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Okay, im a 15 year old female, and i happen to be bisexual, i have a girlfriend and we've been together for awhile, and i care about her ALOT. But i am starting to develop feelings for another girl, who happens to be my bestfriend, i know she likes me and my girlfriend and best firend absolutely hate each other. Now my girlfriend is absolutely beautiful, and thats no exaggeration, my best friend is pretty and they both have amazing personalities, but my bestfriend treats me better, but shes so demanding and gets emotional so much and sometimes i feel that my girlfriend doesnt care about me. Yet they both say they are in love with me. So im extremely confused because i need to choose someone. On top of it, i have a guy that likes me alot and is going to ask me out soon. I really like being with him too, he hasnt even tried to sleep with me, he likes to just hold me, and hes funny sweet and caring, but hes also hit me once ? But he felt so bad about it, he wouldnt look at me for 2 days. I really hate leading people on, so how do i choose one? and not hurt the others feelings? (link)
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i'll make this short, trust your heart :)
who do you want to be with, who do you trust, who are you more comfortable with?
:)
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ok so i'm gonna dye my hair like this.
http://i32.tinypic.com/2ik5dnt.jpg
this is what i look like.
http://i40.tinypic.com/21mdgrl.jpg
would it look good? be brutally honest, please. (link)
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you're gorgeous girl
go for it, you could pull it off:)
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im about to be 15 soon and my boobs are still small....and i want them to grow and not stay small....what is happening to me why arent my boobs growing and how cani make them grow? (link)
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well hun you are only 15. you don't stop developing until 18 or so. i am 16 and still an A cup. just wait a while for them to develop. and how big they will get determines by genetics also. like your mom's or if you have an older sister you will know as for how big or small they will be. and even if they don't develop to be any bigger, you will have to learn to love and accept the way your body looks b/c you are going to live with it. hope i answered your question:)
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What states/countries is it banned in?
And are there any books on the history of the death penalty, or other facts about it?
PLEASE DON'T SAY YOU DON'T DO HOMEWORK, THIS IS NOT HOMEWORK! I'M VERY CURIOUS ABOUT THIS SUBJECT. (link)
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go to both these links:
http://www.deathpenaltyinfo.org/death-penalty-policy-state
http://www.infoplease.com/ipa/A0777460.html
you can always google it yourself before asking here:)
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Have you ever felt like you were living the same day over and over again? Well welcome to my life. I want to change that please. Although Im not sure how to. So thats why Im asking you readers. I need ideas to do something different with my life. Im not depressed or anything but I really want my life to be more exciting. What are some ideas to do? Nothing like dying my hair or anything, I already did that. And nothing illegal or sexual please. I just want more excitment. It March so I cant go to an amuesment park just y et and Im looking forward to Spring Break but for right now i need to do something else. Please and Thank You!
- Need2Change (link)
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Meet new people, join clubs, find new hobbies! :)
that would be the best idea for a change. Find something you might like to do and try it out you may become great at.
hope I helped somehow:)
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okay so i just got out of a relationship and i still have feelings for the guy, but thats normal. he treated be badly and was a terrible bf. i keep daybreaming and thinking about what it would be like to have a good bf that i like alot and he lieks me and he treats me really good. i want to meet someone like that but i dont know how...is this normal? (link)
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yes it is normal, and you are not alone there. there are many many great guys out there who will be able to treat you they way you want them to, but it isn't like they are just going to show up in front of your face the second you want them to. so don't rush, your prince charming is somewhere out there. there's a right place and time to find one. give it some time and eventually some time in your life you will find someone just perfect for you and one who will make you happy.:)
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I'm really confused about what to do!
To make a very long and complicated story short and simple, I had sex with my ex boyfriend of 4 years about 2 months ago. He committed suicide about 2 weeks ago.
I think I may be pregnant with his child. I'm against abortion and would never give up my own child for adoption because... you know... it's MY kid! However, I don't have the money to raise a child. I'm in college right now and if I am pregnant, then the baby would be due around October... I can't not go to school because then I won't have a degree to get a decent job, besides who would take care of the baby while I'm working/in school... my parents would never help me out with this... they would press for adoption or abortion because they're barely financially stable enough to help us - I'm in school strictly on student loans, my brother is joining the armed forces so they'll pay for school, and my sister never went to college- she's got a full time job and is living at home. None of us can support a baby, and I can't ask my dead exes mom to help - she just lost her son and is extremely financially pressed... it's insane! I don't know what to do !!
What would you do if you were in my situation?
I don't have anyone to turn to because the baby's father is dead... I just don't know what to do right now!! (link)
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Yeah, it is called owning up to what has happened and raise the baby yourself. Not to be mean. But I would suggest adoption over abortion. Not a murderer here. There are plenty of people who would love to adopt. best of luck to you hun.
:)
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I was dating this guy for a year we met at collage and we were really close and all about a month ago he dumped me and he said he couldnt date me eneymore as me being mixed raced confuses things to much for him. And that when it comes to relationships he wants to stick to his own race and date white girls. I dont understand why he is saying this as he dated me and we never even spoke about race. Should I confront him as I love him loads still? thanx sophie (link)
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im just going to tell you right now, if he can't accept you for who u are then he's definitely not worth your time. and your race is something you were born with, you can't change for him now can you? find someone who can love you for the way you are not some jerk who'll make up up excuses, he doesn't sound too great of a guy for you, you deserve better hun:)
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i have this really perverted teacher who is hitting on my friend and making really disgusting remarks to me and mt friends and its really starting to freak me out. should i go to a guidence counslor about it so she can do somthing about it? if i do than the problem is i went there last year about a teacher and she might think i have teacher problems. (link)
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i agree with the other adviser, dont go to the counselor because they aren't supposed to go against other teachers, and they definitely will not do anything about it. report it to the police instead.
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Hello,
Am into a bad marriage. My husband really dont care for me at all, he always shouts, harass me. And he wants me to work & give him my salary also. i have 2 small kids. he never cares for my feelings. He always hurts me. Before our marriage, he had got married to a lady of different religion, but it didnt stand, ended with divorce, This information i came to know recently. He has hided the fact that he had married earlier, this hurts me a lot. I have lost interest in life itself. Am very unhappy, & dont know what to do. Please help! (link)
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This is a question that i wont have to even bother with for 5 seconds to think about. The obvious answer is you should leave him. I am talking about divorce here. As hard as that sound, this is reality. Your husband is obviously just using you, and you should know better then to let him continue on doing that right? Move on, you know you can and will find a better man. And even more importantly you have two kids. They are going to need a real father. From what I can see, it seems like your husband could be abusive. Like you said, he shouts, harasses, and hurts you. Even if he doesn't hit you now, he might neglect you later on and will definitely hit you, your kids too. Think of your safety and your kid's safety. Is that man worth spending the rest of your life with. Well, I rest my case and hopefully this helped you somehow. I really do encourage you to get out of the relationship before you get hurt ok?
:)
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I'm in 8th grade and I heard a lot of stuff 'bout high school. I heard about cliques (which kinda scared me) and about the work gettin harder and gettin more of it (more school work, that's impossible). So I need some trues or fakes. Are there the cliques? Is the work harder? Is there more work? Will it all be worth it? Am I gonna lose my mind on the first day? (please don't awnser that last one). Ok, 1 more question. What will high school really be like? I fu can help, then thnx. If not, then thnx anyway. Laters! (link)
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if you try not to think about the negative of it all, most likely you'll enjoy your hs years. actually you'll love. high school will likely be what you make of it. stay away from drama! the amount of school work is normal but your freshmen year's grades is really important b/c when you want to go to college, they'll be looking at your 9th grade stuff. so dont slack off. there are cliques but it depends what school you go to. you will not lose your mind on the first day. and whatever you do, stay true to yourself, keep your TRUE friends, not the fake ones. that'll be my most important advice to you.
:)
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Im 15 F and a virgin. lol i was wondering, how bad do you think it would be if i had sex with a guy if im dating him for about 4 months.. Also what if this guy was my first boyfriend and first kiss ? (link)
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i'm going to agree with durchdenmonsun. 4 months isnt even long enough to determine if your bf is going to just hit and run. but i'm going to have to say that it is YOUR CHOICE. if you really want to do it, at least be responsible so you dont end up with bad diseases or become a 15 yr old pregnant teenager. you might think little of it but when it happens you will regret it. 5 yrs later from now, you'd regret not saving your virginity to the one you'll really love and think "why did i ever give it up to that jerk".
hope i helped,
:)
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I like this guy and he likes me. Hes annoying at times and just not someone i want to be with but i cant help but like him anyway. I kind of just want to go out with him to get him over with. I just want to kind of explore him and then move on. Is it bad or weird to want to date someone just so that you can end it ? (link)
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i am going to be honest with you, yes it is bad. put yourself in his position, would you want someone doing that to you? either you give him a chance of getting to know and like him better or don't bother at all. not worth hurting someone for.
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I'm sorry this is going to be sort of long.
Sometimes a really...well, sometimes I HATE my best friend. I know that's a really bad thing to say, but that's really how I feel sometimes. She never wants to do the same things I do-like when I say, do you want to come over? She says, flat out, no, which is not only rude, but it's really hurtful, or if I want to go on a walk, I always have to talk her into it, otherwise she says she's "too tired". I can never have fun with her-like if I say, I love you! She starts freaking out on me and calls me a lesbo, so I can never say that to her. And the most annoying thing she does is she ALWAYS cancels on me! Here's what normally happens:
I invite her over for a sleepover 2 weeks before. She says yes, and we get all excited and start planning out our sleepover. I have to bend and negotiate with my parents for it to happen- usually something like double chores, a lot of begging, or etc. So for the two weeks we talk about it and whatever. Then the night of the sleepover, the phone rings, I pick it up, and she's on the other line. Here's what she says: "Hey. Uhm, I can't come." The excuses are normally: 'I'm tired.', 'I don't feel like it.' 'My stomach/head hurts.', 'My parents don't feel good.', 'I haven't seen my mom for two days.', or 'I have too much homework.' Something along those lines. Once it was something totally out of the blue--her dad broke his foot, so apparently she couldn't come over. This really wouldn't bother me, but it's just that it's happened more than once. Actually, WAY more than once. Maybe fifty or so times.
So I don't know what to do. I've tried talking to her about it, but she gets all upset, and she doesn't understand where I'm coming from. I really love my best friend, I've known her since 3rd grade, so I don't want to end our friendship. I really need help! I'm sorry that was so long. (link)
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i have a so called best friend just like that too. i wouldn't call that type of person a friend at all. i say you start making new friends and hang out with other people so that you wont get your plans canceled and ruined once again. trust me, one day she'll get sick of her own lies and excuses and she's gonna come back to being your friend.
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this guytold me he liked me and i told him i did too. then over winter break he didn't talk to me at all, then IMed me saying ... "im bored" and i told him i was mad at him and he asked me why, but before i could answer he said, actualy don't. and then said something like, "do i still like you. yes." and then signed off. now i check facebook and hes in a relationship with his ex grildfriend. and her status is ... [his name] (link)
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yeahh like the other people said, he's either trying to get you jealous or he's just being a plain jerk. either ways, you can always get back at him, but one thing you should do is do what he's doing. act like you're over liking him, like you don't have anymore feelings for him, in other words, play hard to get. DISAPPEAR. That'll make him want you more. but it seems to me, he's not worth your time. i wish you best of luck.
:)
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heyyy i didnt no were too put this question so i just put it anywere
ive got short hair lol and im i realy need my hair too grow in like 2months is there any thing i can use too soo my hair grows? (link)
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they have lots of products at Sallys Beauty supply store or the website, i guarantee you they work very well and quick!
:)
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i am married my wife is asking to have 3some is it ok for me to allow a nother women into our relationship, see the problem is i have 10" 5 1/2 thick cock an its just to much 4 my wife so what happens if the other woman starts to enjoy me (link)
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there should be no problem for you because your wife had "allowed" another woman into your' guys relationship so i don't think she minded in the first place, which means if that woman does "enjoy" you, your wife won't mind then. your wife obviously thought it through for a situation like that. hope i helped && sorry if my advice was a bit confusing.
:)
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is it ok to have sex with more then 3 poeole at the same time? (link)
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if it's an open relationship/marriage then yeah its okay since everyone knows what is going on and there's no cheating or anything. but doing that is also a chance for getting diseases like stds and stuff and i'm sure you know that already.
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Whats normal in terms of how many girls a guy has slept with when he is 24? Thanks (link)
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hmm, depend on the guy, if he has a very sexual lifestyle then probably somewhere around 5-12 and if he's just normal then maybe under 5.
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heyy i guess the title says it all.
Um personally i love america so dont get me wrong on the title =)
ive been wondering for ageessss
what does "fall" mean
sorry for sounding so stupid
just really want to know! =D
Vikki (link)
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to come or drop down suddenly to a lower position. or it could mean to become less or lower, become of a lower level, degree, amount, quality, value, number, etc.; example: The temperature fell ten degrees. Stock prices fell to a new low for the year.
or it is also the season Fall, like fall winter, summer, autumn.
here is what the season Fall looks like:
http://images.google.com/images?source=ig&hl=en&rlz=1G1GGLQ_ENUS293&=&q=fall%20season&um=1&ie=UTF-8&sa=N&tab=wi
go to the link above^^
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