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could anyone give me some lyrics
about wanting to be with som eone
or wanting someone to ask them out.

I kinda want to leave little hints
for someone lol

so come on baby let me be the girl
that you can count on to rock your world

i'm in awe cause you shine like the sun
let me be the one to enjoy you

you can also look at these quote & icon sites

http://www.xanga.com/xohcourtyshaye

http://www.xanga.com/C_RiCHxQUOTESXiCONS

they have good quotes & ones that would apply to what you want

I've been a competative cheerleader for 4 years, I cheer on my schools squad currently. I used to throw a handspring layout as my running, and a standing three handspring tuck as my standing tumbling. All the sudden, I freak out at tumbling class, and I've never tumbled since. (It's been about 2 years) People make fun of me cause I'm the only one on the squad who doesn't tumble, I won't even throw a handspring, I just can't make myself do it. Tumbling classes had to stop when my dad got a few paycuts, so thats outa the question. What should I do to get my tumbling back, and get over my fear?

i have the same problem . . when i go to tumble i freak out. you've just got to face your fears. to start out ask someone to spot you for 1 standing bhs & work up from there. the best thing to do is to go for it . . you have more chance getting hurt by freaking out about it than just going for it. i know it's hard not to be nervous just don't think about it too much & don't like stop half way through. if you're that good you'll get over no problem.

dont laugh please but i have a question. is there anyway you can like "speed up" your period so it doesnt last as long? like i said, please dont laugh, i seriously want to know if there is a way.

i would say intense running . . during cross country (long distance running) season i don't get my period at all. i don't know if it works for everyone but it's worth a try. run like a couple miles a day or just work out really hard.

This one is for girls. Do girls like guys that are cute or hot. Not both, one or the other.

i don't really go for looks but i like cute guys for dating . . like really sweet, caring guys. i would rather hook up with a hot guy than date one unless they have a good personalitly & are really sweet.

my pregnant sister is trying to find a unique [maybe exotic] MIDDLE name for her baby girl, so far its between Cache[accent over the e] and chenelle....

the babys name will be Alexis [middle name] Smigelski

does anyone have any suggestions for a middle name?? and please dont say anything like nicole or ashley, NO common stuff

haha sry if im sounding mean but i just would like any suggestions that sound good, you can see our taste in names [chenelle, cache] if that helps so ya thanks, ill rate anyone who at least trys lol

~ xsharpiexlovex

shaye
lillian
chloe
ella
lily
bree
shaw
lorelai
kiana
mia
skye
fiona
gweneth
ellie

you could also look here . .

http://www.thebabynamer.com/Unique-&-Unusual-baby-names-A-page-0.html;jsessionid=FGNKFGJEIAFI

Hey -
Does anyone know the name of that song that plays in the movie Save The Last Dance after sara and her boyfriend have a fight about her being confused and not sure if they should be together? thanks..
it kinda goes like this
"baby i _______ done all the things ________...see i know that ive been a fool...for far too long"
thanks.

crazy by KC & JoJo

hi, well im not a politics type of guy, so i dont know why george bush and tony blair are hated so much. what have they done thats so bad?

well, number one, he's just plain stupid. he uses middle/elementary school terms . . in other words he uses no intellectual words. he came to my school and said how he was a c student. some of the things he said i was just like, are you kidding me? i ultimately fell asleep because he so stupid and boring. also, people who don't agree with the war hate him because he got us into the war. people also don't like him because he is against gay marriages. all in all he shouldn't have been elected for a second term . . do we really want a c student, idiot running our country? i think not.

When my boyfriend comes to hang out with me at my house I never know what to wear. Sense I still do live with my parents I know i cant dress over the top or they might suspect something. Any ideas how i can look sexii but cute and clean at the same time?

i would suggest you wear jeans, comfy pants, shorts, t-shirts, tank tops (not really low cut), polos, or long sleeve shirts.

jeans with: t-shirts, tank tops, polos, or long sleeve shirts

comfy pants with: t-shirts, tank tops, or long sleeve shirts

shorts with: t-shirts, tank tops, polos, or long sleeve shirts

if you want outfit examples just ask me & i'll give you some examples of what would be cute but still acceptible.

[14/f]

when i was 12 i noticed the hair on my arm was growing and there was more of it, so i figured i could get rid of it the same way i get rid of my leg hair, by shaving it. Well I did and I regret it now because the hair keeps growing back darker and thicker and I have to keep shaving them since its so dark. Is there anything I can do to stop the hairs from growing in as dark and thick as they are? Or am I screwed for life?

you could try bleaching your arms using a cream bleach you buy at stores. it lightens & slightly thins the hairs on your arms or anywhere else you use it. i use sally hansen . .

http://www.sallyhansen.com/bd/bleaches.cfm

you can find out more about the product there^

i hate my self because i have hairy arms.. i never wear t-shirts even if it is 90degrees because i just hate it.. i hate my body .. what do i do ????????

first off do not use hair remover (razor, nair, veet, etc.) they do not work! the best thing to do is to bleach them using a cream bleach you buy at stores. it lightens & slightly thins the hairs on your arms or anywhere else you use it. i use sally hansen . .

http://www.sallyhansen.com/bd/bleaches.cfm

you can find out more about the product there^

I just got a new camera. And it came with the memory card. But, i have a question, does the pictures stay on the memory card, even if i delete it off the camera? Thanx.

yes it will delete it from the memory card, if you take the memory card out you won't be able to see the pictures.

has anybody had the fudge'ems?
well i absolutely LOVE them and i was wondering what is the white stuff that they put on top of it? is that sugar?

hey! i work at dominos & just had them last week. the white stuff on top is powdered sugar!

Do pomeranians get along with other dogs and cats?

i don't know about all pomeranians but my grandpa has one and it gets along with all houselhold animals/humans. it is the sweetest dog ever.

got to this site

http://www.dogbreedinfo.com/pomeranian.htm

and read the section on "temperament" it tells you more.

So im a 15 year old sophomore and my dream has always been to be a competiton cheerleader. I am soo dedicated to cheerleading and would do anything to do this. I found a cheerleading place that im going to go to 2morrow to tryout and some people are telling me theres no way i can do it. People are really starting to make me feel down about this. So is competition cheerleading really hard to get into?
Do you have to be a really pretty skinny girl to get in? Im 15...5'6 and weigh 115...and i wanna be a flyer but do i weigh to much to do this or what? this means soo much to me!!

you are deffinatly light enough to be a flyer . . but for a competition team you probably have to be an amazing flyer. so that means you should probably have all your splits, Bow & Arrow, Speedy Scorpion, Chin-Chin, Scorpion w/Hand Pull or Point, Scale, Arabesque, Stretch Cross Over, Front Stretch, Front Arabesque, Heel Stretch, be able to twist, do heel stretches with snap up, and be able to fly a basket toss. those are some examples of what you should probably atleast somewhat have.

if you have any questions about what any of these are just ask!

okay well i am on my highschool cheer team and i am a back in my stunt group. before we go to camp we must have an extension. You know all the way up. well our flyer is brand new never cheered let alone flown before. we have a real good double base with craddle and just got a push up (double base pushing up to extension -- some people call it different things) well camp is at the end of the month and like i said we need a straight up extension. ive tried every peice of advice i could give our flyer but is there anyother tips i could give her to get over her fear and get her up easier? thanks sooo much =]

1. tell her to pick a spot on the wall to look at & DON'T LOOK DOWN!

2. hollow out

3. keep all her muscles tight when up in the extension . . pretend she is squezing a penny between her butt cheeks.

ok, so ive tried everything but i sweat alot under my arms
does anyone have any tips on how to make my arpits stop sweating so much?
thanks

certain dri . . you can buy it at your local drugstore. seriously, it works really well. i used it & it's a miracle.

at a private highschool, what are the tryouts usually like? what do you do, and do you need to come up with your own cheer, and do you have to have experience and have to know certain things? please answer in detail, and thanks in advance!!

well it depends on what level (modified, jv, varsity, etc.) you are trying out for and how good your schools team is. i'll tell you the requirements for my team. your try outs may not be as hard as ours because i am on varsity for one of the best teams in new york.

jumps [double toe-touch & around the world]

cheer [know all 30 cheers, one out of the thirty was called for us to execute (we didn't have to make one up)]

stunting for flyers [right left and middle splits, right and left heel stretch with snap up] [demonstrate 4 of the following optional stunts: Bow & Arrow, Speedy Scorpion, Chin-Chin, Scorpion w/Hand Pull or Point, Scale, Arabesque, Stretch Cross Over, Front Stretch, Front Arabesque, & twist from each stunt]

stunting for base & front/back spot [safely spot or base single legged stunts]

gymnastics/tumbling [standing back-handspring with optional 1 safety spotter and round-off back-handspring with optional 2 spotters. more points are awarded for standing/round-off back-handspring with no spotter & more advanced tumbling skills]

other elements [confident performance face with entertaining energy! great low/loud voices, super tight motions!]

if you don't know what some of this stuff is just ask me & i will explain it to you.

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