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should i forgive him?
ive been going out with my boyfriend for a long time. he never pressures me or disrespects me. but the other day in the movies he started touching my boobs which is really unlike him. then apologized throughout the whole movie for doing it. we went out to dinner and i flipped out on him and he started CRYING. this morning at school he decorated my locker saying "im so sorry i love you" with hearts all over it. i found out that he stayed up all night making it. he was crying all day in school, and he wrote me a long apology letter. everyone says im overreacting. should i get back with him because i really want to...
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hey!! I think you should! that is sooo sweet of him to do that. Hope i helped Xo Michelle
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YES!!!!! awww he seems like such a sweetie!
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of course you should! He really cares about you and maybe he was pressured into doing what he did by his friends. Guys are like that. ACCEPT HIS APOLOGY!!!! He's obviously sorry. Just let it go. Hope i helped!
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i say if thats what your heart says then yes you should, i mean he might just might have touched your boobs on purpose and if thats not the case then maybe he was just a bit wanting to go ferther with you and if you dont think thats right then tell me nicely to step off and you want to stay at the level of your relationship that you are at now well hope i helped
~kati-marie
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go back with him- and just tell him to talk to you before he does anything, and tell him that its okay for him to ask you things. and the thing is- HORMONES hes a guy- happens to them. and us. but it looks like he really regrets it-and realizes that it was wrong.
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yeah your over reacting these days thats how people are HORNY!! all day, all night 24 7! he was just VERY horny that day. guys are horny twice as much as girls. him feeling up on your boobs should have good.. but i guess your not the horny kind of person.. so well i do think you should get back with him.
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yeah i think you should forgive him maybe he was just horny!! if he apoligized so many times, then he was just in a horny mood!! fogive him!!!!! if he had never done it before, then he was really horny!!! i think you should forgive him!!
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of coarse you should go back with him in my oppineon!!! he really loves you! he apologized and it seems he was pretty sincere about it if he stayed up all night for you just for 1 decoration!!! you dont see that many boys crying in school just over a girl do you?good luck!! follow your heart and make the right decision.
*megan*
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yes you should he probley thought thats what you wanted and once he seen you dont he stoped.. CHILL.. hope it works out
shaiina
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Ok maybe you overreacted a little bit. But at least he is visibly sorry for what he did. Give him a break.
In the mean time, maybe its time for a discussion as to what you do and do not like to be touched. He obviously wants to be closer to you, so open the conversation as to what he wants, and what you will allow him to do. It is good to keep communication open. If you don't tell him outright what you want you will not get it, hints do not work with guys.
Maybe he can pour himself into some more art work for you. Like poetry to distract him from throwing you down in a theatre.
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i think hes the one overreaccting thats riddiculous take him back it's just a boob .
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it kind of depends on how old you are.... if your 16 or older your boyfriend probably wants to go further in the relationship but doesnt know where to start and touching your boobs was probably going out on a limb and he obviously relized his mistake and you should definitely forgive him
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Yea!! He obviously likes you a lot if he cried in front of you! Most guys don't cry or show emotion especially at school. He didn't know you would get mad and I don't think he will do it again.
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UHHH YEA!!!! he sounds like he is seriously head over heels for you ! itz not his fault if that bothers you then just tell him! some guys just push you to your limits to see how far they can go...
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How old are you? A lot of guys want to go far, and touching your boobs... well that isn't Too bad. But it is if you didn't want him to. It sounds like he really cares about you and respects you.. .he just made a mistake. Stay firm in what you believe, but I'd give him another chance if he means it. That was a sweet apology. And I wouldn't always reccomend giving in to apologies, but in this case... I would. Do what's right for you, though. ♥
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yes stupid !! not to be mean though !! its a guy thing and he said sorry after doin it !! and if you felt uncomferatble with it then you should have said somehting while he was doing it !! but ya if he didnt care about you then he wouldnt care to say sorry or if he didnt care how you felt or if he wasnt really sorry then he wouldnt do all that !!! yes i think you are over reacting !! but thats my oppinion !! well hope i helped !! thanks !!
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i think you should forgive him...he really sounds like hes sorry...ur kinda overreating on this one...so give him another chance...
hope i help:)
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yea!
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you should forgive him and get back with him. he seems like he is really sorry. i mean not too many guys will sit there and cry infront of someone over a girl. and not to many would decorate a locker with hearts and "i love you" and "i'm sorry" signs. he seems like he is such a sweetie with you. so give it another try and if he pulls anything else that you are uncomfortable with then tell him that its over. let him know that f he pulls shit like that again that it will end for good. that way he knows that you were being serious when you said you were uncomfortable with him and that he knows that if he wants to keep you then he wont do anything like that to ya.
but i think you over reacted a little this time.
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Well it's certainly not the worst thing a boy has ever done. If you like him alot give him another chance. He made a mistake, apologized for it, and seems genuinely sorry. Give the poor guy a chance. He probably got a little carried away, and if he is that upset, he probably won't try that again. Not any time soon anyway :)
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I think you should get back with him. He sounds really sweet, and it seems like he really cares about you and your feelings, and he probably regrets ever touching you like that. Maybe he didnt know that you were going to act all serious about it. everyone makes mistakes, and he probably didnt know that you would care so much about it. forgive him, but if he does it again, you really need to talk to him about how it's inappropriate.
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Well, if you didnt like it then maybe you should just talk to him about. Saying he shouldent do that stuff because your not comfortable yet..but I think breaking up with him is too extreme..give him another chance and tell him he cant do it again..or anything touchy-feely until you are ready. and if does do it, its over. But its all up to you if you want to break up with him or not!
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Ok, what he did was SO STINKIN' WRONG!! Look, you're a girl, and naturally, that puts you at a level of more submissiveness. But you shouldn't take that nonsense. If you think that he was honestly sorry for what he did, and he promises not to do it again, and you want to go out with him, go for it. You should talk to him, just be frank. Tell him that you don't appreciate what he did, and that you still like (or love, it depends) him, and you want to go out with him, but what he did was totally inaproppriate. BUT if he promises not to do it again, then you will go back out with him; on the conditions that if he does it agian, then.. *you choose the consequence* (my choice would be not to go back out with him, but that's me!!) :) Sorry about what happened, good fortune!
-FunnyCide
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If he is really sorry than I think you should forgive him. You will know he really respects your wishes if he doesn't touch you again, but if he does go too far again, dump him, because he will just keep going for more.
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