I really want them to be happy together.. he liked her too but she didn't go out with him because she knew I liked him. thats why iI told her I didnt like her anymore. Well, when I told her that, they went out, then they broke up because he didn't like her anymore.. unfortunatley.. she still loves him but I love him too and I think he likes me.. I don't know what to do! Should I tell him I love him? Should I tell her? (I'm a girl and 13 years old.) (link)
im having the same type of problem. try waiting a lil bit cuz if they just broke up recently then she might just thinks shes still "in love" with him but it culd just be her head talking instead of her heart.

another path to take wuld just be honest. the guy might feel the same way for you but doesnt wanna be rejected since you told people youre over him. wutever you do, just make sure you think things thru. good luck

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Im am 16 year old female and my 18 year old boyfriend and i have been dating for over a year now. A week ago i said i didnt trust him because i heard he was flirting with his friend.I was hurt up until i heard it was part of there relationship. I really do trust my boyfriend and didnt mean to say that i didnt. I have told him a million times i didnt mean it but things havent gone back to normal. He says he still hurt by what i said. What should i do?? (link)
try proving it to him. sumtimes guys just need to be re-assured and by proving it to him, it will show that you really mean wut youre telling him. my sn is bl0ndiex3you


this is a question for the girls. I just recently straightened my hair for the first time and like ive never really styled it in anyway so i have no idea what to do with it now. its kinda long but sorta short like its not shoulder length but in front it goes down past my eyebrows and so long story short im wonderin wut kind of hairstyles girls like on guys and how to do those thanks much i rate very high. (link)
i like guys with kinda long hair {skater type} ya know "wings". if a guy can pull that off its hott. but it cant be like all over the place


What's the best way to tell a girl how you feel about her? School's over so I can't tell her there. I could get her screen name from one of her friends and tell her over IM but I'm not sure if that's a good idea. Please help. I'm 14 and a guy. (link)
well if a guy told me he liked me over IM then i wuldnt take it seriously. i think the best and sweetest way to tell her over the summer is to just call her and tell you how you feel. if you get her answering machine just tell her to call you back and leave your number. if she calls back she must be interested ;) good luck


My friend told me today that she is pregnant because she was raped. she won't talk to the police or anything and her mother doesn't know. what should i do? (link)
well that is a VERY big deal. shes probably scared that shes gonna get in trouble if she does tell but thats wut she shuld do. so talk to her and if she just doesnt wanna say a word, maybe you shuld for her. usually you dont wanna get involved but if she wont let people know about it, somebody has to tell.


OK , my birthday is coming up and I really want to get my belly button pierced. But I don't know if I should because I don't want people to call me slutty and the big thing is, IM AFRAID IT WILL HURT LIKE HECK! Does it? If anyone knows , please answer my question ASAP because I need an answer quickly. (link)
i want my bellybutton pierced too. my mom took my friends sister {sorry if thats confusing} to get hers done and i never heard about it hurting. the only thing is, she took it out and let the hole close up cuz it got infected. just get more information before you actually do it.


i feel that i am progressing to the point of an eating disorder. i hardly eat breakfast lunch and dinner. i snack on a little bit of cheese nips and water everyday. i usually do 200 sit ups a night but sometimes i do less but never less than 100. i am noticing i am getting very tired latley also could that be becsaue i am not eating what i usually eat. i just hate how people think only the really skinny girls are attrctive and love their bodies. i just want to make people look at me like that. i am not fat i just have like a tummy, i mean its not huge, but i am average maybe alittle below. i have tremendous boobs which do not even fit my body they ar elike bigger then my head. i just hate the way i look, i have pretty much given up on eating and i have been very attitudish latley and i cant take crap form anyone. i jsut dont know what to do, does anyone have any advice that well make me look better or feel better about myslef and my body, i jsut hate not being skinny enough and ji cant wear tanktops becasue of mt DDD boobs which look retarted when i wear one becasue it goes from a huge chest a small body and it looks retared like i got reductions and i didnt i am so depressed i do not no what to do with myself!!!! can someone give me advice i think i need help???? (link)
well the only thing you can really do is just feel good about yourself and diet the healthy way. once others see that you have confidence it wont matter. most girls wuld die for boobs.. i mean have you seen all those shows with brest inplants? just appreciate wut you have and just cuz you might not have a tiny tiny body, that doesnt make you unattractive. just be healthy and happy with wut God gave you. good luck


how can i lose pounds fast?! ill rate a 5! i need help! (link)
just work out and eat right. not too many carbs and make sure to look at the label. cut out snacks and stick to a diet/workout. good luck


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well, my mom and dad are getting divorest and i have hear from a lot of people that it is not that bad. But for some reason i have been like really spazing out about this. Like some of my friends are getting really mad at me because they are saing i have changed and get mad at every little thing. I am afreed after a while they wont wont to be my friends any more, one of my friends is not my friend because of that so what should i do? (link)
well divorce is a really hard thing for the kids. and if your friends arent gonna support you thru this then you may wanna think about if they really are true friends. i mean youre going thru alot and maybe you are changing. but just try to be yourself around your friends and just talk to them about how youre feeling. once everyone understands wuts going on things will eventually get better. good luck


Theres this guy...we'll call him bobby...and hes new to my school(a couple of months) and he's admitted to me that he liked me but the other day i found out that i wasn't the only girl that he said that to (actually about 7 other girls). I really like him though. Should i still date him or just try to forget about it all? (link)
well he sounds like a player to me. and trust me from experience, you never wanna get involved with those kind of guys. if he is a player and telling all those other gurls the same thing he told you then you might wanna step back and forget that guy. but if youre truely interested in this guy then you might wanna get to know him better before actually dating him and go from there. good luck :)


if i ride my bike for around 10-15 minutes each day.. how much wieght will i lose in a week and will it help me flatten my stomach a bit ? (link)
well you will deffinatly lose sum weight. im not sure how much but there will be a difference. it might not flatten your stomach a whole bunch but losing any kind of weight will help your stomach. it will strengten your legs tho. if you really wanna focus on your stomach do crunches or purchase an exercise ball. i use one of those and they work really well cuz its always working your stomach. good luck and i hope i helped


is it possible to get a guy to like you that barely knows you..i mean i have been talking to him more and he knows my name and what not..but like what are some signs that a guy likes you, and what are some ways thats you could get him to like you. (link)
well you cant force someone to like you. but when he talks to you just show him that youre interested in wut hes saying. touch him arm and things to show that you care. be friendly to him and become friends with some of his buddies. {that always works and maybe they culd talk you up to him.} most of all let him know youre interested in him without looking too desperate. boys like the chase.

ways to tell if he likes you is his body language towards you and sometimes how he talks to you. im sure if hes really interested youll be able to tell. good luck :)


ok i wanna temporarily dye my hair blonde for the summer just for fun *it's brunette now* is there anything i need to worry about so it doesn't become permanetly blonde? i don't wanna change my hair color for ever, i just wanna see waht it looks like...if u have any info plz lemme know! (link)
well i highlighted my hair and it turned out pretty good. just be careful with wut product you choose to use. look for ones that that dont say permanent on them and when you do color your hair, make sure you dont color your eyebrows too. learned that from experience. herbal essance works good and smells good too and will eventually wash out like within 6 weeks. good luck


Ok my face looks like a friggin pizza with extra pepperoni on it now..ugh gross..but yeah I never break out..it's just that right now, I'm going through alottaa stress..so does anyone have any home remedies to get rid of these little suckers..(toothpaste, hot water, umm idk..)just anything you would find in your home..I need to get rid of them by tomorrow (if possible!) they're humongo..ahh i will rate you a 5..like bam! -thankssss (link)
yeah tea tree oil works really well. just be careful with wut you use. make sure its not too harsh on your skin otherwise itll just get worse. so it might take a few tries to see wut actually works but a home remedy wuld be putting sum hot water on a wash cloth then wash your face with wutever youre using. after that you might wanna put sum peroxide or wutever. good luck




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