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Boyfriend trouble!


Question Posted Friday August 18 2006, 5:56 pm

Hi my boyfriend and I are having some problems. Well first of all he is mad at me for getting a myspace and he wont leave me alone he's threatning to break up with me for it, its retarded he needs to just leave me alone. What should I do?

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teenagedramaqueen answered Sunday August 20 2006, 6:57 pm:
if hes going to get mad at you for something like that DUMP THE BOY. or just talk about it with him i dont exactley n=know why hes so concerned but tell him you will put it on private Kbyeee:)

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xOViLLYxO answered Saturday August 19 2006, 4:24 pm:
He is a retard , sorry but he really is.If he is mad at your just for getting myspace then threatning you to break up with you ? You just need to break up with him because obviously he`s a dumbass. ♥

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Striker6909 answered Saturday August 19 2006, 3:28 pm:
Well i think you should tell him to get a myspace... but if he is seriously going to break up with you just so that you can have a more active online social life... then I don't think he's being fair... You should talk to him and tell him why it's bothering him so much... You should also tell him that if you get a myspace you'll be sure to put that you're in a relationship so that people know you're off limits... he shouldn't worry about it that much... that's your own decision and he should respect you for it not downgrade and threaten to break up with you for it... hope this helps <3

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MummuM answered Saturday August 19 2006, 12:04 pm:
There's like 100 billion people on that website and a lot of people on MySpace do have boyfriends. Their boyfriends aren't always on their backs to delete it, because they respect what they like. Some people like having a MySpace page to keep in contact with their friends, or even come in contact with new friends over the world. If there is something wrong with your MySpace page and there's always random guys stalking you, then your boyfriend should be worried. Since you're doing nothing wrong, he shouldn't be worried in the least bit.


I think you should explain to your boyfriend that you aren't on that site to try to get another boyfriend. You just want to chat with friends and other people you may have on your list. Tell him it's nothing to worry about and if he trust you, everything should be alright. Just give him a talking to and maybe everything will get fixed up. &hearts;

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hannahd answered Saturday August 19 2006, 2:22 am:
Um, I would be the one to break up with him if he's threatening to. 60 million people have myspace. Unless there's something inappropriate with your myspace that's bothering him, then he has no right to be upset. Tell him to go to Ethiopia or Lebanon & maybe he'll find a girl who doesn't have a myspace over there.

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illdomybest answered Saturday August 19 2006, 2:01 am:
ask him why the my space things a big deal explain that its not just for dating. and besides your your own woman and if he wants to break up with you over it maybe its better he did. he cant handle you

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tHiNkEr101 answered Friday August 18 2006, 8:05 pm:
If he doesnt like what you r doing tell him to back off he is not your parent he cant tell you what to do if he threatens to brake up with you for that one stupid little thing i would brake up with him before he brakes up with you...He seems like he is trying to control you which he should then stop....From = thinker101

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devilspawn_666 answered Friday August 18 2006, 7:51 pm:
If your boyfriend is getting mad just because you got a Myspace profile, he needs to get a life and you need to dump him. If he won 't let you have your own life and your own friends then he's not worth keeping around. Just let him leave if he's going to act like a big baby about it.

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MissStephanieAnne answered Friday August 18 2006, 6:59 pm:
Just talk to him about it, its your life, and you deserve the respect to have your own myspace without him being all harsh about it... just tell him its for friends, and nothing more. just reasure him that he is YOUR boyfriend, and the people you talk to are JUST friends.

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PRPrincess14 answered Friday August 18 2006, 6:34 pm:
Hey.....Okay if u want to keep your mySpace page keep it dont let a man tell you what to do you have dignity and you have a life.....and if he leaves you than just let him go!!!!

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IhAvEaNsWeRs2104 answered Friday August 18 2006, 6:13 pm:
The first thing you need to do is find out why he doesn't want you to have a myspace for all you know he could have a very good reason and might just want to protect you. If he doesn't mean more to you then a dumb myspace then leave him but if he is more important then work out a agreement or something.



Good luck,
Hope I helped

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hottie411 answered Friday August 18 2006, 6:06 pm:
hun, he's just worried, about you, and believe or not, he's trying to protect you. myspace can be pretty dangerous, so he thinks you might get stalked or raped by someone looking at your myspace.

just set your myspace on safe mode, and only add people that you know onto your friends list.

then if he keeps getting mad at you about it, tell him there's nothing to worry about, because you have it on safe mode and only your friends can look at it. if he still gets mad at you about it, tell him to back off and stop getting mad at you for having a myspace. then if he dumps you, then he definently wasn't worth it, and you can find someone better than him.

just don't be afraid to stand up to him sometimes if he crosses the line and won't leave you alone.

&hearts;

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xo_minela answered Friday August 18 2006, 6:03 pm:
Well he`s just worried that you might find another guy on myspace that`s cuter than him. & he just loves you and he dosen`t want to loose you. What`s more immporant to you myspace or your boyfriend? I think your boyfriends more important than a website , because personally I think myspace is pretty stupid. Just delete your myspace , because if you don`t you`ll regret loosing him later on. Good Luck
&hearts;minela

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ifonlytheskywasgreen answered Friday August 18 2006, 6:02 pm:
wow...if he is willing to leave you over something as small as that, then he is just trying to be controlling. You need to get out of that relationship, he obviously doesn't love you if he's going to break up with you over a myspace. As much as you probably don't want to hear this, I think you need to go find a more mature guy and dump him. Don't let him control you.

I hope everything works out.

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AskAndy answered Friday August 18 2006, 6:02 pm:
Think about it, why would you want to keep around a demanding guy who threatens you? If you wanna keep your myspace, keep it. tell him to leave you alone, if he wants to break up with you for something as stupid as that fine. if you wanna delete your myspace fine, but doing it just for a boyfriend I think would be a foolish decision.

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