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boys are so confusing!!!
ok so since the beggining of school i liked this boy and i asked him out and he said there was to much goin on right then and he didnt want a gf.afta that i decided to become closer with him and become friends.well we have and i still like him alot!!!were always jokn with each otha and makn fun of each otha.every time i see him i bump into him on purpose and start sayn o im sorry i didnt see you there knowing that i did.hed start lauging and like try to push me back.he takes drivers ed on sat and i come evry sat with my dad cuz hes the prinicipal.well durn there lunch break i started talkn to him and we were jokn on each otha then we startn havn a sort of deep convo.well i ask people before to ask him if he likes me and they say he says no but i keep havn this feeln that he does by the way he kinda flirts with me and looks at me.but then maybe hes just a nice gut who does that to everybod and im no special person.its just so hard to read him beacuse i feel like hes flirting and he might like me but the few peeps i asked says he doesnt.im jus so confused and i really dont want to ask him myself cuz i already asked him at the beggining of the year and that was hard.and now that were freinds it would be evn more hard and i dont wanna jepurdise our freindship.i just like him so much and i wanna know if there is somthn there or if hes just a naturally flirtatious guy!
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1. Don't ask him out again. You already asked him, and he knows how you feel. If he wants to go out with you, then its his turn to make a move.
2. He seems like he might like you. Take note of how he acts around other girls. If he acts the same, then hes probably just naturally flirtatious. But if he doesn't, then there's a good chance he likes you. Plus, you mentioned the way he looks at you. Flirty guys don't usually look at other girls he's just flirting with in a romantic way, even the really smooth talkers.
3. Keep flirting with him. Don't overdo it or anything, that would be bad. But if you stop, and he decides that he wants to go for you, he'll feel like you don't like him anymore. Plus, your relationship as friends is kind of flirtatious. Do you think it might get a little boring if you stopped flirting?
Don't listen to what other people say unless you have a very good reason to. People always think that they know exactly how everyone else feels, but they rarely do. So what other people are saying very well might be wrong.
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I never usually tell others to try and make people jealous, but in this case, it may come in handy. I would suggest flirting with another boy that you are close with, and when you and the boy you like are hanging out and talking, mention to him that you kinda like this other boy. See if that sparks some jealousy in him or at least give him a nudge in the right direction. Good Luck!!
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If he already knows that you like him then your just gunna have to wait till he is ready. I don't think it will be hard for him to ask you if he knows that you already like him. Hang in there
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