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kissing and... what?!?!


Posted Sunday January 20 2008, 9:58 am

so i have been kissing my boyfriend for months now, and we have been to first base (above waist touching), while we are kissing his hands go up my shirt and do what they do, but i don't have anything to do... i need some ideas on what i can do with my hands that will entice the making out and let him have some pleasure out of the kissing than just me... i have tried running my fingers and just touching his back but what else??

any ideas would help!
thanks...

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I sex supposed to be so painful?


Posted Sunday January 20 2008, 6:33 am

Please help =]! It was my first time the other night, and I knew sex is supposed to hurt first time, at least, or at leat be uncomofortable. However, when it got to the point, it was so painful it became unbearable. Please help, could someone please give me advice on how to prevent it being so painful and help my understand why it was =]?

Thank you.

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what is my next step?


Posted Sunday January 20 2008, 3:35 am

Long story but trying to put in a short story

I’ve been in love with my friend for nearly 8 years. She is my best friend and I told her how I felt 3 years ago. She didn’t say anything but shock. I ask her "why do you seem ok with my feelings toward you?” she didn’t reply back at the note. Last year it was still bugging me why she seem ok with it. I ask her in a chat room when she was online. She was fine with it but doesn’t feel the same way. She is unsure of her sexuality.
I try to get over her as my sisters friend was hooking me up with her brother. I met him but not my type. I told her about it and she was jealous. she said in the chat room "I don’t know if I should be happy for you or pissed&q...

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3 years... too much?


Posted Sunday January 20 2008, 2:30 am

Theres this boy... he lives like 10,000 miles away from me. So i only see him during winter break. Actually, i just met him last year. But im going to see him again this year.

Hes the cutest boy ive ever met! And hes really nice. Im kinda good friends with his sister. We hang out during break and text somtimes but thats pretty much it.

One night during break we spent the whole time cuddling kinda. And ive never done that with any1 before and it was so sweet!

Hes in high school, and i start next year. We would never see eachother exept on break and maybe during the summertime.

Anyway, my question is... is the difference too much to flirt with him again this year? I was in 7th last...

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TRUST


Posted Sunday January 20 2008, 2:27 am

I have issues with trusting when I get in a relationship. Well I met some one I became so in love with. It was hard cause somewhere down the line I end up being skepticle or looking for things to not trust one. I am in a long distance relationship and have been for two years. But he is incarcerated and I send him money. Well, he has an account of his own in the world. But I talked to thier family member today and they told me he had sent a certain amount of money home to be deposited in his account. But he did not tell me about it. I tell him everything when he ask so for him not to have told me this has totally freaked me out and to hear it from them and not him has really scared me. I do not know what to do, I want to run. But I love him ...

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kissing and more


Posted Sunday January 20 2008, 1:12 am

so this kid and i have liked eachother for a long time and we've hooked up enough times. but i want to go farther than kissing with him. but i don't know how to initiate that. or tell him ahead of time. help? thanks.

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Kissing


Posted Sunday January 20 2008, 1:06 am

Ive been going out with this guy for 4ish months now and i want to kiss him[i havent yet]
so i no this sound dumb but i need help im despreat]

1:how do i give him the hint i want to kiss him
2:where do my hands go
3:how long

theres more so give me more advivce pleasee

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boyfriend


Posted Saturday January 19 2008, 11:38 pm

what are some ways to break up with a boyfriend without it hurting to much?
(i know it will always hurt a bit but whatever)
please dont say i should say its not you its me lol i already know that
um im planning to do it by myself, and not through a friend, so anything i can say that will "reduce the sting" a bit?
thanks..:)

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friends anymore?


Posted Saturday January 19 2008, 11:30 pm

ok so there is this guy who is my best friend!! and i am starting to like him a lot!! and my best friend mandy likes him 2 and now they are going out,and she knew i liked him. and now my best friend(who is the guy i like) is being really mean to me and it feels that i lost my best friend who i tell everything to! and to add on more lost the guy i like. i just dont know what to do should i tell the guy should i jsut see how long it last???
plz help!
should i tell mandy that i like

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Getting him back


Posted Saturday January 19 2008, 11:10 pm

I made out with another guy at a party where the guy that I was "talking" to was. We were in a fight, i was drinking and I made a huge mistake. So, I need help on how to get him back? Best from someone who's been cheated on and took the person back. Like, what worked. It happened friday night. He won't take my calls, or texts, or facebook messages, or the voicemails i leave. I want to do something that shows him how much I care (the deal was that night, I didn't know he liked me that much). Do i just need to give him time? HELP! I like him way more then I had originally planned, and I can't imagine the rest of my semester without him. Oh, and i'm a freshman in college if that helps. he lives in his frat house, and I am in a dorm. He is also a freshman.. thank you!

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Hard situations.


Posted Saturday January 19 2008, 11:00 pm

Okay there's two situations here.
1: What do you do when you find out one friend spread a rumor about two of your other friends (ONE BEING YOUR BOYFRIEND THE OTHER HIS SISTER) that they don't take baths when they do, to the bus driver who's now being all weird and mean to them without proof and the two, TJ and Samantha, well their dad, is sewing or something and the lawyer wnats a statement from me on what's been going on while I was on the bus......lik what should I write? I haven't seen anything, just the bus driver getting on to them about things they haven't done....well that and she moved me from them because of this matter. Which was unfair.
2: TJ and I have been going out for like 2 days and only 3 of my friends know ab...

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what does this mean??


Posted Saturday January 19 2008, 11:00 pm

okay.. so i thought this guy from my school was kinda hot but i didnt think about him except when i was arond him and he talked to one of my captains. but for some reason in less than two weeks i had 4 diff. dreams about him and they all had to do with us liking eachother and being close (cuddling, holdin hands, hugging, kissing, flirting...) so what does all of this mean???!!! answer asap please

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Is it normal?


Posted Saturday January 19 2008, 10:07 pm

Is it normal for a guyfriend to call you baby?
err at nite when you text he text you nite sweety/sweetiepie/honey xoxox ? even call you out sweety on the phone?

is that normal or does he possibly LIKE me, more then a friend?


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makeout/hook up


Posted Saturday January 19 2008, 9:15 pm

:[ ok so i was at the movies on friday night with these hot guys i like um both but not sure witch one i should date well on friday i was liek all over one guy and then saturday i like made out with the other guy like 5 times when we we're at my best friends house what do i do because i liek um both and they both like me too but they are friends and i dont want to come between them :[] ahh what do i do!help is needed!

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boy problems


Posted Saturday January 19 2008, 6:55 pm

It never fails. Everytime I find a guy, who I think is
Perfect, it never works out. If they’re cute, they’re almost always taken. It never fails!I know I got to work hard for what I want, yeah I know, I’ve heard it way too many times before. But I just don’t want to try that hard for something that will never work out. What is the problem? I don’t get it. Is it me? I need some serious help, Oh man. I wish it came easily to me like it does to every other girl. What am I doing wrong??? Its like every cute guy is totally wrong for me and all I can get are the ugly ones. Should I just settle for that? I need help!!!


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boys are so confusing!!!


Posted Saturday January 19 2008, 6:30 pm

ok so since the beggining of school i liked this boy and i asked him out and he said there was to much goin on right then and he didnt want a gf.afta that i decided to become closer with him and become friends.well we have and i still like him alot!!!were always jokn with each otha and makn fun of each otha.every time i see him i bump into him on purpose and start sayn o im sorry i didnt see you there knowing that i did.hed start lauging and like try to push me back.he takes drivers ed on sat and i come evry sat with my dad cuz hes the prinicipal.well durn there lunch break i started talkn to him and we were jokn on each otha then we startn havn a sort of deep convo.well i ask people before to ask him if he likes me and they say he says no...

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leonardo dicaprio


Posted Saturday January 19 2008, 3:13 pm

does anyone know any way to have leonardo dicaprio at my 16th birthday party???!! I need to know I love him

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Posted Saturday January 19 2008, 2:07 pm

ok me and my boyfriend have been dating for a year a some months and we really love each other he loves me i love him. but the problem that we've been having for a while is the fact that my dad doesnt like him and hes mean to my boyfriend. my dad jus says its somethin about him he doesnt like but i think my dad is only like that cuz he doesnt like seeing me wit my boyfriend and this causes us to fight and argue all the time. it gets to the point where my B/F doesnt wanna talk to me for about 2-3 days he doesnt want to come around my house. but other then that my boyfriend and i pretty much kno wat we want to happen wen we get over the whole issue we keep having.. hes leaving to the navy next month and after 3 months of boot camp hes gonna b...

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Am I paranoid, or is something going on?


Posted Saturday January 19 2008, 2:06 pm

Ok, so, I've been with my boyfriend for about 4 months. He moved about 2 months ago. I have major trust issues, and, I'm always worried he's going to cheat on me. I mean, when he was here, he'd always kinda flirt with other girls around me [mostly this really pretty girl] and he's grab her boobs and her ass. I never said anything about it though, because I just can't make myself. Well, now I guess he met this girl down there with the same personality as me. And, he didn't tell me this, but he told my best friend, that, she wears thongs like I do, and he'll pull them up her back like he did to me. I'm really worried. I mean, that hurt. And, now he doesn't call me as often as he used to. I'm not the kind to confront people. What do I do? Am I...

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Posted Saturday January 19 2008, 2:00 pm

ok me and my boyfriend have been dating for a year a some months and we really love each other he loves me i love him. but the problem that we've been having for a while is the fact that my dad doesnt like him and hes mean to my boyfriend. my dad jus says its somethin about him he doesnt like but i think my dad is only like that cuz he doesnt like seeing me wit my boyfriend and this causes us to fight and argue all the time. it gets to the point where my B/F doesnt wanna talk to me for about 2-3 days he doesnt want to come around my house. but other then that my boyfriend and i pretty much kno wat we want to happen wen we get over the whole issue we keep having.. hes leaving to the navy next month and after 3 months of boot camp hes gonna b...

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