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Question Posted Friday June 25 2004, 4:48 pm

hey my boy friend cheated on me and now he wont leave me alone!!hes begging 4 me to go back out with him but....he cheated on me n boy do i hate cheaters!! idk if i love him or like him or any thing!!!plez help!!!
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~~confused!!!!


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bAhAmAmA0250 answered Thursday July 8 2004, 1:43 pm:
Yell at him and that will get the point to him and tell him you dont want anything to do with him and if and when you do then you will call him-trix

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MissJ1414 answered Saturday June 26 2004, 12:56 am:
Well I wouldn't go back out with him just yet. I would first pray and ask God to give you a sign is to whether he's write for you or not. Then follow your gut instinct (because that's usualy what's right)

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Fish answered Friday June 25 2004, 9:17 pm:
so forget about him. You're wasting your time if you're going out with cheaters. It just shows a lack of respect. So have some pride in yourself and date someone worth your time.

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numba1balla answered Friday June 25 2004, 9:17 pm:
ok im in the same situation that he is right now and i think you need to decide if you have any feelings for him and if you do then you should try to work things out and if he truly has feelings for you it was a mistake and he wont do it again. i hope ive helped

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SexyHal answered Friday June 25 2004, 8:32 pm:
well I think you need to ask yourself if you would like to go back to a guy that has done that to you and if you still love him and you wanna risk getting your heart broken then maybe you should talk to him but if you dont like people that cheat on you then i think that you need to tell him how you feel about what he done and see where it goes from there.
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meliciouslyme answered Friday June 25 2004, 7:46 pm:
Look inside your heart. If he is the one whos shoulders you would cry on or he is who would cheer you up orlisten to you? If you love him and really love him, you should talk to him and tell him how you feel and why you are upset. Every one deserves a second chance but is he worth your love, time, and devotion or are you his doormat or is he using you. Its your call. Go with your heart.
Melissa

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BrownEyez answered Friday June 25 2004, 7:18 pm:
well, if he cheated on you once, theres no telling if he'll cheat on you again if you get back together. his other girl probly dumped him and maybe thats why hes trying to get back together with you...guys are sooo like that! anyways, you could tell him that you can only be friends for now...

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LilMia811 answered Friday June 25 2004, 6:46 pm:
If he cheated on you then you have evry right to not like him. And you shouldn't have to take him back. If he is bothering you then tell him to leave you the heck alone because you don't want nothing to do with him anymore. try to be nice about it at first but make your point clear to him. if he doesn't get it then it sucks but you will have to get mean. Sometimes guys really don't get it til they see you pissed off. Good Luck! :)

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Kissxme1121 answered Friday June 25 2004, 6:34 pm:
I heard once from someone that if you take BOY out of EX BOYRFRIEND.. you are left with X Friend. No one likes to be cheated on and no one deserves it.If you get back with him make sure he knows that.

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sEkzIeStLoOzAoX answered Friday June 25 2004, 6:09 pm:
STALKER stlakER... yell that and then mabey he'll get tha point. works for me. well kinda

xoxo- looza

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Redheadedgal answered Friday June 25 2004, 5:28 pm:
If I were you, I wouldn't take the chance. Most guys who cheat continue to cheat. My sister's ex cheated and everytime he was caught he said he would never do it again. She was cheated on for 10 years. But you gotta stay true to yourself and follow your heart. Good luck.

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LiL_TeEnA_Ox answered Friday June 25 2004, 5:26 pm:
Dear,confused
just tell him to leave u the hell alone. if he still keeps bothering maybe he really does love u.
hope this helps!

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KrAzI_KaT_74 answered Friday June 25 2004, 5:04 pm:
the saying goes, once a cheater always a cheater, but personally i dont go by that, follow your heart, and if your truly confused, cheating is a HARD thing to forgive, so if he wants to gain your trust back, maybe he will be willng to just be friends until you can trust him again to date him, sum people do make mistakes, unless he's cheated on you with many different girls, you should give him a chance, if u find out he cheats again, drop him like a bad habbit, Hope all works well 4 u!! Good Luck!

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TiNkaLInK answered Friday June 25 2004, 5:00 pm:
ok, well u can either take achance, or u can try to forget about him, have u told him how much it hurt you that he cheated on you? also i think all grls who get cheated on it just goes to show u, u r to good for the guy. YOU deserve better! you should never have to feel like you need someone to watch them while u guys are goin out. you should have that trust. and when they break it, its their loss, majorly. but if you really really care about him and he says it was a mistake and you believe him then take a another chance, but make sure u think things through and are careful this time. but if you extremly like the guy and he hurt you so so much, then i dont think you should give him another chance to do it again. just make sure, you totally think things through ok? good luck i hope you dont get hurt, and just be careful.. XoXo Erin

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Shai1687 answered Friday June 25 2004, 4:58 pm:
You need to listen to your heart on this one. You gotta ask yourself is he worth it? Do you really love him that much to forgive him? Ask him why he cheated on you(even though there is no right answer for this). If you love him that much as to forgive him, then you go ahead girl! But if not, then he's learned his lesson. He needs to know that he can't cheat on you and expect you to automatically forgive him. He has to earn your trust back. Make him aware of that. Good luck, girl!

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*~bre_babbles~* answered Friday June 25 2004, 4:55 pm:
dear confused,
hey!! 99.9 percent of the time when guyz say they are not going to cheat again it means they will so...uh...yea!! (not saying ure guy will!!) So if u trust him enough to go back out with him and he wont cheat on you then go out with him!!!!
Well good luck!!
XOXO,
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Tiffanytalks answered Friday June 25 2004, 4:51 pm:
well if u really do hate cheaters and u do go back out w/ him then he might think that he can get u back when ever and may cheat on u again

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