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is it possible to love someone who doesn't love them self?
Posted Monday April 21 2008, 9:57 pm
is it possible to love someone who doesn't love them self? i have anorexia nervosa and though my boyfriend has told me he loves me almost every day for a year, i am not so sure that he can if i have such a hard time tolerating myself. i am afraid that he does not love me any longer.
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My ex-boyfriend
Posted Monday April 21 2008, 9:47 pm
I really hate my ex. I usually just ignore him because he's not worth a second of my time. However, lately he's been spreading nasty rumors about me. It's frustrating because by denying them, it only makes people think they're even more true. You know? Gahh! It's so frustrating and I don't know what to do about it. Help?
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ummm anal sex
Posted Monday April 21 2008, 7:59 pm
Do most guys really like having anal sex with their girlfriends? It just seems like my boyfriend wants that way more than "regular" sex. does that mean you are like loose or something? and what is the attraction? i think its pretty gross but let him sometimes just because he likes it.
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I cant handle relationships
Posted Monday April 21 2008, 7:54 pm
I don't understand why I act in a way that is different from myself every time I am around a guy that I like in a date type situation. I mean I have only had one boyfriend in the past but he broke up with me because the relationship was weird, and it was my fault. It was my fault for not being myself and for trying to hide who I am. Ever since I was little I have been strange but I take pride in that and all my friends love me because of who I am. I like my personality too but I can't show that through in relationships. Like right now I really like a guy but feel like when I am around him he is not really SEEING the real me. He is only seeing the shyer, awkwarder version of me. Before I liked him, like before the flirting and more serious s...
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How Do You Know If You're........
Posted Monday April 21 2008, 5:12 pm
INLOVE?????
There's a difference between lust,like,love,and inlove.
Well I have 2 questions.
Is it possible to TRULY be in love at 14/15?
And 2......
HOW DO YOU KNOW IF YOU ARE IN LOVE???????
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Posted Monday April 21 2008, 4:54 pm
its almost 5 months for me and my bf-were both 15. and i think i love him and i want to tell him.but we both take saying "i love you seriously" so we havent said it yet. i really want to but some things he does are keeping me. like it seems like he likes music more then me sometimes-which he says isnt true (because hes a big musican).and we only get to see each other 1 a week cuz he lives 30 mins away. and i feel if were on the phone he'll sing and i feel like hes not listening-i'll even go "right?" and he'll go "right!" and i didnt even ask him anything...but when im with him i want nothing but to be with him, at school i cant stop thinking of him and i just wanna be in his arms..its just on the phone when wer...
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i think im in love...what do i do?
Posted Monday April 21 2008, 4:53 pm
its almost 5 months for me and my bf-were both 15. and i think i love him and i want to tell him.but we both take saying "i love you seriously" so we havent said it yet. i really want to but some things he does are keeping me. like it seems like he likes music more then me sometimes-which he says isnt true (because hes a big musican).and we only get to see each other 1 a week becuase he lives 30 mins away. and i feel if were on the phone he'll sing and i feel like hes not listening-i'll even go "right?" and he'll go "right!" and i didnt even ask him anything...but when im with him i want nothing but to be with him, at school i cant stop thinking of him and i just wanna be in his arms..its just on the phone when...
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Should I sleep with him?
Posted Monday April 21 2008, 11:04 am
My best friend is a guy. He is amazing. I'm confused though because he wants to go to the next step in our "relationship". Sex. I think I want to, but I'm not sure. i've never done that before. What shouldI do. I'm scared. But I REALLY REALLY REALLY want to.
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i like 3 guys
Posted Monday April 21 2008, 10:23 am
i like 3 guys and with all of them, somethings stoping us. one of us its age, one has a girlfriend and the other says he doesnt like me. (but theres reason to belivie that he does.) well im really sick of being single and i want to be with someone. and theres always some1 i can be with but thats just the point. i want to be with someone who also wants to be with me. and i want to be with them. not because of how i look but i am in the inside. and i think that that at least 2 of theses guys do. (btw if it helps, we are all friends but like none of them know eachother.
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part 2 to do i leave him alone????
Posted Monday April 21 2008, 9:54 am
Ok so the situation about Bob has completly changed. Jill found out everything after he went back to her. It had been about two weeks && I couldn't stop thinking about him so I sent him a text message. Well here we are today like a week later && we are talking again. He swears he thought about me while we weren't together && wanted to talk to me but was scared I was mad at him. He swears he will never hurt me this && that ... he has already stayed with me 2 nights at my apartment && I want him to move in && he has said something about it but I dont want to rush things && him jump into one relationship when he really isn't finish with the other. I am really starting to have really...
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How do I get rid of my stalker ex?
Posted Monday April 21 2008, 6:56 am
This is a bit long, but you have to understand the entire deal...
I was with living with this guy for 4 years. From the very beginning, we had problems getting along. I was in love with him at first, but over time, frustration built up, and my feelings began to die, and I finally built up the courage to tell him how I really felt (after months of what I thought were obvious hints.)
I finally kicked him out of my house a couple months ago, and at first, I said I wish we could be friends again. But, the moment I was nice to him, he assumed we're getting back together. So I started ignoring him. Then the text messages started. So I told him one day, that I wanted him to leave me alone, I had no interest in getting...
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wht do i do,i need to do sumthing to tell her i love her!!!?
Posted Monday April 21 2008, 3:37 am
ive been going out with this amazing girl for 4 days but the problem is i dont think she knows i love her /i dont think she loves me,can sum1 tell me a way to tell her i love her,by the way im 12 years old and we hav kissed twice like just a little pek though.
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bf of a year plus a new crush...
Posted Sunday April 20 2008, 8:43 pm
i've been with the same guy for almost a year and he was my best friend before we ever started dating. i love him but i'm not IN love with him (theres a difference) and i just really don't see myself ever really falling for him. we get along really well and we care about each other... there's not much to complain about. But i've really started liking this other guy, we actually met through my current boyfriend and just really hit it off, we've become good friends. i get the feeling he kinda likes me too so now what? he's a senior.. ready to graduate too while i'm just a junior but being with him feels so right.
do you think he's more ready for college and not a girlfriend?
any other advice would be great whether it's...
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help im obsessed
Posted Sunday April 20 2008, 7:29 pm
im obsessed with my boyfriend v weve been going out for almost 3 years and were only in hs. weve done everything but sex and i am in love. ive tried to picture myself with someone else and i just cant. lately he has been pulling away and idk what to do because im obsessed what do i do to make him obsessed with me again and dont say talk to him because i would be right now but ive tried and he says nothing is wrong. just tell me what to do ill do anything
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my ex
Posted Sunday April 20 2008, 6:57 pm
We only dated for like a month and a half.
But I was completely in love with him, we told each other we loved each other and stuff & he broke up with me two fridays ago, really unexpected.
He wont even talk to me.
Im so upset, all I do is think about him.
I want him back so bad.. but like I said, he wont talk to me.
What can I do?
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me and my baby :(
Posted Sunday April 20 2008, 5:33 pm
14/f. alright, i have this friend okay. let's call them jen. i am hopelessly in love with jen, but she has a boyfriend and it's apparent that they are happy together and that jen doesn't want me. she told me -- however -- that she had the same feelings for me, but was afraid that if we were to get into a relationship, that would ruin our friendship and she could never live with herself. she doesn't understand how much i love her, though. i'm always thinking about her, talking about her, writing about her, singing about her, drawing her.... i just can't get her off my mind. but my baby has other feelings.... feelings towards her boyfriend and i don't know what to do about it :( the little kisses she gives me here and there.... the AMAZING hu...
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really confused.
Posted Sunday April 20 2008, 5:26 pm
15/f
So basically I have this wonderfully amazing boyfriend! I love everything about him, he's just so perfect. But last night I had a dream about another guy. I hate this guy but in the dream I was in love with him. Does this mean I'm cheating? Or that I don't really love my boyfriend as much as I thought???
I'm so confused.
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texting.
Posted Sunday April 20 2008, 3:29 pm
well i like this guy and i think theres a possibilty he could like me.
when he texts me he usually asks me something about school, but then we lead into another convoersation, could that mean hes interested.
also in school the other day he sat next to me, and him and i and this other kid were talking about who he likes, and i was like "oh you like her" and he was like "nah too old" then the other kid was like "what about kelly" and he was like "no" so i said, "yeahhh you do, if you don't then who do you like?" and he like avoided it, could that mean something?
what are some other signs that he would like me?
thanks.
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my boyfriends ex-girlfriends
Posted Sunday April 20 2008, 3:23 pm
my boyfriend has had 3 other girlfriends besides me and has slept with 6 other girls. this boy is my first serious boyfriend and the first and only person i have ever slept with. now, i know i cant do anything about all the people he has been with but the other day i was in his room looking through some pictures that he had in a basket and i found many many pictures of all his old girlfriends. there were ones from his prom and when he was very young and even sexual pictures with his first girlfriend. it really hurt me that he still had these and i that i saw them. i dont like thinking that he has been with other people the same way he has been with me. it hurts a lot.
he also slept with another girl while we were dating and ...
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how do i ask him out?!?
Posted Sunday April 20 2008, 3:04 pm
okays so i really like this guy and he likes me. well everyone has told me to make the first move and ask him out. i think im gonna do it. and get over my fears and see what he has to say. the only problem is i dont know how to. should i do it over the phone, over a text, in person, or what??? i really want to go out with him and i think we would make a great couple. please help me and give me some advice on how to ask him out.
thanks :]
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