ok my best friends boyfriend was supposed to call her today and they were supposed to hang out nd' he hasnt even call yet nd' shes like all crushed n crying n everything...i cant stand seeing her like this...what can i say to her to help her feel better(theyve been together over a year)help me quik!! plz if ne1 can
ixsAveDxmYsELf answered Saturday August 14 2004, 1:15 pm: first of all, he mite have gotton caught up in something. tell her its no big deal, she shouldnt cry over it. why dont u have her call him??ever think of that. tell her to ask him what happened. he could have simply just forgotten.
Basketball3846 answered Saturday August 14 2004, 10:53 am: Alrighty. Well maybe her boyfriend has plans that just came up and he couldn't get a hold of her. You never know why. I am sure it is not serious but if she is breaking down then it sounds like she is parraniod. She probably got that way because of some of the things her boyfriend does to make her think that he maybe breaking up with her. But tell her not to worry and that if he was gonna break up with her for anything she did wrong, he would have done it already. Good Luck!! [ Basketball3846's advice column | Ask Basketball3846 A Question ]
Mercy_x_Me answered Saturday August 14 2004, 10:34 am: tell her its not a big deal he might have just been a little busy and she can simply ask him about it when it does happen. Tell her no matter what, you will always be there for her and your not goin' anywhere... cheer her up a little bit, tell her a funny joke, invite her over, make her feel good. Treat her to a manicure! Who knows... you can do anything b/c if its your best friend you'll know what she likes and how to make her happy. Tell her men are pig and they're not worth crying over.
DearBritney answered Friday August 13 2004, 10:01 pm: hey!
first of all, you're a great friend for trying to help her with this. just by letting her know that you support her should make her feel a little bit better. even if that doesn't work, let your friend know that she needs to have a talk with her boyfriend. find out if he is still feeling the same way that she is about him. if the feelings are still there, find out if there was a legitiment excuse for why he couldn't call. try talking to both of them. that's pretty much the only advice that i have...:-/
MummuM answered Friday August 13 2004, 8:36 pm: Maybe he couldn't make the time to give her a call. Get her to give him a call and see whats up. You could make her happy by just chilling with her, eating some ice cream and watching movies or T.V! Good luck to your friend, hope everything turns out okay! [ MummuM's advice column | Ask MummuM A Question ]
BeezKneez answered Friday August 13 2004, 8:22 pm: Have her call him. He mighta got caught up in sumthin else, or 4 sum reason couldn't use the phone. It was prolly just a simple mistake. She shouldn't freak 2 much about it yet. Give him a call and see wut he says. [ BeezKneez's advice column | Ask BeezKneez A Question ]
TucanFullOfHoles answered Friday August 13 2004, 7:53 pm: tell her that he probably got tied up or something like that. maybe his phone line died and his rents won't let him use their cellphones.
Ryan answered Friday August 13 2004, 7:20 pm: that's fucked up! Something went wrong if he didn't call. You need to be with your friend she will love your support...get her chocolate and treat her to something nice [ Ryan's advice column | Ask Ryan A Question ]
soljette answered Friday August 13 2004, 5:56 pm: there should be a logical answer to why he hasnt called. im sure if theyve been going out with each other for over a year, that he wouldnt just leave her hanging like that. since he hasnt called, maybe you guys should call him and see whats going on. maybe hes waiting for her to call instead. [ soljette's advice column | Ask soljette A Question ]
sportscutie13 answered Friday August 13 2004, 5:24 pm: Try to convince her that he mite have had sum10 come up. Maybe some family issues, but whatever it is, it is probably important to him. Tell her that you know she's important to him. I hope she feels better! [ sportscutie13's advice column | Ask sportscutie13 A Question ]
xo_APRiL answered Friday August 13 2004, 5:24 pm: Maybe she should try calling him. Maybe he had a good reason for not calling her? Maybe you guys should hang out and like do something to get him off her mind or something. Hope I helped some. [ xo_APRiL's advice column | Ask xo_APRiL A Question ]
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