i hate my self because i have hairy arms.. i never wear t-shirts even if it is 90degrees because i just hate it.. i hate my body .. what do i do ????????
Vicky answered Sunday August 27 2006, 2:57 pm: I have always hated my body too but the only way to deal with this is to accept it. You only have one body, there aren't any spares so you just have to love it and look after it.
Nobody is perfect and you shouldn't care what people think.
My friend has hairy arms, she doesn't give a fuck. Fuck everyone else, get 'em out. (note to self : calm down) erm yeah you have to accept your body the way it is and take care of it.
Plus, don't shave them or they will come back thicker and darker! :) [ Vicky's advice column | Ask Vicky A Question ]
KisaKiss19 answered Sunday August 27 2006, 2:56 pm: if you havent already..dont shave them.i used to do that and they just came back blackk!!also this girl made me so embarissed by say "you shave your arms dont you? why? o wow you shave them?" (that was a while ago..) here,if your really inscure about them take some sissors and trim the hair.if people say,you have hairy arm just say "yeah im very italian" --or whatver nationality is.it doesnt really make a difference for your appearence.,lots of people have hairy arms.i do,i used to be so insucure but when people tell me do i make a joke about it or something :p. and your arm hair gets lighter in the summer!! its silly to dred having hairy arms,because you'll realize that people dont care how hairy your arms are xP.trust me,i've been through this.you notice more than any one else that you have hairy arms.and besides,its turning winter (at lest where i am it is) so you'll be wearing more long sleeves (if you live in a changing climate.. :O)
i hope i helped...i tried :D
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nikitathecheetah answered Sunday August 27 2006, 2:56 pm: you hate yourrself b/c you have hair on yur arms? are you kidding me? i have hair on my arms too and ppl at my schol call me cockroach.. but yeah you should just wax them b/c thats what i do!! so yeah i hope i helped!!
helpmebrenda answered Sunday August 27 2006, 2:56 pm: Hi
PLEASE DON'T SHAVE YOUR ARMS!!!!!! I promise you, you will regret it.
I own my own body sugaring business. It's like waxing only better for your skin. I have several clients who get their arms sugared and it's wonderful for them.
I also have clients who have previously shaved, and now their arms are considerably worse. It's hard to believe, but if you start shaving your arms you will hate them even more than you do now.
If accepting your arms for what they are isn't possible right now, then I suggest finding a reputable salon that can help you. Don't do it yourself, and most of all.....PUT THE RAZOR AWAY!!
honestXmiistake answered Sunday August 27 2006, 2:46 pm: first of all, you shouldn't hate yourself just because you dislike your arms. everyone has hair on their arms, some just more than others. you could shave them if you want, but to tell you the truth, i wouldn't recommend it because you will have to continue doing it and if you ever stop it might come back darker and thicker. waxing is another option, but it might hurt, although it would keep the hair away for longer. do what you want though and whatever is easier for you. i hope i helped :] [ honestXmiistake's advice column | Ask honestXmiistake A Question ]
ifonlytheskywasgreen answered Sunday August 27 2006, 2:44 pm: I say wax and don't shave. I mean you could shave, but it will just keep growing back. When you wax it will not grow for a long time, and for me after a couple waxings it's hardly noticeable and I had VERY dark hair and it was notecable before. [ ifonlytheskywasgreen's advice column | Ask ifonlytheskywasgreen A Question ]
DefinedEyes answered Sunday August 27 2006, 2:43 pm: Everyone has hairy arms,
dont worry about it.
Some hardly have any hair,
and some have a lot.
I highly suggest NOT shaving it though,
because it will grow back stiff,
and prickly, sort like when you shave your legs.
But mainly learn to accept your body,
and that everyone is different,
nobody is perfect,
and we all have flaws and things we dont like about ourselfs. But if we think of things like that, we can be happier. [ DefinedEyes's advice column | Ask DefinedEyes A Question ]
MelLeDisko answered Sunday August 27 2006, 2:32 pm: Everybody has hairy arms, so it's completely fine. It's just that some people's arm hair is more noticeable than others. [ I'm a blonde, so mine barely show ] but if they ever start to, what I do is just shave them. Alot of my friends do it too, so it's not like it's weird or anything. And nobody even mentions anything about it. Like the other advicenators said, if you want to wax, that's an option, but that might hurt. What I do is just use an electric shaver and go over it, and it works fine for me. I hope I helped. <3 [ MelLeDisko's advice column | Ask MelLeDisko A Question ]
xSharpiexLovex answered Sunday August 27 2006, 1:51 pm: ok i used to do the same thing...
just shave your arms, seriously lots of people do it...i do it! and nobody cares if you shave your arms
you dont even have to shave everyday, you wont notice the hair after a while...
just shave your arms its easy and fast and you can wear tshirts if you do
*edit*
alright i just saw that someone wrote "dont shave it will grow back dark and thick" thats not true. i would know. the more you shave, the thinner the hair gets.....ive shaved my arms for like a year, and now the hair is thin so my arms feel smooth even if i dont shave.....
also i saw all these people are like...omg dont shave its bad....actually you will feel alot better about yourself and dont bleach if you have very hairy arms....it looks SO bad, its the worst [if you have VERy hairy arms]
o ya and i also read that girl who said someone was making fun of her cause she shaved her arms..........well depending how hairy your arms are.......you will get made fun of so much more if you dont shave them...actually no one ever made fun of me shaving my arms, but i got made fun of cause i used to have hairy arms, it was the worst [ xSharpiexLovex's advice column | Ask xSharpiexLovex A Question ]
thelaura answered Sunday August 27 2006, 1:22 pm: Everyone has hairy arms. Just some are more noticeable than others.
If you don't like the hairs on your arms, do something about it! You don't have to suffer.
There's many things you can do. From bleaching to waxing etc. Talk to your parents about it, or go down to a place which specifies in things like this in your area.
But because YOU know the hairs on your arms are there, doesn't mean everyone else does. Chances are they probably don't notice.
Don't let something like this get you down!
Never say you hate your body. Sure, some people have things they don't like about themselves, but who doesn't? Not one person is 100% happy with their body, but they learn to live with it and love it.
You need a confidence boost. Make the most of what you have. and if possible, treat yourself to new clothing/haircut etc to make you feel like a newer/different person. :) [ thelaura's advice column | Ask thelaura A Question ]
orphans answered Sunday August 27 2006, 1:21 pm: Either shave or wax your arms. Many, many, many girls shave their arms.
The first time I got rid of the hair on my arms, I waxed them. It hurt but it lasted a long time. Now, I just shave like, once a week. [ orphans's advice column | Ask orphans A Question ]
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