I was going out with this guy and then i told him i just wanted to b friends for a little while and give it a break .. well then like the next day i talked to him and he said he was goin out with my step sister.. what should i do???because it really makes me mad she done that and i dont think she really likes him she just dont like me very well and she wants too make me mad
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Friendship? MelLeDisko answered Sunday August 27 2006, 2:38 pm: Hm, it sounds to me like he's probably just trying to make you mad, like your step-sisters trying to make you mad. I guess you could try to forewarn him, but I would be very careful with your words, because if there was a chance he WASN'T dating her to make you mad, he could get upset which would only make things worse. I would just be like,"____, I just got to tell you, you know my step-sister, right? Well, obviously. But uh, she doesn't like me very much, and I'm just worried she might be trying to date you to get me mad, ha, and trust me, it's working. But, I still like you and everything, and I just don't want her using you or something to get at me." [ or something like that ] And if he doesn't break up with her or anything, then there's nothing else you can really do. Just wait awhile and see what happens, and then maybe try asking him if he REALLY likes her or what's going on with them. [ and if you want to go out with him again & depending on his answer ] Just let him know you really like him again and you'd like to get back together. Boy, your step-sister sounds like a peach. I hope I helped. <3 [ MelLeDisko's advice column | Ask MelLeDisko A Question ]
Jemma answered Sunday August 27 2006, 2:12 pm: hmmmm.....well babes it seems to me that you are angry at the wrong person. you may have asked to be friends but it still doesnt give him the right to date your step sister. i think he might be getting back at you for wanting to go on a brake, and he probably knows what your step sister is like. well tell you what babes you should give him a bit of his own medicine. go out with a really fit lad, a mate of his if possible. If your step sister is only going out with him to get at you then she will see that it is not working and end thing's with him. this then gives you the upper hand because he will probably beg for you back and then it's up to you whether or not you do. so good luck babes love jem xxxxxxx [ Jemma's advice column | Ask Jemma A Question ]
DefinedEyes answered Sunday August 27 2006, 2:02 pm: Theres really nothing much you can do.
I know I would be so irate about that,
but if she doesnt like him that much, and maybe is just using him, let him figure it out on his own. You can warn him, and then let the rest unfold..
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