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am i a slut if I made out with him?
13/f
ok, a couple weeks ago i went to a party in miami.
i used to live there so i knew a few people there.
but there was this one guy that i didnt know.
and i was dancing with him all night.
before me and my friend left i made out with him.
EVERYONE knows about it.
even at his school.
im going out with him now.
and he was the first guy i ever made out with.
but, do you think im a slut?
thanks in advance :]
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No that doesnt make you a slut I believe that you just like this guy alot and you felt a connection and the tention was in the air and the moment was there and yall started to make out a slut is someone whos gives her body to any random dude and then go and do the same with the next
your not a slut you just got caught in the moment of a guy wqho your into and like lot and dance with him lots and then at the end of the day just fell for him
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no. making out with guys does NOT make you a slut. =]
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Umm no your not a slut me and my girlfriend did the same thing its alright you made out with someone that you just knew. There is nothing wrong with that its not the end of the world. Well thats all I can say because you are not a slut. I hope this helps. A slut is: A person, especially a woman, considered sexually promiscuous. There that is the definition of a slut.
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hay your not a slut... a slut is someone who has sex and makes out with random guys all the time.. just by doing it once and people talking about it wont make you a slut.. trust me people are bound to talk about stuff they have seen or have none its no biggy.
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Nope. It's not like you go around & give head to every guy you see, or makeout with just anyone. You're dating him now so it's not a big deal.
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Haha, not at all. :]
A slut is somebody who'd be dirty just for the heck of it with anyone
But making out is just a part of what you do growin' up.
Don't worry about it.
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No, not at all. A slut is a girl who's extremely promiscuous and stoops down VERY low (and by "low", I mean doing more than just dancing) to get attentions from guys. Dancing and making out is not considered "slutty" by any normal person.
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You're not a slut. You're 13. And you've never had sex.
That's a not slut. =]
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slut (slt)
n.
1.
a. A woman considered sexually promiscuous.
b. A woman prostitute.
2. A slovenly woman; a slattern.
That is the definition of "slut" in the Free Online Dictionary.
If none of these apply to you, then you are not a slut. From what you said, you don't fit any of these definitions.
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No. Making out really isn't that big of a deal. And it's fun. And you're going out with him, so it's really okay.
Don't worry about it =)
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The dictionary definition of slut is prostitute, whore etc. or someone who sleeps around a lot usually with random partners they met an example is one-night stands. So, no you are far from being a slut.
What you did was consensual and normal behavior between two people who are now boyfriend and girlfriend. If the school is a abuzz about this they'll soon turn their attention to something else if neither your boyfriend or yourself react to this.
The people spreading the story around will stop when they realize it doesn't phase you. Most people who hear others telling such stories just brush it off as usually those telling them were nowhere near the party or people in the story. It's all fragments and second hand knowledge that most people won't be caught up in or label as BS in their minds.
The key thing is you must not react to people spreading this around as they'll stop when they see it doesn't affect you. After all, why would people care so much if he's your boyfriend? If someone nothers you face to face about this you can say "He's my boyfriend"
Walk away or point that out to anyone who brings it up in your presence. That will spread like wildfire and your problem could be solved. There's really not a story for them to be interested in if you made out with him and started a relationship after.
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No, if you're going out with him then who cares?! Plus people should mind their own business anyway. :]
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of course not. you and the guy just may be taking it fast. it has nothing to do with being a slut
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No. You're going out with him, why should you be a slut? Thats pathetic if people are calling you one. you're not!
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