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is it real??
i have a boyfriend of about 4 months! and i totally love being with him! but i cant be with him all that much! if we are lucky maybe once a week, but thats if we are lucky. I have been going out with him fer what feels like a long time, and i cant tell if its real or not. Ever since i started going out with him nothing feels right, i mean i feel like we are totally different and it can never work. And actually we are pretty different but idk he really likes me and i think i really like him but i can never tell!! i think i said it all but please help me i dont know what to do and i have talked to him about this too but he just says that hes sorry, but idk it just never is right, just please help me
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4 months is along time, even longer when it doesn`t feel right. I think the best thing to do it break up with him because its a weird place to stick with a guy you don`t feel right with.
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If you only get to see eachother every once in a while I'm sure that must get really hard to deal with. And if you are 100% sure you like him maybe you should rethink dating him, there are so many great guys out there, spending time with a guy you're only so-so about maybe not such a great idea. And we all know that sorry is not always enough, change is what makes things better.
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Wow... i have the same problem with my boyfriend... well I think maybe you two should consider getting AIM or something so that you'll be able to talk more... or ask him to call you more often. I talked to my boyfriend about it and I'm still having trouble with him, but this week he doesn't have work so we're going to try and hang out a lot before school starts... I think after this week if after we do stuff like more cuddling and kissing and what not if I feel that it won't work out then i'm going break up with him... I think you should probably think about the same thing... my boyfriend and I have been going out for a month so... I think that even after 4 months you might want to consider breaking up with him... sorry but it might be the best thing to do, especially if you don't think it's going anywhere.
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have u tried to make it work? just try going up to him once and a while and hugging him or talking to him o whatever he may just get more comfortable being around you if you try to make things work. hope i helped
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4 months; I congratulate you, that's a great start. (I have also been in a relationship for a little longer than 4 months). Is there a certain reason why you don't hang out so much? Because if there isn't, it would be a great idea to start hanging out more..the more you spend time together, the more you get used to eachother and like eachother. If nothing feels right, then talk to him about it again and talk like you mean it. If he doesn't really say anything..he's probably not a very good boyfriend.
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Well....Gurl...wat you should do is call him up one day and tel him to come ova or invite him ovar to dinner and tell him(Look I have something I need to get out of my chest and tell him look i need to know what youfeel about me and i need to know The TRUTH!!!!!!!!Tell him all that you feel and if he doesnt understand u then it wasnt ment to be...or just find a way for him to understand you) Girl if you love this guy so much find out if he loves you just as much as you luv him...if you dont want to loose him do anything to kep him but DONT LOOSE YOUR DIGNITY over a Guy!!!!!
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