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so freaking pissed.
this guytold me he liked me and i told him i did too. then over winter break he didn't talk to me at all, then IMed me saying ... "im bored" and i told him i was mad at him and he asked me why, but before i could answer he said, actualy don't. and then said something like, "do i still like you. yes." and then signed off. now i check facebook and hes in a relationship with his ex grildfriend. and her status is ... [his name]<3
WHAT THE %^*&!@+!?
i want to punch him. so hard. i want to call him a freaking asshole and omg. i don't know what to do. i am not calm right now. wtf wtf wtf wtf wtf.
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First off this guy isn't right for you, he thinks you'll like him if your jelous. Wrong, you need to tell him " I am not going to wait around for you and I am not going to stand around like some jelous crazed girl while you go run off with your ex.
Then if he admits honestly it was a joke, then go for it, but if he does do something like that again forget about him.
Sorry that's life but guys like him an break your heart! I know message me if you need any further advice.
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yeahh like the other people said, he's either trying to get you jealous or he's just being a plain jerk. either ways, you can always get back at him, but one thing you should do is do what he's doing. act like you're over liking him, like you don't have anymore feelings for him, in other words, play hard to get. DISAPPEAR. That'll make him want you more. but it seems to me, he's not worth your time. i wish you best of luck.
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I totally understand your situation. I had a similar one a few months ago. We dated for a while, and he made a big freaking deal about how much he liked me and liked spending time with me. And then all of a sudden, he was just like, "Nevermind, I never liked you, let's just be friends." And in less than a week he was dating someone else. Apparently he was "talking" to her while he was dating me. So I haven't spoken to him in three months.
Okay, so basically this guy is an asshole who doesn't deserve you. So don't waste your time on him. I know it will be hard to try to forget him, but trust me, it's best for you right now. Just keep convincing yourself that you need to stay away from him because he's a douchebag. Ignore the hell out of him, even if he ever tries to talk to you. He's a douchebag who doesn't deserve your time. Try to distract yourself with friends and other stuff like school. It is really fun to have a sleepover with friends and rant about how much guys suck. Your friends will help you through it, I promise.
If you need any more advice, feel free to inbox me.
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Let me just say first off that you have the right to be mad. It seems like either this guy wants to
*make you jealous
*make you go CRAZYY over him
*be a HUGE jerk
i know its really hard, but try to ignore him (for right now.) If he sees you honestly dont care, then he will want you. But by saying you are mad at him only makes him realize and think that you are the one chasing after him. If you are going to have a conversation with him, at this point, i would do it in person. Just dont put up with any of the B.S that could potentially be thrown your way. You deserve wayyyy better than to be treated as a left over.
Good luck, please let me know how this goes for you! If you need anymore advice or anything at all, go to my advice column xosodapopx3 and you can inbox me there! :-)
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i dont blame you for being pissed. ive been there many times. what you need to do is see if one of your friends has a ps2 game called "grand theft auto" and play it for a while. you'll feel better. :)
no but seriously. since you and this dude werent going out, you really cant be mad. and he probably got back with his ex thinking that you didnt like him anymore cuz you were mad at him. ask him whats up. ask him if he really does like you or if he still likes his ex or if he wants any of you guys to go anywhere (meaning in a relationship type thing..) but dont kill him. ^.^ i tore up my ex's room once and it really messed things up between us, soooo. yeah. play GTA, buy a stress ball, have a milkshake, CALM THE HECK DOWN and then talk to him. :) but ALSO dont act too desperate.
i hope i helped.
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