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Male 15
Why is it that i am never able to ask a girl out?
Most people say im just a stupid chicken and make fun of me. I need help :( Wats ur opinion?
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You have to just go for it! If she says no, she says no. She would be a loser to say no to you, plus there is alot more fish in the sea! The best way to ask a girl out is not having to talk to her face to face! The phone is good, but IM is better! You don't have to talk either! Hope I helped!
xoxo, Maris
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maybe you're shy or just lack confidence..or a lot of guys are just scared of rejection. no matter what the case, it's fine, you're not the only one..next time you find a girl you like, ASK HER OUT! =)..It'll get easier the more you do it. believe in yourself! i'm sure you'll be fine. xO`lexi
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okay take it from a girl just start talking to the girl you like at the time and if ur hitting it off think to yourself okay do it now and just go for it and dont be scared if shell say no because half the time the girl will want to say yes because she'll wanna give it a shot. and in the other hand if she says no just shrug it off its not the end of the world and ur still friends and who knows mabe later she'll like you back.
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hey i knoe how u feel but ur just intimidated by us girls ! and no ur not a stupid chicken for not asking a girl out i get nervous too but then i just go for it and if they shoot me down hey life goes on and if they dont then thats awesum so dont be intimidated girls arent mean lol but dont worrie ! hope i helped ! plus at 15 we dont realli knoe if we realli weant a relationship !
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My advise to you is first relax. Its not like your askin a girl to marry you. If she says yes you'll be happier then ever that you took the chance and if things go the other way at least you proved you could do it and the girl obveisly wasnt rite for you neways. Give it a try and tell meh how it goes..hope i helped...plez rate meh
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Odds are you're probably just shy!Don't pay any attention to people who make those jokes or rude comments,they're just ignorant!!It can be hard and scary to ask someone out when you really like them.You're not alone at all!!!!Just remember to be yourself.Be honest,and sincere,pay attention to the girl that you like.Not like stalker material,lol,but just listen when she's talking,pay attention to her likes and dislikes.Girls love a guy who sincerely takes an interest in them and cares about them.Also,a big thing,and one of the most underestimated things in my opinion,is a sense of humor!!!Girls love a guy who makes them laugh!!Just remember,it's better to take the risk and ask her out,then to go on with a bunch of questions and what if's on your mind! Hope this helps some!! :)
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may b ur shy...or scared...or think 2 much of wut ppl think...or may b ur just 2 picky wit gurls n u dunno whos dat perfect one...or may b u scared to move on in to a "relation ship" ...i dunno but hmmm give it a try...dont b shy..theres no reason 2 b shy ;)n if ur scared of a gurl rejection so wut that she rejects u...trust me she is not the only gurl in dis world...there are planty out there that would like to get wit u...so...do ur think n start pimpin dem gurlz ;) xoxo effy
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LOL IM ALWAYS HERE...BUT I THNK you should talk to ur friends they should kno u best but if they act like jackasses then you should try and concor ur fear bye practicing with a girl whos a friend or just go for it and ask who u like ...(some gurls like when guys act like fools)
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Hey! I think you should just tell the gurl you like her! I was the same way as you never wanted to ask the guy,but when it comes to reality think about it (really)... are you gonna lose your life over this? So what you may be hurt.. but it's nothing your life depends upon! Take a chance! Besides if she says no, she's missen out, and go has someone for everyone! So keep yo head up and smilez! A girl can easily fall in love with a smile! :) May god bless you always! ~1ne~
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I don't think there's anything wrong with being shy. Maybe you should try asking girls out over the phone? Or like..if you really THAT shy- do it with an email? Anyways, with the whole being chicken thing, I wouldn't worry about it too much. It's probably just a phase but don't think of it as such a big deal. The worst thing that could happen is she would say no, and in that situation- just get yourself out there and find someone new. There's plenty girls out there and I'm sure there's AT LEAST one that would go for ya! =) xo| Jenn *
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do you really like someone that much? i mean its normal to be really nervous, but you really shouldnt be, you miss so much of life if you have that kinda attitude, you have to take chances, because relationships are based on them
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a few of my friends have the same problem, i guess they just dont hang out with enough girls, if thats ur case, join a group of friends that hangs out with girls, n talk, have fun n try not be shy, which can be hard at the beginning, so have fun n good luck
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