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Dad and Bride's Maids dresses
My Bride's maids and I bought their dresses today. I fell in love with these dresses right when I saw them. I showed them to my father today and he said that he did not like them at all. I felt horrible once he told me because I like them so much. Now, I don't know whether to keep them or to get ones that my dad also likes. What do y'all think?
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Are the dresses the ones you like or the ones your dad likes that you gave the url for? I think the ones on the site are nice! But the gloves are a bit odd, maybe a bit fancy with the gloves but without them it would be nice. Sometimes men dont have the same taste in woman. Maybe you can compromise on something with your dad, you can have something you like and something he likes. Choose which dresses you like, it is your wedding. Good Luck hun!
~Brina~
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I know your dad's opinion means a lot to you but it is your day. If you like the dresses then you should have them, it isn't fair on you to have dresses you don't like as much because you don't want to offend your dad. I personally think that the dresses you chose are beautiful.
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Were there ones similar to the ones you bought that you also liked? If so, have your dad go with you and help pick them out with you. They might not be the ones you fell in love with, but if your dad's opinion means a lot to you, he'll be happy and you'll be happy.
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it is a BEAUTIFUL dress...i know yer dad's opinion means a lot 2 u...but it is still YOUR DAY...just sit down & talk 2 him bout it...tell him how much u love the dress...he will probably understand, & back u up on it...b/c he understands how impt it is 4 u
hope this helped
*~*~*~*Emmy*~*~*~*
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This is your wedding not his .. yes i know hes your dad but still if you like them then good talk to him and tell him how much you like him !
Good luck !
and congragulations =)
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first off, i think that dress is GORGEOUS, lol. but i think that you should keep it because its your wedding, not your fathers. but if you really do feel badly abput this, meet your dad halfway. let him talk about what he doesnt like about the dress and what he wants, then you talk. hopefully youll be able to determine the perfect dress. hope i helped!
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First of all, they are beautiful dresses. Now, who is the one getting married? You or your dad? You right. So, this is going to be YOUR day not his. You're not going to be wearing the dress, nor is he it's your bridesmaids that will be wearing them so whether or not he likes them is completely irrelevent. I think, the only time your dad should have input in the dress is YOUR wedding dress, not your bridesmaids. They are beautiful dresses, tell him that you liked them and that his opinion means everything to you and you like the dresses alot. His response SHOULD be, it's your choice, if you like them then keep them. That's all there is to it. It shouldn't be up to him what dresses they are going to be wearing.
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Try to compromise with your dad maybe you could choose the style he the color or vise-versa! Casey out!
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It's your wedding. Let him pick out something for the guys, like the suit color or something. Idk.
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I think you should get what you want. Whats ever looks best on you its your choice what ever you where. I bet you'll look great.
luv roxie
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i honestly think you should get what you want. your first wedding only comes once and you want it to be what you want it to be! i say keep them and talk your dad into liking them!
~*Sarah*~
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I think that while dad may not like the dresses it is YOUR wedding. You should pick the dresses you like. Your wedding day is all about you! I think your dad will come around to liking them too. Has he said what it is he doesn't like about them? I'm sure his opinion does mean a lot to you but I doubt he will be really upset if you get the ones you like. :)
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I saw the dress and it isnt that cute. Its your wedding and your friends will be wearing them. Since your dads opinion means a lot to you and if he doesnt really like the dresses, well it wont be that hard to pick other ones. There are a lot of other pretty dresses that your dad might like. But like I said it shouldnt matter to him because he wont be wearing it and its your wedding. X0`
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It's your wedding duh! He's your dad of course and his opinion is always something that needs to be considered but it is your wedding! But if you feel the need to please your dad..on your wedding, try to find a dress that everyone loves.
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It's your wedding, so you should get the ones you like... But since your father's opinion matters a lot to you, maybe you too should look again and find something you both agree on. :)
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Personally, it is your wedding.. so he needs to realize that its your choice not his. Tell him nicely that it is your day and you really love the dresses. even try to combind the two you and he likes to get one. :) but, remember. its YOUR day. not his.
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Well tell your dad that you really really like them and that you really want to have them in your wedding and if he does aprove YAY!! If he doesn't then maybe there is another place you could find something similar that your dad really likes!! Well I hope that helps!! Oh Yea Congrats on the wedding good luck!! Hope it's a happy one!
Mwauh,
Taryn
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well its your wedding not his even though he is your father... i would take him out with you and liet him pick oput like 3 dresses he likes if you dont agree then tell him you like the ones you picked
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