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3 years... too much?
Theres this boy... he lives like 10,000 miles away from me. So i only see him during winter break. Actually, i just met him last year. But im going to see him again this year.
Hes the cutest boy ive ever met! And hes really nice. Im kinda good friends with his sister. We hang out during break and text somtimes but thats pretty much it.
One night during break we spent the whole time cuddling kinda. And ive never done that with any1 before and it was so sweet!
Hes in high school, and i start next year. We would never see eachother exept on break and maybe during the summertime.
Anyway, my question is... is the difference too much to flirt with him again this year? I was in 7th last year, and he was in 10th but i didnt notice what a hugee difference that was until now. And since im so much younger, any chance he likes me?
Im not talking about dating or anything. But just flirting.
Am i gonna look like a little kid flirting with him?
idk what goes on in an 11th grade boys mind! Please help
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Yes, it is a pretty big age difference. My advice to you is to see how he treats you when you get there. If he seems relaxed about your presence and if he is treating you like his equal, then feel free to flirt, as long as it's nothing serious. I mean, it sortof depends on the flirting you're talking about. If it's more like teasing him, it's usually fine in more cases than, say, if you're touching him while you're teasing him. Mild flirting is harmless and would be fun if he goes along with it. It's good that you're not expecting to date or anything of that nature. With that in mind, you should be fine.
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He probably doesn't like you, but there's always a chance. Just think about the age difference. You might have liked older guys, but how many significantly younger guys have you liked?
Unless he doesn't flirt at all, you won't look like a kid. Last year, the age difference was pretty big too, but he still flirted. If he doesn't flirt back, then you might look immature. But chances are, he will. So don't stop.
If he liked cuddling with you, then he's probably not the kind of guy who would pressure you into anything, or even want it as much as a lot of other guys. Plus, an 11th grade guy might be having sex, but he's probably not going to expect it, or even want it, from a middle schooler. Most guys would feel really wierd doing anything really sexual with someone so much younger.
He might have changed, but you'd probably have noticed since he texts you. You can flirt again, but if it feels wierd or like he wants something you're not ready for, stop. Trust your gut.
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Well, I would say that since your so young... the age difference is DEF. a factor here. I wouldn't go into it expecting much... but... maybe with an open mind? If you think about flirting or... the prospect of flirting, then... it might be harder on you if you get there... and... it dosen't work out and he isnt into it again this year. However, no expectations.... no pain involved. Just relax, go there with an open mind... and have fun. Lol. Best of luck!
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