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I'm 16, he 20! What should I do?
Okay, I like this guy, he's 20 and I am only 16. No he's not a rapest. He's got alot of respect for me and my father (he's afraid of him) and also he won't date because I am too young. But he said he likes me back... what should I do... I know he's 20 but I've cared about him for about a year now... and he knows I want him.... so do yall think there's a chance for me in the future? Tell me what you think! Be honest Plz!
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Yes, there's a chance for ya'll in the future.Wait 'till you get 18.Good Luck,'n hope I helped~*rate*
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*Yes there should be a future with yall if he cares about you. Wait to be with him until you're 18 which is legal age. Lucky you he's turning 21 he can be your beer run man ;D*
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man my mom is 6 years older than my mom! 4 years is no biggie mabe if ur dad says something lik "i forbid u to see him" then wait till ur older and move out then u can do whatever your little heard disires!
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Sure,there could definitely be a chance for you in the future.But for now,you're best to keep it on a friends level.You may not think it now,but betwwen the ages of 16 and 20,you will change quite a bit.Believe me,I'm 20,almost 21 myself.It's good that this guy is respectful of you and that he has the good sense to not get involved with you now.You never know what can happen in the future!!!! :)
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gurl...listen if u care for him n u truly like him or love him or w/e...then yes there is a future between u n him...age is just a number n 4 yrs of difference is no big....so i say go for it...xoxo effy
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Its really only a 4 year difference. My dad is 3 years older than my mom. Yea, it may look bad now, but once you get alittle older it would look fine. Maybe if he meets your parents and they like him you two could go out. Try talking to this guy and just be like "I know your 20 and I'm 16, and you know I've liked you for a year, but I just want to know if there is ever going to be a chance of me and you going out in the future? I mean do you want to meet my parents?" Just say something like that and how you feel and stuff. Hope this helps and good luck hun!! If you still need help, just post a message in my inbox!
xoxo Kourtney
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i know how u feel..i liked a guy when i was 15 that was 19..n he liked me back...n we dated but it didnt work out for certain reasons....but that was just somethin that i did wrong...age has nothin to do wit likin someone...if its right n meant to be there will always be a chance for u...as long as he likes u...n u like him....i see no problem wit it not working
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I mean when you think about it, it's only a 4 year difference, ask your parents how much there age difference is? One of my friends parents were 10 years apart, it's really not all that bad, techniclly it is iilegal to have sexual contact with him with out your parents concent, but still, maybe mention to them you like someone older and see what they say, but to me, i really think its okay, 16year olds can be just as much trouble as 20 year olds can be
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