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theres this guy and hes a freshman and im a 8th grader and weve been talking for 4 months not boyfriend and girlfriend tho cause we dont wanna go threw all the breaking up stuff. but hes fingered me 3 times and we made out alot but i dont wanna go any farther i wouldnt mind maybe giving him head i just dont wanna have sex. is there anyway when were "hooking up" to make sure nothing goes too farr?
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Oh gosh. Um... Well the only thing I could say was to not see him!
but I know how you feel. your like but he's hot and I don't want to seem retarted.
well. i guess tell him that you want to wait. And lead him on. Truthfully though. I mean maybe if you want to go farther later. Or in a few months. tell him that. make him wait.
If he really likes you and thinks your that hot. he will wait.
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Just try to keep your thoughts together when you are with the boy. If he goes too far say "no" but make sure you realize he IS going too far. It's easy to get carried away -- believe me, I know -- so try to pay attention to what you're doing while you're doing it.
You didn't mention whether you use drugs or drink with this boy -- but that is a bad idea, because they lower your inhibitions and you might do something you weren't planning on. Make sure you are sober while you are making out with him. Oh, and even if you aren't planning on having sex, it would be a good idea to have a condom handy anyway, just in case something unexpected occurs.
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it sounds like what you need right now isnt someone to tell you what you are doing is right or wrong. if you just want to make sure you dont get carried away with this boy, you might try wearing a certain type of "unsexy" underwear or something of the like. Trust me, granny panties will instantly remind you.
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well i kinda went through this just stright up tell him what u want to do with him and what you dont want to do with him im sure he will understand.....
~*~ Michelle ~*~
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Whenever he goes for it, stop him..That's pretty much the only way. Maybe talk to him about it and tell him that you'll do pretty much anything except for sex. You don't have to do anything that you don't want to do, so don't let him tell you different.
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It will only go to far only if you let things go too far. If he's a trusting boy he won't force you that way. Be careful with all that oral sex you can get syphillus. Be cantious otherwise have fun with that, but be careful if he wants to go out with you make sure there for the right reasons. Have fun!!!! Hope i helped!!!
~queencece~
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slow down a little in my opinion you are young for all that. just stay in public places with him till you get to know each other and feel safe and sure of how you feel about it.
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How about telling him this.. That way he`ll know and hopefully respect that you don`t want to go farther then what you say.. If you have to say No while being with him then deff. get rid of this guy.. Even tho you aren`t a couple.. ♥ Dez
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Just tell him you dont want to, plain and simple as that.
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