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Relative financially abusing mother with dementia POA
Posted Tuesday February 18 2025, 2:46 am
My mother's step sister is financially abusing her by getting a POA and removing large amounts of money from my mothers bank account. She lied and applied for a restraining order against me and dropped it when I showed up to court. I think she believed I wouldn't show up. What can I do?
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Tired of being disrespected
Posted Tuesday January 14 2025, 10:03 pm
My son just turned 20 and even before he turned this age he's been disrespecting me and his 16 yr old sister and 8 yr old brother, I'm so tired of the negativity and him being hateful and mean non stop. He has ADHD but claims the reason he's a jerk is because of his anger supposedly stemming from his ADHD. I'm over the pain and hurt from him, I don't know what else to do, he has a job and brings in some money but doesn't drive yet because of his own preferences..I really need some help and some suggestions. Thanks
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My boyfriend says it up to me!
Posted Monday January 13 2025, 5:22 pm
So I go t back with my ex in December 22nd and it's now January 13th . We were together the last time for a year. This time not even a month and we are already having issues. The problem is I am starting to fall back in love with again, but he plainly said he doesn't feel the same way when I told him my feelings. He say he appreciates the way I feel about him but he doesn't feel the same way about me , but he also said it's up to me if I wanted to continue the relationship? Why is he wanting to continue the relationship if he doesn't feel the same way about me as I do him? We are not in a sexual relationship yet . If that helps.
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The only "open door" and the bridge too far too gap
Posted Saturday December 21 2024, 1:31 pm
I’m reaching out for advice because I’m at a critical crossroads in my life, and I would value insight and spiritual wisdom.
My academic journey has been anything but smooth so far. I’ve only completed one semester of college as a 2023 high school graduate so far and I wish that wasn’t the case but I feel that it’s been out of my hands. I was recently unable to continue my studies at my university due to financial challenges, and now I’m faced with figuring out my potential next steps. And no one knows it. I spent my past 2 months lying to my family about everything, they think I’m enrolled and doing swell. I don’t tell them anything because they can’t help me or even give me wise counsel. They are low or no...
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I got invited over to my Aunt's house for Christmas Dinner!
Posted Wednesday December 18 2024, 5:52 pm
My Aunt that I haven't been over to house since my dad died when I was 12 invited me for Christmas dinner this year . I met up with her before hand at local restaurant because I haven't seen her all much either since I was 12 unless I was at at store like Walmart or something. I am now 35 years old . We just started talking on the phone again about a month ago and I do feel like I want build a relationship with my Aunt and Uncle again. My Aunt told me my Uncle is 74;and has Cancer. I just don't understand why they waited all these years to start trying to start talking to me again 20 plus years later. Also what would be a good dish to bring.
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I am still in love him and I don't know what to do !
Posted Saturday November 2 2024, 8:51 pm
I really don't know know wear to begin but heart is broken . I was dating this guy that had fallen in love with for 6 months. I wanted to marry him Things seemed to be going great. We never fought or anything. I gave him my virginity. I didn't notice anything was wrong and the one day I started getting concerned. I haven't heard from in about 3 days so I decided to check his fb and then realized he changed his fb status from in a relationship to single without even telling me he was even thinking about ending the relationship. I had just had a hysterectomy the week before he broke up with me . I ended up going to the psychiatric hospital because of all this. Then he sends a reply the text that sent him a few days before asking what I did wr...
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Finding a new counselor!
Posted Friday October 25 2024, 5:16 pm
So here it goes I was at the doctor's office yesterday seeing my therapist and she tells me she's leaving and starting her business as certified counselor and hands me a flier to her business that's not all she did she asked me if I wanted to schedule an appointment with her at her practice without thing I said yes because I really do like her . The problem is when I home I saw red flags that I didn't notice before like she wouldn't give me the address of her business she said she didn't want to disclose that information right now and she would calle regarding that info. Is it legal to ask for clients while working for another company on their time? I also had just got out of the psychiatric hospital if that helps any the week before.
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Why do people in relationships stray
Posted Wednesday September 4 2024, 7:50 am
I've been with man almost 5 years and in the last almost 2 years he's been talking to other women and calling them beautiful, but gives me barely any attention...yet I work, cook, clean and take care of my 2 kids...I don't wanna leave him but I've brought it to his attention and all he says is they messaged me...yeah ok they did, doesn't mean you need to respond! Oh but he does. So unless something changes I will be leaving him sooner than he thinks.
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Is it right to tease my BF so much?
Posted Wednesday July 17 2024, 5:01 pm
My BF and I are both 15. We are both part of the same church and youth group and we took pledges not to have sex before marriage. We are lucky we have an easy time talking deep and honest with each other about our feelings including how we crave each other sexually. We kiss and cuddle but we keep to the boundaries we decided on. Even then he has to have breaks to calm down when we make out and cuddle because he gets so horny. To be honest it is fun to see how desperate I can make him. He says I am evil but we laugh and he never tells me to stop. It is harder for him because he had a history of turning to porn and masturbating and he is doing this self improvement thing where he is goes for weeks not touching so he is not tempted on th...
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Should I ask for what I want?
Posted Monday July 15 2024, 7:49 pm
I wrote about this situation already. The advice I received was good and I agreed then now I feel different again. It was about a guy 10 years older than me( this doesn't bother me) who lives in another country. I am 25 but as said before I was going to move to his country then I met him online and changed my mind since I am religious and he isn't. I don't want to be unevenly yoked because I already see the problems that this will cause. For instance, I want my husband and kids to serve together. My feelings for this guy though are strong. Texting is not as special for me to write this but via video call the chemistry is crazy. Yesterday, I recorded it and looked back and it was like those videos you see in a movie. He is the type of guy th...
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What does the saying mean "You're.playing around with people's money"?
Posted Thursday July 4 2024, 2:42 pm
What does it mean to play around with someone's money?
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Is a 15 year old too young to visit her mom who will be in jail for 6 month
Posted Monday June 24 2024, 1:01 am
The charge is a check fraud charge and it is a six month sentence. My daughter she seems to be handling it fine. I told her right away about it and she reacted pretty calmly. I told her mom did the wrong thing and is rightfully serving her punishment. They have a good relationship. The main problem I have is she will see her mom in a jail jumpsuit and see guards and other inmates that could be intimidating. Is that ok for a 15 year old to see? Actually my daughter does not seem scared but instead seems excited and enthusiastic to visit. This is strange to me. Do you find this normal? My daughter seems to find the idea of her mom having to wearing a uniform, sharing a room funny. I wonder why she would think it is funny. My wife says bring h...
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Am I crazy irrational here?
Posted Monday June 10 2024, 6:42 am
I will keep this short. I broke up with my bf of 3 years because his life was on pause and he was making no steps to move forwards, no commitments to himself or our relationship and everything felt like it was just hit a wall.
The agreement was that we still loved each other but he agreed he needed to fix his life before we could be together. I told him he could do whatever he wanted, and he reassured me all he wanted was to be with me and make it work. He had a lot of distraction, adhd and other issues related to mental health that he had been avoiding working on for years and I finally said I couldn’t do it anymore unless he got help. He promised he would work hard to get us back on track that he only wanted to be with m...
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Life orientation
Posted Thursday June 6 2024, 10:09 pm
Is it possible if you are finger fucked & loose your virginity due to finger fucking ? Example (lesbian finger fucking)
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I am horrified I might be a bad person
Posted Thursday June 6 2024, 12:34 am
Me and my sister (both teenage girls, she is 2 years older than me) were shopping together with our mother the other day. I looked at her ass with no actual thought in it, just observing what was around me basically, but my brain started to fixate on the fact that I did that and I started internally yelling at myself for it, but because I was thinking about it I kept looking at her ass over and over. It really did not mean anything, I don’t look at people in that way because I really don’t care but I’m so scared that I am disgusting, that I might subconsciously be attracted to my sister even though I know I’m not and the idea grosses me out. I feel so horrible for looking there, she’s my sister, I never should have looked even tho...
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My husband tells me to shutup during fights.
Posted Wednesday May 15 2024, 3:57 pm
My husband and I have been married for almost a year. We have been married for this long, however, we have been together for about three years in total. For the most part, we get along. However, ever since we started the relationship, I realized that he has a lot of unhealthy communication. I def have my own faults and things to work on, but I never come near disrespect in this relationship unless he starts it. Unfortunately, there were many times before we got married, that he would tell me to shut up when we were arguing or in a heated fight. So at first, I used to retaliate and tell him to shut up back and that he can't talk to me like that. We've had several conversations about this, he always makes me feel degraded by telling me I need...
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I feel so stressed everyday and it gets worse
Posted Thursday May 9 2024, 3:49 pm
25 F
I began working full time at 23. During this time my boss who really wasnt my boss but she was head of the department annoyed me. Giving me this to do out of my duties etc. Hence, I would get upset then one day I eventually told her about it. She said that these were the duties she designed for the position and that by doing them I was helping out the department etc. I explained to her that stuff that she added to my role was not what I agreed to do when I signed the contract with my actual boss. Soon after I got a job in Latin America and left so not much came out of that situation. When I was leaving and stuff she bought me gifts and organized a goodbye party so no harm was done. Now in my new job in another country I...
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I can’t get over what I did in my past, what do I do?
Posted Thursday May 9 2024, 6:41 am
I’m a girl 14 years old turning 15 soon, if it is relevant I’m autistic and have anxiety, and I’ve recently been in a depressed spiral, I barely get out of bed at all except for to go to the bathroom and if I have to get out for anything then I end up just crying, I don’t want to eat anything either. The reason for this is because in my recent past (like 2020-2022 maybe 2023 I can’t remember, I might have done it before 2020 too) I looked at inappropriate stuff of underage fictional characters, like anime and stuff like that. I’m so disgusted and ashamed of myself, it wasn’t only underage characters and it didn’t reflect my actual thoughts obviously, I never felt like that towards any real children I’m not a predator and I...
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Am I wrong for choosing to stay at my job?
Posted Saturday April 13 2024, 3:03 pm
Currently, I work as an overnight stocker and I’ve been doing it for 7 years straight. The pay is decent( 17 per hour). Currently
, I live at home with my parents and older sister. Life hasn’t been easy since I made dumb decisions when I was younger, thus I had been battling depression for a decade. In 2023, I decided to try to get out of my runt and confront my issues. Firstly, I dealt with my debt. I was dealing with student loan payments and other personal debt. In 2024, by the grace of God, I was able to file for bankruptcy. Secondly, I was job searching to find something better. I did get hired for an overnight stocking position for 19 dollars with a different company. Initially, I was excited but then I rejected the offer....
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living with an abnormally fast metabolism
Posted Thursday April 4 2024, 8:39 am
I was born with an abnormally fast metabolism. My parents noticed it by the time I was 4 years old. I think they have high metabolisms too, especially my mom, but not like me. They were both college athletes and my dad played minor league baseball for a while.
I was always much hungrier than other people and I ate a lot more than normal. My mom would talk to our doctor about it. Despite many tests no problem was found. Around 7th grade my appetite got very large and my friends at school would even tease me about it.
In college I was living full time with other girls. I got very self conscious about my appetite and even started to think something might be wrong with me. I was training in swimming and I would eat 7000-8000 calo...
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