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Hey!!!
Today my friend and I were talking and she got mad at me and then she started cussing at me!!!
Heres wat she said "You are a piece of white trash...(the rest was cussing so yea)!!!!!!
Should I take this seriously or do u think that she was just mad and it came out?!?!!?
PLZ HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Thanx,
Confused
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Well, sumtimes she could have been thinking that all along, but eventually, her bottled anger suddenly POPPED and she let everything she's felt ..out!! You should talk to her, and tell her that really hurt you. Don't take it TOO seriously, cuz sometimes, in the heat of the fight, ppl just say mean things
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Talk to her and express how it made youfeel. If you were ever real friends she will understand and apologize. Give her time to cool. She is probaly going thro a rough time and taking it out on you. Give her space then let her know you will listen to her, forgive her, and just want your friendship to lastDont act too desperate tho. PLEASE ASK ME DIRECT QUESTIONS!!! Rate me please. Much love, Melissa
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well hey I think she might have just said that because she was mad...but you should talk to her about it and ask her what you did and then ask her if she really meant what she said...Good luck with this and hope i helped.
-Haleigh (plz rate my advice)
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Hey! Two of my friends do this all the time but they don't cuss at each other. Maybe you should try calling her and ask her if you did anything to make her mador upset in any way. And if she said you did then you can ask her if you could do anything make it up to you or to help you in anyway?. But if she said it wasn't you she was just mad at someone else and she exploded it all out on you then you can ask her if there is any way that you can help make things better!
I hope this helps you with whats goin on between you and your friend!
~Lots of luv,
Brooke~ :)
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Well it would help me to answer your question better if you told me what the argument was about. But it is messed up that she called you that. You should tell her how you feel about what she said and if she understands and apologizes then just accept it, because she probably didn't mean to say it, she was just mad and people say mean things when they are pissed off. Hope I helped! :)
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I have a really BAD temper but I would never say anything like that to someone I truly care for. You should let her say sorry and then tell her how you felt. Best friends shouldn't say stuff like that. If she doesn't come back around which she probably will don't go after her-she doesn't deserve it. Good luck.
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Hey hunnie!! If I were you, I would be confused too! lol People have different ways to cope with things and for her it may be swearing and just getting everything out in that way. But there's always that feeling that she could have really meant what she said. I would give her a day to cool off and talk to her calmly the next day. Just be relaxed and plan out what you are going to say. You could maybe say something like "..Remember how you said I was white trash and cussing at me? I wanted to know if you actually meant those things? Or if you didn't and that was just your way of getting your anger out..?" If she starts yelling at you again, still remain calm because if you start getting upset too, it would only make things worse. If it was her way of dealing with things, I understand that because everyone has different ways. But if she meant those things you might want to take it seriously and find a way to fix it. But whatever happens, I wish you the best! Good luck Love you! -Mandee
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Well, what did you and your friend talk about? it depends on what you talked about. Find out what triggered her to talk to you like that, but beware, she still may be kind of upset. Disregard the remarks she said about you. Yo know you are better than that.
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Howdy Confused,
when u lose ure temper things happen i know it sux!! if u n ure friend are really friends then shell come back to u!! she might say that she wont but trust me she will!!ok buh bye!!
luv ya lotz~
riss
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Well the best of freinds fight, but she probably didn't mean it and just started sayin what ever came to her head without thinkin about he affect it would have on you. ~KiSsEs~
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