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ok me and my boyfriend have been dating for a year a some months and we really love each other he loves me i love him. but the problem that we've been having for a while is the fact that my dad doesnt like him and hes mean to my boyfriend. my dad jus says its somethin about him he doesnt like but i think my dad is only like that cuz he doesnt like seeing me wit my boyfriend and this causes us to fight and argue all the time. it gets to the point where my B/F doesnt wanna talk to me for about 2-3 days he doesnt want to come around my house. but other then that my boyfriend and i pretty much kno wat we want to happen wen we get over the whole issue we keep having.. hes leaving to the navy next month and after 3 months of boot camp hes gonna b stationed in jacksonville and he wants me to come live with him n i want to SOOOO BAD. i hate living in my house and i wanna leave so bad but wat im scared of is wen my boyfirend gets back from bootcamp r we still gonna b together he says he wants to get married wen he gets baq n i come move with him but is it gonna still be that way wen he gets baq n how do i tell my parents im gonna live wit him i kno for a fact that there not gonna b ok with it. but its my life n i feel if i do it im gonna b happy about it but then i dnt kno?????? wat should i do i want my relationship to be good but its not :{
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Well I sense a tiny bit of uncertainty in your writing. maybe its just because you're confused about the entire situation, but maybe its something more. my best advice would be not to decide for sure about moving out just yet. see where you are when he gets back, go visit him in jacksonville and then decide how you feel about moving in with him.
I think that the biggest reason that you are so unsure about what is going to happen in the future, is that you are picking up on your parents uncertainties. as humans, we tend to feel guilty when not doing exactly what we are told by our parents to do. I would talk to your parents about it. tell them that you arent sure yet, and you're going to see where things go, but you are contemplating moving to jacksonville. tell them that them liking him is really important to you, and there isnt anything they can do, you dont need their approval but you would love it if they could just find it in their hearts to accept him. Try and be as mature about the conversation and fight all urges to storm out of the room or yell. if this is a serious issue, treat it seriously, and hopefully they will too.
Talk to your boyfriend about the fact that all of this is bothering you. tell him that you hope that one day he and your father can get along and tell him that you're commited to him, and that you arent going to let what your parents think get in your way, but that they are important to you.
And lastly, make sure that everyone knows how you feel about this situation. hopefully if they know that you want this all to work out, they'll try to help you out. I hope this helps, let me know if you need anything else. good luck! hope everything works out, love ya,
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