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who should i pick?
Okay, im a 15 year old female, and i happen to be bisexual, i have a girlfriend and we've been together for awhile, and i care about her ALOT. But i am starting to develop feelings for another girl, who happens to be my bestfriend, i know she likes me and my girlfriend and best firend absolutely hate each other. Now my girlfriend is absolutely beautiful, and thats no exaggeration, my best friend is pretty and they both have amazing personalities, but my bestfriend treats me better, but shes so demanding and gets emotional so much and sometimes i feel that my girlfriend doesnt care about me. Yet they both say they are in love with me. So im extremely confused because i need to choose someone. On top of it, i have a guy that likes me alot and is going to ask me out soon. I really like being with him too, he hasnt even tried to sleep with me, he likes to just hold me, and hes funny sweet and caring, but hes also hit me once ? But he felt so bad about it, he wouldnt look at me for 2 days. I really hate leading people on, so how do i choose one? and not hurt the others feelings?
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Definately not the guy that hit you. Your better off to just take that option out of your mind.
There is no clear cut way to figure out what the right decision is. And the longer you dwell on it, the more difficult the decision will become.
Try to take a few days to yourself. Really think about what you want. Make a list of pros and cons for each girl and see which one has more of the qualities your looking for.
Which ever girl you choose, there is the possibility that you will wonder "what if" or if you made the right choice. You might wonder what would have happened if you had chose the other. But that is just gonna happen because of the fact that you had two people to choose from. So just go with your heart and Im sure it will all work out. Good luck!
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i'll make this short, trust your heart :)
who do you want to be with, who do you trust, who are you more comfortable with?
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Hey!
That one guy that hit you? Don't give him a chance. Unless it was just a playful hit, don't even get involved with someone like that. It's honestly not worth it & it's the last thing that you need, especially only being 15 years old.
Now, you have to think about this. Is this best friend of yours, worth losing the girlfriend you've been with for a while now? You seriously have to sit down and just put the pros and cons of both girls and see which one you like more. Do you think you could just be bored of your current girlfriend? That's what happens in a lot of relationships is that one person usually wants to break up with the other and go out with someone else because they want change and they're sick of doing the same old stuff.
I'm sure you hate leading people on, just make sure that you choose someone. And, I think that in this situation someone is going to get hurt no matter what. If you break up with your girlfriend and you get with this chick that she hates, I'm sure she's going to be really angry. And, if you don't get with this other girl, she's probably going to be very resentful toward you, but it all goes back to, is it worth it?
It's a hard decision you have to make, and you don't need to make it overnight. Think about it for a few days. Hang out with both girls and see which one makes you the happiest, because that's all you need to worry about!
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