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Worried Friend...
My friend is bi and sez she loves me. I love her too but I don't think my mom would except our relationship cause she's being homophobic. But i'm afraid to tell her that we can't can't be together because she cuts herself. I'm afraid of what she might do... HELP ME I'LL RATE YOU IF YOU DO!!! PLEASE!!!!
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Ok. Well if you love her and wanna be with her that's your choice. But if you can't be with her just because of your mom..then that's your choice to. Also if she cuts you need to talk to her. That can get wayy out of hand. Maybe that will be enough to let her know that you care for her.
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if you're just not going to be with her because of your mom then you really don't love this girl! and with her cutting herself?! you're her friend right? get her help! thats very dangerous! sit her down and talk to her!
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Ok,
Iv never been in this situation...but possably you could keep the relationoship on "low"...
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You could find her help if your not interested in starting a relationship...her cutting herself is terriable. And you not telling an adult..or someone to help her is like watching her drown in a pool and you not saving her. How do you kno wen the next cut she does...will be the one. Weather you want to start a relationship with her or not...then you still need to get her help. Try your local Suicide hotline...or the police...they will get you to a suicide hotline.
DONT GIVE UP!
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holy crap, ok... so i am asuming you feel for her too, which is perfectly ok, u can be with her, or be there for her and not have to tell your mom, i mean she is still ur friend. Also as for the cuttin thing talk to her, tell her u think it would be good if she got some help, trust me i know. she'll say she doesnt need it and it wont work, but it does, there are so many more beautiful things in this world, i kno there are lots of ugly too, but its not worth ending your life over... tell her u love her, but this will take some time to totally figure out what you guys can do. just be there for her as much as u can, i hope i helped at all, i really really hope everything works out for you 2.
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Well if you love her then you shouldnt let anyone hold you back from it even if they dont like it, just do what makes you happy and not what makes other people happy, happiness is key in life and as long as you are happy you are fine
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I agree with DorkyJay... you REALLY need to talk to her about being a cutter because she'll really appreciate your concern. You need to tell someone and get her help! Next about your mom and your relationship with this girl, sit her down and tell her your feelings and that she needs to accept her daughter for who she is! Good luck hun!!
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Tell your mom that now that your friend is a BI does not mean that she is any different then she was before. She still likes guys and now girls but that doesn't mean her personality will change. Tell your mom that if one of her best friends were BI would you stop being friends with her? Make her understand.
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Well first of all there is a bigger issue here and that is youyr friend cutting herself. that needs to be taken care of and you need to tell someone before she really hurts herself adn does permanant damage
and then the fact that your friend is bi. there is nothing wrong wiht that. maybe you jsut need to sit down wiht your mom adn talk to ehr about it. tell ehr exactly how you feel. if you cant do that then try writing her a note adn leaving it for ehr to find!
Good luck with you adn your friend
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Yeah,this one is kinda sticky. In addition to having a problem about your friend's sexuality,she also cuts herself,which is just as much of a problem. Tell your mom what's going on,no matter what you think she'll say. She's your mother and nobody else in this world is gunna love you more than your mother. Also,get your friend some help,cutting yourself is dangerous. Even if you two did start going out and then the relationship ended,she'd probably cut herself then too. Or whenever she's depressed. So,get her some counseling or whatever you have to. All I can say is good luck.
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You shouldn't care what ppl think . Your parents dont have to know anywayz so i mean just dont tell them if you really love her and that way nobody gets hurt
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wow! okay, for one sit your friend down and talk to her about this whole cuttin issue. look for ways to help with that disorder. Another thing,if you love her, then your mom shouldnt be stop you. Try to get your mom to understand the situation.
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Alright,. tell her that you cant be together because she cuts and hurts urself.. who knows she myte go crazy and cut you!! lol jk jk... Just put it to her nicly if shes your friend and loves you than she wont do anything to hurt you!,.. if she keeps cutting herslef get her help! thats what friends are for or just sit down and talk to her bout her problems.~
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tell your friends to stop cutting herself for one! Then tell your mom that it means alot to you if you could be with her. Not one should stop ya!
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