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Irritating the crap out of me
There's this guy from my clique who likes to irritate me. But anyway, he makes fun of everyone. I'm rather close to him as in like I can talk to him. Both of us belong to the same clique and I guess i can talk to him pretty well as compared to the rest in my clique.
Recently, he kept criticising bout me. Whenever he knows a guy is interested in me, he'd be like "What?! He has really bad taste". There's this other guy who was interested in me and he happens to know that guy as well. So he was telling me "Ya, anyway, he has really bad taste. His favourite girls from the FHM magazine are all not nice."
And he likes to put me down, saying for eg "everyone in our class is quite pretty.. except for ___(my name)"
And when i just randomly told him that someone said i look like one of the girls from a pop group,(the girl is a tomboy) he'd say "ya , people say that you look like the ugly lesbian part of her right?"
And I'd be like OK FINE! just what the hell is your problem. Can someone tell me just what the heck is he doing cos he's really pissing me off a lot. And it's not like he's so handsome ok! He's not handsome at all! And I'll be like yeah what right do you have to criticise people's appearance.
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maybe he just likes u as corny as it sounds guys somehow think it is attractive to tease girls (lol)just tell him look i dont find it attractive that ur teasin me,and i dont apprecheate you treating me like this so just back off.maybe he will listen up (guys are scared of girls )and if not ttake matters into your own hands (punc him ...lol)let me know how it all works out
lots of love,lizzie
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A) He likes you and is trying to either scare away any potential competition and/or trying to compensate for some insecurities he has/may have.
(for example, his physical appearance.)
B) He see's you as like a younger sister and believes he's keeping away guys that would just hurt you/ that are 'no good for you'.
(at least in his eyes)
c1) He hates you and just loves to make you miserable.
c2) He's jealous, because no one has shown any interest in him.
(more of a girl trait, but I’m sure there are some guys who can/do have it too)
d) ...he thinks he's hilarious.
(this could be very possible, especially if you have any friends who laugh at his remarks that have to do with you.
e) ...you're a lesbian man like-looking girl in denial.
(you're probably not, but I figured I should try to cover most of the angles. When in doubt, ask a friend that you think will be honest and/or blunt with you.)
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if hes discouraging other guys from you maybe he likes you and is going about it in the wrong way. if so i stil dont think you should pursue the relationship or even be friends with him you dont need people like that in your life. you might not see it now but there are somany people in the world that theres plenty of great people who will respect you and be worth your time. this guy isnt one of them so why even bother with him or be friends with someone who treats people including you whos supposedly his friend like that. forget him you need to break away from the negativity its only going to bring you down because it will gradually get worse even if he does like you hell probably still put you down so others wont see the beauty in you. dont stand for it. hes just a person and has no right to make you feel any less then what you are.
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you shouldn't put up with that! seriously ask what his problem is. loud. so everyone will hear.
it is possible that he's jelous if you becuase people actually like you and you say he's not handsome or for some other equally stupid reason but even so you shouldn't have to deal with him. evn if he is part of your "clique" that kind of person isn't your friend.
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He actuallyy might like you. Chances are if he teases you about your looks.. he probably actually think's you're pretty. Especially if you tell him that a certain guy likes you - that probably got him jealous and he was just making fun of you. Hope I helpedd. :]
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It sounds to me like he probably just likes you. Guys can be immature and instead of just letting you know, they feel they have to tease you and pick on you and everything. And he also might be afraid of being rejected by you. Lol yeah, that's the way to get a girl though, isn't it?
Because if he really didn't like you, he probably wouldn't be hanging out with you and talking to you and being near the clique.
Just talk to him whenever you two are just hanging out by yourselves or just pull him over away from your friends for a second and talk to him about it. Just be like,"What's the deal here? I mean we hang out and everything and we talk and whenever I start to think you're really nice and stuff, you go ahead and insult me and call me ugly and say I look like a lesbian and stuff? Do you HATE me or something, cause I didn't offend you or anything." And just talk to him about it. And if he doesn't try to talk about it, he's really immature and I'd just start to ignore him. And then hopefully whenever he realizes you won't talk to him if he's gonna only insult you, he might clean up his act.
I hope I helped. <3
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from what you said it seems like he likes you, but is too immature or afraid to tell you. so, he makes fun of you and tries to make it look like he doesn't have any interest in you by insulting you and people he knows that like you. that way it deflects any attention towards him liking you. guys can be really immature that way.
this seems like the most likely reason, considering he still hangs out with you and you've never done anything to him.
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People make fun of other people. Usually to get the person mad, because its fun to get a rise out of people. Thats the way it is. Its always going to be that way. Just ignore it and dont let it bother you.
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He likes you. His behaviour is his immature way of expressing that liking. He's also probably afraid of rejection. Give it a few years, and you two might be a couple(if he grows up that is). But from what you say, him fancying you is the most likely explanation.
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Maybe he likes you or something. Maybe you did something to him in the past to make him mad. i would suggets you talk to him about it. hope i helped
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