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Question Posted Thursday February 5 2009, 2:37 am

Hello,

Am into a bad marriage. My husband really dont care for me at all, he always shouts, harass me. And he wants me to work & give him my salary also. i have 2 small kids. he never cares for my feelings. He always hurts me. Before our marriage, he had got married to a lady of different religion, but it didnt stand, ended with divorce, This information i came to know recently. He has hided the fact that he had married earlier, this hurts me a lot. I have lost interest in life itself. Am very unhappy, & dont know what to do. Please help!


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Lynn_lushh answered Thursday February 5 2009, 8:49 pm:
This is a question that i wont have to even bother with for 5 seconds to think about. The obvious answer is you should leave him. I am talking about divorce here. As hard as that sound, this is reality. Your husband is obviously just using you, and you should know better then to let him continue on doing that right? Move on, you know you can and will find a better man. And even more importantly you have two kids. They are going to need a real father. From what I can see, it seems like your husband could be abusive. Like you said, he shouts, harasses, and hurts you. Even if he doesn't hit you now, he might neglect you later on and will definitely hit you, your kids too. Think of your safety and your kid's safety. Is that man worth spending the rest of your life with. Well, I rest my case and hopefully this helped you somehow. I really do encourage you to get out of the relationship before you get hurt ok?
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