me and my friend amanda got really close. we even kissed. but a few days ago we got into an arguement and she decided that the best thing would b to block me and never speak to me again. i begged her not to do this but she said goodbye and blocked me and i havent talked to her since. i love this girl. i really do. i dont kno if i should try to get her back or if i should just let her go. i dont wanna let her go but i also want her to b happy. please tell me what i should do.
TiNkaLInK answered Friday June 25 2004, 5:13 pm: ok sweety, i know exactly what u r talkin about. i spent my like hole 8th grade yr chasing this grl briane, and tryin to keep our friendship together kuz i loved her so much! i duno what it was she was just a great friend to be around. i would bring her flowers just for fun, get her anythin, tell her everything, just be her best friend. she even decerated my locker for me when i had to switch home rooms for a gay reason, wit stuff that reminded us about eachother and our friendship, now dont get me wrong i had tons of fun with her, but in the end all the things i did for her ment nothing... she just one day started sayin i liked her boyfriend that ive known since 2nd grade and been in the same travling class with since 5th grade. so we stopped being friends i couldnt believe she just gave up our friendship so easily after everything i did for her, and i didnt even like him!!! so i realized u cant make everyone happy! and i wasted my time on this friendship on someone who didnt really care about me, when i had a bunch of totally kick ass friends who loved me! and still do tho i spend most of my time worring about briane. look i kno u r upset about ur friend being mad, but dont let her lil tanterum ruien ur fun in life, go out with some other friends get close let them kno u still care about them too. she will come around one day, if she really cares about you like you do her and ur friendship she will... well hope i helped you! XoXo ErIn [ TiNkaLInK's advice column | Ask TiNkaLInK A Question ]
Shai1687 answered Friday June 25 2004, 4:31 pm: Talk to her and ask her why she's blocking you. Or why does she dislike you that way. If she has no intention of trying to talk to you like that, then you need to try to forget her. you can't hang onto someone who doesn't have the same feelings for you. You're only setting yourself up for a heartbreak and you don't want one of those, now do you? Your best bet is to talk to her over the phone or if you know any of her friends, have one of them talk to her for you if you feel like she may hang up on you. Good luck! [ Shai1687's advice column | Ask Shai1687 A Question ]
KiSsEs answered Friday June 25 2004, 4:11 pm: I dont think amanda made the right choice but she might b afraid because she probably feels the same way about you. Just give her space because she probably needs some time to think things over. if you really love her you would let her go, so she can b happy in time she open her eyes and realize she misses you. ~KiSsEs~ [ KiSsEs's advice column | Ask KiSsEs A Question ]
OreoGirl answered Friday June 25 2004, 3:46 pm: u should leave her alone for a little bit and let her cool off. after u think shes cooled off go and try to talk to her. if she totally ignores u then she obviously is not worth the time. u don't get down on ur hands and knees if she can't give u the time of day. hope i helped.
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