~*^hey my name is *ErIn* i am (^15^) yrs old and a fr3shman in high school!? i love giving advice, i dont think its so much as the givening as the listening. i like that people know they can come to me and im here to listen and to help! so i hope i can help you!? also my best friend JoliNn is on here as LykViolencUhavMe . Also ~SaRa~ N' Xtakexmyxbreathxawayx HoPe tHey Can HelP yOU ToO!@^*~ XoXo ErIN
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My friend is bi and sez she loves me. I love her too but I don't think my mom would except our relationship cause she's being homophobic. But i'm afraid to tell her that we can't can't be together because she cuts herself. I'm afraid of what she might do... HELP ME I'LL RATE YOU IF YOU DO!!! PLEASE!!!! (link)
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holy crap, ok... so i am asuming you feel for her too, which is perfectly ok, u can be with her, or be there for her and not have to tell your mom, i mean she is still ur friend. Also as for the cuttin thing talk to her, tell her u think it would be good if she got some help, trust me i know. she'll say she doesnt need it and it wont work, but it does, there are so many more beautiful things in this world, i kno there are lots of ugly too, but its not worth ending your life over... tell her u love her, but this will take some time to totally figure out what you guys can do. just be there for her as much as u can, i hope i helped at all, i really really hope everything works out for you 2.
XoXo ErIn
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i went out with this guy fro 8 months, we broke up durning the school year and i still like him. now my friend likes him. well shes so annoying and she brags about what they to me. Even though he doesnt like her at all and thinks shes annoying. I duno how to make it stop, shes really getting on my nerves and i already tried to talk to her about, it didnt work. HELP! (link)
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its only natural to still have feelings for someone you where with so long, and as for your friend, are you sure she is ur friend at all? try to think are there even any things you like about her? kuz it sounds like to me, you and your X boyfriend both dont like her, and if she keeps not gettin the hint ull probably have to tell her. dont hold back how u feel just kuz u dont wana hurt her feelings, kuz she is hurting urs and she doesnt care at all. tell her that u dont like when she talks about how she likes him, hes ur X, and u still like him, and if she wants to talk about him do it with someone else. also talk to your X boyfriend ask him what he thinks u should do. does he kno you still like him? does he still like you? kuz maybe you too could work out ur thing, and i duno maybe somethin more can still come from ur relationship. other wise icnore her, no that he doesnt like her and its ok. i hope i helped a lil ;) dont wry we all have those one annoyin friends! lol*
XoXo ErIn
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me and my friend amanda got really close. we even kissed. but a few days ago we got into an arguement and she decided that the best thing would b to block me and never speak to me again. i begged her not to do this but she said goodbye and blocked me and i havent talked to her since. i love this girl. i really do. i dont kno if i should try to get her back or if i should just let her go. i dont wanna let her go but i also want her to b happy. please tell me what i should do. (link)
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ok sweety, i know exactly what u r talkin about. i spent my like hole 8th grade yr chasing this grl briane, and tryin to keep our friendship together kuz i loved her so much! i duno what it was she was just a great friend to be around. i would bring her flowers just for fun, get her anythin, tell her everything, just be her best friend. she even decerated my locker for me when i had to switch home rooms for a gay reason, wit stuff that reminded us about eachother and our friendship, now dont get me wrong i had tons of fun with her, but in the end all the things i did for her ment nothing... she just one day started sayin i liked her boyfriend that ive known since 2nd grade and been in the same travling class with since 5th grade. so we stopped being friends i couldnt believe she just gave up our friendship so easily after everything i did for her, and i didnt even like him!!! so i realized u cant make everyone happy! and i wasted my time on this friendship on someone who didnt really care about me, when i had a bunch of totally kick ass friends who loved me! and still do tho i spend most of my time worring about briane. look i kno u r upset about ur friend being mad, but dont let her lil tanterum ruien ur fun in life, go out with some other friends get close let them kno u still care about them too. she will come around one day, if she really cares about you like you do her and ur friendship she will... well hope i helped you! XoXo ErIn
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hey my boy friend cheated on me and now he wont leave me alone!!hes begging 4 me to go back out with him but....he cheated on me n boy do i hate cheaters!! idk if i love him or like him or any thing!!!plez help!!!
signed~
~~confused!!!! (link)
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ok, well u can either take achance, or u can try to forget about him, have u told him how much it hurt you that he cheated on you? also i think all grls who get cheated on it just goes to show u, u r to good for the guy. YOU deserve better! you should never have to feel like you need someone to watch them while u guys are goin out. you should have that trust. and when they break it, its their loss, majorly. but if you really really care about him and he says it was a mistake and you believe him then take a another chance, but make sure u think things through and are careful this time. but if you extremly like the guy and he hurt you so so much, then i dont think you should give him another chance to do it again. just make sure, you totally think things through ok? good luck i hope you dont get hurt, and just be careful.. XoXo Erin
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what is spooning (link)
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Spooning is a kinda of way of cuddling, yet some people take it a lil father.....
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