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Am I paranoid, or is something going on?
Ok, so, I've been with my boyfriend for about 4 months. He moved about 2 months ago. I have major trust issues, and, I'm always worried he's going to cheat on me. I mean, when he was here, he'd always kinda flirt with other girls around me [mostly this really pretty girl] and he's grab her boobs and her ass. I never said anything about it though, because I just can't make myself. Well, now I guess he met this girl down there with the same personality as me. And, he didn't tell me this, but he told my best friend, that, she wears thongs like I do, and he'll pull them up her back like he did to me. I'm really worried. I mean, that hurt. And, now he doesn't call me as often as he used to. I'm not the kind to confront people. What do I do? Am I just being paranoid? Thanks.
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You not being paranoid i know your not the person to confront people but i think you should break up with him. If he was flirting and touching other girls when you where around what do you think he is doing now that your not there. You deserve a lot better then him. You never did anything to deserve the way he treats you. Long distance relationships don't work if both people arent committed i hope you've already seen that he isent. Best of luck
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You're worried about him cheating on you? Touching another girl inappropriately like he is is cheating. Keep this in mind, and stop telling yourself things like "yeah but I'm just being paranoid." If you're uncomfortable in any way, you HAVE to confront him about it for it to be a functioning relationship. Otherwise you'll just be holding in all these feelings of insecurity and start blaming yourself: not how you should feel in any relationship. In my opinion, you should break up with him already. You could try the confrontation route "I don't feel comfortable with you grabbing other girls in the boobs and ass." and see what he says, but honestly, if he's been doing this pretty much since the start of the relationship, there may not be much left to save. You deserve way WAY better.
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What are you doing? I can't believe you've been staying with this guy. He's grabbing at other girls, that's wrong. I'll take that as a form of cheating especially if it's not by accident. He's pulling at a girl's thong. that's so.. inappropriate in a relationship. you are not paranoid, whatever you are thinking, it sounds right. the problem is him. you need to break up. he's not calling you as often and soon he won't even call you. it would probably be one of those drift away break ups. i've had those happena dn it hurts UNLESS you confront him. waiting makes you hurt more and makes you begin to think all guys are like that.. you'll find someone better who will treat you better than that. Just call him up and ask him about the girl he's touching. what kind of relationship is this? you really need to break up with him. don't let him break up with you first. you may have trust issues.. but don't let this experience make it worse. he told your best friend.. because he probably knew they would tell you.. He probably wants you to break up because I don't think he will.
Sorry if this isn't what you wanted to hear.
But he seems immature.
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