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well, my mom and dad are getting divorest and i have hear from a lot of people that it is not that bad. But for some reason i have been like really spazing out about this. Like some of my friends are getting really mad at me because they are saing i have changed and get mad at every little thing. I am afreed after a while they wont wont to be my friends any more, one of my friends is not my friend because of that so what should i do?
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well divorce is a really hard thing for the kids. and if your friends arent gonna support you thru this then you may wanna think about if they really are true friends. i mean youre going thru alot and maybe you are changing. but just try to be yourself around your friends and just talk to them about how youre feeling. once everyone understands wuts going on things will eventually get better. good luck
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Some friends you have! My advice is get new friends, if they were your friends at all, they'd understand what you're going through.
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WEll 1st of all ...... divorced is really not that bad trust me.... been there when i was 8 and im 13 noow too. But yeah at 1st its reallllly stresses you out and makes you "spaz".
but eventually you get used to it and the stress lays off. This may sound harsh but if they were really your friends then they would understand that your stressed and try to suppoprt you. But if they stop being your friend then try to talk to them let them know whats going on and that your just real stressed out. And eventually when you calm down theyll see that your normal and maybe things go back to normal.
i know exactly what your going thru
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She wasn't a real friend then. Friends stick by you no matter what happens. Good or bad.
You probably will go through changes. Parents getting a divorce is hardest on the kids. There isn't anything you can do to change that. You will get used to it after awhile...doesn't make it any easier though. :)
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Hey your friends should be helping you.this will be a hard time for you so they should stick by you.tell them your going throigh a hard time at the moment.its got nothing to do with them,
Love Kim
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Aww..well my parents got devoriced when i was like 5or6 it was really hard..but then again it wasnt..it was a lil better bcuz there wasnt any fighting n everything but anyways. Do your friends know what your going through, because that might help, if something like that happens then you can get a lil moody but just try to be cool n calm about it n it should work out!
xO'-Hope everything works out-'Ox
<33 xOo Marisa
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