Im am 16 year old female and my 18 year old boyfriend and i have been dating for over a year now. A week ago i said i didnt trust him because i heard he was flirting with his friend.I was hurt up until i heard it was part of there relationship. I really do trust my boyfriend and didnt mean to say that i didnt. I have told him a million times i didnt mean it but things havent gone back to normal. He says he still hurt by what i said. What should i do??
bl0ndiex3you answered Thursday June 9 2005, 7:03 pm: try proving it to him. sumtimes guys just need to be re-assured and by proving it to him, it will show that you really mean wut youre telling him. my sn is bl0ndiex3you [ bl0ndiex3you's advice column | Ask bl0ndiex3you A Question ]
xoBrowneyes answered Thursday June 9 2005, 4:58 pm: You can either get over him or ask him what he would of thought if you were the one flirting with someone else. Ask him what he would do. RATE ME WELL AND PUT COMMENTS!!! [ xoBrowneyes's advice column | Ask xoBrowneyes A Question ]
apk979 answered Thursday June 9 2005, 4:27 pm: Well you can't blame him because trust is very fragile. Takes time to build but is shattered in seconds. You're just going to have to build it back up with him. Apologizing only does so much. You need to show him you trust him. Don't just tell. Showing does much more than telling because anyone can tell anyone anything. It's not going to be easy. Trust is one of the most important things, if not the most, things in a relationship. If you think he's worth it,start trusting him. Let him borrow your stuff or whatever you need to do to show him that you trust him. Hope I helped. Good luck. [ apk979's advice column | Ask apk979 A Question ]
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