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i need some make up tips. 13/f and i love makeup but want some other ways to put it on but not look like i tried to hard because i am going to where it to school every day. If this helps * 13/f light brown hair brown eyes long oval face big nose perfect shaped eyebrown thin upper lip lower lip normal size great attitude i want to shine* and be noticed *much love i rate!!!
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I fit just about the same description as you, except my lips are about the same size and I'm 15 years old. I would use either a really, really, really light lilac color for eyeshadow, or a light brown/golden color. Try to get foundation that matches your skin. Use roll on eyeliner, preferablly brown-colored. It doesn't really show up brown, it looks dark..but not as dark as black. Use mascara, lightly..don't over do it. I never use blush, but if you were to use it..Get a shade darker than your skin tone. Hope this helps!
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there is this guy i met last summer at camp, and my group which was a co-ed group consisted of him. and he's really annoying me like on myspace when i put the bullentin boyfriend application a couple of days ago he said he was attracted to me/liked me and another application i posted a couple months before he said he liked me, and im #3 on his top 8 friends, but on his bday a couple of weeks ago he asked me for money hes like k if you want to give me anything give me money cause if you don't mind i want some money for my bday and i thought it was completeley rude, and to tell you the truth he's not that attractive and personality wise he is obnoxious and annoying. i haven't spoken to hiim in a long time which is good for me, but his headlines on myspace are also strange like "She's so hot" etc and i want to also ask him why he has these weird headlines by sending him a message but do you think thats too rude. But what should i do about the other part.
note- at camp he was stalking me everywere i went grrr.
thanks
~*~Brianna~*~ (link)
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For his birthday, I would just get him a card. That's rude for him to ask you for any kind of present without you offering. The headlines, I would just message him saying "Who are those headlines about?" and see how he responds. If he says you, then maybe you should just tell him "I see you as a friend, and that's it" ..maybe he'll get the point? Sorry if this isn't enough for you. Good luck!
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Well , i really like this guy in 7th grade, but the thing is I'm in 8th grade. I don't really know him that well but i really like him.
I know him well enough to like ask him out, but i dont want to yet.
I know some of my friends would give me a hard time about it but i know his friends wouldn't.
Should i ask him out or not?
I rate high for help
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>torn (link)
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You're right, age is nothing but a number. Think about it. If you did everything your friends wanted you to do, you wouldn't be -you-. It's YOUR life and you make your own choices and decisions. Who cares if it doesn't please anyone else? Do what you want. If you want to be with this boy, then go for it. If not, then don't.
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Okay well my boyfriend and I have been going out for 1 month now. Well we're not very close and there are certain things i want him to do but i dont know how to tell him. Everyone says i should just tell him or whatever, but i dont want to. And i can't really hint at him because hes kind of oblivious sometimes lol. And im like not in his profile and when he signs on or i sign on im always the one to IM him. What should i do? How do i get the word across to him of what i want him to do? I just want him to you know hug me and you know...lol just be close with me. Yeah i know that sounds retarded. So I'll rate really high for good answers thanks soo much for your help ♥ (link)
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I had the same problem with my ex-boyfriend. i was never in his profile. So one day I was like "I love how you're in my profile, but you don't even mention my name in your profile" and he put me in there. lol, And as far as him IMing you first..Just be like "Why do i always have to im you first?" or one day..Just don't IM him the whole time you or him signs on. Wait for him to IM you. By then, he should get the hint. But who knows..Guys are crazy sometimes.
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okay well i have something really big to tell my parents and im not sure how to tell them. well i really want to tell them that i want to have a baby (16/f) everyone says i should but i really dont get along with my parents.. well its not that we dont get along its just that we arent that close. should i tell them now or should i wait till have a bf that i have been dating for a while because i am currently single. i know eitehr way they are going to flip but i dont want to screw things up. so how do i tell them and when? (link)
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You want to have a baby, and you're 16? Wow. Personally, I think you should think about what you're doing and saying before you tell your parents anything. A baby is a HUGE responsibility. It would cost a lot of money to support the baby. Keeping a baby, going to school, and having a job would leave no time for friends. You're only 16, take your time to grow up..Don't rush it. You're only a teenager for so long. You've got all the time in the world to have kids.
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i dont know whats wrong with me. lately i have been thinking of killing myself. i dont know why. i have a bf and a wonderful family and friends but it doest seem worth it. i just keep thinking why not? i cant help it. i also draw the pictures of death. im a very good artist so the pictures are really good. i will sit with a pen in my hand and its like they just jump on the papper one mminute i will bethinking of what to draw and then im done and looking at this picture of death.i just think somethings wrong with me. i just want to die you know nothing can help i try leaving my house adn going fro a wlak. i just quit using and am trying to quit cuting but i only have one good friend i can depend on. do you think i have a serious problem? shoudl i tell me mom? shouold i try to get help? do u have any ideas that could help me? im just afraid that one day i m,ight end up trying to kill my self. please help i will rate really high. love the invisable girl xoxo (link)
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I think you have an addiction to cutting. It's something that some people just can't help, or stop. If I were you, I'd just say to my mom "I'd like to talk to a psychologist or counselor. I think there's something wrong with me." It's something that only you can control. No one else can make you stop, they can only help. Try throwing razors, knives, etc. away and keeping pills out of your reach. Once you get control of your actions, you should be able to control your emotions. Sorry if this isn't enough help for you. If there's anything else you are concerned about, you can ask me other questions. If friends can't help you, I'm here for you to talk to. Hope things get better for you.
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14/f here
For New Year's Eve, my family is throwing a party. My job is to entertain the kids and teens. Here are the age/gender of the kids and teens:
14/f (friend of mine)
14/m (friend of mine)
13/f (neighbor)
8/m (neighbor)
4/f (neighbor)
11/f (friend's little sister)
POSSIBLY 15/m (ex boyfriend of mine)
What things can I do to keep everyone occupied?! (link)
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That would be difficult with the 11 year old, 8 year old, and 4 year old. You could put them in a bedroom and have them play a game or watch a movie. You, your 2 friends, ex, and 13 year old neighbor could watch a seperate movie or play on the computer or just sit around and talk. Hope this helps!
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I'm a 16/f and I've liked this guy for 4 years now, ever since one of my friends dated him. Just in the past 8 months we've been talking and spending time together. Around August we stopped talking until just recently. I asked my friend for advice on what to say to him because I'm super shy. But now since it's Winter Break and he isn't busy with school or work much. So the other night I went over to his house. He kind of pressured me into having sex, I'm not complaining or anything because I wanted my first time to be with him but I just didn't imagine it being then. My friend keeps telling me that's the only reason he talks to me is because he wants to have sex, since we didn't talk for a long time until the topic of sex came up. I'm really confused with him. When I'm with him it's almost like I'm memorized by him and make myself believe that he has feelings for me. But on the other hand I can see where my friend is coming from when she says he's using me, she's my best friend and doesn't want to see me hurt. What do you think? I don't want to be someone he only calls when he's horny. I'm not that type of girl. (link)
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Most guys use girls. I'm in the same situation, only the sex hasn't actually happened yet. He tells me he likes me and stuff but we only talk about sex. I can't tell if he really means it when he says he likes me, or not. But in your case, maybe the guy likes you and at the same time, wants to have sex with you. As far as a relationship with him goes, as long as you're giving him what he wants without being "together", he most likely won't ask you out. By this I mean, if sex is what he wants, he's getting it without being your boyfriend so chances are he'll want to remain friends. Sorry if this doesn't make sense to you. You need to ask him straight up if he likes you or not. Tell him not to lie to you. Say "Not that this affects anything that we do together, but do you like me?" that way he thinks you can still have sex if he doesn't like you. If he just says "i like you" then, he might not be telling the truth. You should be able to tell.
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My best friend really has changed. We both moved into this new neighborhood, me a bit before her. I was very shy, and she wasnt. I was her firt friend here, and soon we became best friends. Thnx to her I started going out more, and we made a lot of friends in the park and stuff. But lately she's been leaving me out. She calls me to go to the park, and as soon as we get der, and she sees the guy she likes she ditches me. She's changed, and lately I've been feeling like she uses me only when she needs me. And I've told her, but she still doesnt change.I was never good at interacting, so she changed me for the good. And I've become kinda dependant on her. Now I feel like if I was blind, then they give me the gift of sight, then they take it away.It just sucks that she's starting to ignore me when I've become to used to her.And I dont know if I should just move on like she's apparently doing. (link)
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The problem with having friensd is, they change. Whether you like it or not, your friends are going to change and leave you out occasionally. I know it sucks, but that's how life is. Tell her about it, and tell her you don't like it when she does that. If it doesn't make her change, then find a new bestfriend.
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there is this guy that i have liked for liek ever!! && i always thought that he liked me back..&& this was like 2 or 3 years ago in the summer time.. && he like IMed me && was like do you like me? && i said i don`t know..but i knew i did but i don`t know why i was saying no..anyways he kept on asking me && i kept on saying that..until my cousin wrote no..&& now he won`t talk or even look at me anymore. i tried to talk to him but he just blows me off..&& then he told this girl the he was gonna ask me out but i becuase soo "white-washed".. its kinda dumb but i still like him. one time i asked him if liked my && he said no..but i`m not sure if he is lying or not.
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Well, you should have told him from the beginning that you liked him. If a guy takes time to ask you about your feelings for him, chances are he likes you too. You need to call him or something and say "Can we talk?" ..tell him the whole story. Just say, you thought he didn't like you so you kept saying you didn't know when he asked you if you liked him and then one time your cousin said no, and you're sorry for all of that.
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okay well this boy that i like is going to the dance this friday and i've been meaning to ask him if i should give up on him.. or if he is going to give me another chance... how does this sound to you...
(i'm gonna ask him to dance and he will say yes if i go up and ask him myself... ) then while were dancing i'm going to say to him " okay i need to ask you a question but you have to give me a straight answer and a truthful one or else it will be useless for me to even ask you =] so .. i wanted to know if you are going to give me another chance soon like in the next month or should i move on and not wait for you to come around" is that good.. should i switch anything around?
thanks in advance =] i always give 5's for a try =] (link)
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I went through the same situation. The guy just kind of left me hanging. I didn't know what to do. I thought if I moved on, he'd come around and it'd be too late. But if I stayed, he'd end up hurting me. So if I were you, I would ask him. Your plan sounds good to me. That's exactly how I asked my ex-boyfriend. But maybe you shouldn't mention "within the next month"..Say "are you going to give me another chance soon, or should i just move on and get over it?" It'll look like you're willing to give up, or wait for him. Guys like that. Let's just hope he's honest with you. Good luck.
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theres this guy and hes a freshman and im a 8th grader and weve been talking for 4 months not boyfriend and girlfriend tho cause we dont wanna go threw all the breaking up stuff. but hes fingered me 3 times and we made out alot but i dont wanna go any farther i wouldnt mind maybe giving him head i just dont wanna have sex. is there anyway when were "hooking up" to make sure nothing goes too farr? (link)
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Whenever he goes for it, stop him..That's pretty much the only way. Maybe talk to him about it and tell him that you'll do pretty much anything except for sex. You don't have to do anything that you don't want to do, so don't let him tell you different.
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I kinda liked/like this guy in my class. He's so nice and were deff like really close friends were always laughing and joking and I thought I just liked him as a friend, but he's such a good guy I can totally see myself being more then friends with him. We talk everyday, he leaves me myspace comments, messages me, texts me, and we have a bunch of jokes together.
Well, turns out, my step brother heard about me sorta liking this guy, and he asked him about me. My bro said when he asked him he was like smiling and stuff and that he might like me, but he wasn't sure so not to get my hopes up.
Soooo, what? Just best friends? or What? (link)
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Don't assume things. Talk to the guy and ask him if he likes you. Let him know that you like him and want to be more than just friends with him and see how that works.
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i'm going out with this guy and like people are starting to know..... but alot of people are making fun of me telling me i'm desperate! but im not i love this guy but its soo annoying that these people think this..what should i do?
xoxx (link)
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Don't let other people's opinion affect yours. I'm kinda in the same situation. I like this guy, but he kinda has a bad reputation with girls. I didn't want alot of people knowing about me and him hanging out but it got out and now people are constantly reminding me to "not let him hurt me". It's your life and your decision, don't worry about what anyone else thinks.
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I am 13 and I still don't have my period!I don't know what is going on, I weigh more than a lot of my friends and they all already have them!!!What do I do????
Love always(please help),
Gina (link)
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Not everyone starts their period at the age of 13. I'm 15, and some of my friends still haven't started theirs yet. It's different for everyone, don't freak out about it. You can't control it. There's nothing wrong with you, it's completely normal.
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I was talking to my boyfriend on the phone tonight and just casually he guessed what his gift was and he didn’t sound all that pleased. What makes it worse is that he asked if he had guessed right and I blurted out No, just because I was scared and upset!
I’m a little panicked. I thought I had a good idea but he sounded really unimpressed…
I’m totally lost as to what to do now! Should I try and get something else? Or just go with it and admitted I didn’t tell the truth?! (link)
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Give it to him, just tell him you didn't want him to know. If he doesn't like it, tell him he can take it back and get something else with the money. Or buy him something else along with that gift.
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Soo..years ago i use to cut, smoke, and do drugs. and i thought i got through it, but now..i want to do it again. im having cravings and i dont know how to stop it. how can i stop these cravings i am getting? they are really getting to me. (link)
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That's what drugs do to you, it's a very strong addiction that gives you cravings to do it more and more. I read a book called "Go Ask Alice", she explains her drug addiction. It was a true story. She stopped for a long time and ended up dying from an overdose about 6 months after stopping. You need to have control over yourself and what you do. Don't allow yourself to even be AROUND drugs, that'll just make you crave it more. As for cutting, make sure you have no objects that you may use around..Get rid of all of them. Whenever you think about cutting for anger or stress, squeeze a pillow instead. Don't hurt your body. Smoking is the same as drugs.
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So recently I've been waking up and finding that on my legs/arms, random bruises are appearing on my body. I'm at the point that I cheak my arms and legs before I go to bed & think back to if I hit anything. Im wondering if this could be a sign for anything that I should be worried about medically, or maybe I'm just paranoid? Thanks & I'll rate. (link)
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For awhile, I would wake up with marks on my arms. Even scratches sometimes. You may be having a bad dream in the middle of the night and take out your fear or anger on your own body without even knowing it. It's probably nothing too serious. If it keeps up for awhile longer then you might want to consider seeing a doctor or something.
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Ohk i notcie this big time do you?
When people say they are tottaly in love with boyfriend/girlfriend. for exmaple on myspace in the about me section people say yes im in love with my wonderful boyfirned/girlfriend or they have tons of pictures and him/her the first one on your top eight. But as soon they break up all words and pictures gone .. like he/she fell off the face of the earth.
Is thatplaying around with the words love in anyway? like i still have my ex boyfriends picture up on my myspace and we broke up 7months ago.
thanks (link)
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Alot of people think they are "in love". I'm not gonna lie, I even think I could be. But chances are, half of them are just going through "puppy love", or lust. Lust is like you NEED the person in your life. Most teens experience lust, instead of love. I think people think it's cool to be in love, so they pretend that's what it is. Lol, however..maybe you are experiencing love, and maybe your friends are too. But i have noticed this and I, personally, don't think love occurs until you're actually mature enough to know what it is. And when you are in love..you won't need anyone to tell you that you are. So your friends are probably NOT in love.
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hey...
anyone who's good with computers...
everytime i switch my homepage it just keeps going back to the old one..how do i change this..and also..there is this toolbar on my main desktop and i dont know how to get rid of it. HELP!!
thanks in advance=) (link)
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You click Tools at the top of the internet screen, then go to Internet options. Where it says "Address" type in the homepage you want. Then click OK and refresh the page. It should work. On the toolbar, there should be something that says Exit or along the lines of that, if not..then i'm not sure. Hope this helps.
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