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bf of a year plus a new crush...


Question Posted Sunday April 20 2008, 8:43 pm

i've been with the same guy for almost a year and he was my best friend before we ever started dating. i love him but i'm not IN love with him (theres a difference) and i just really don't see myself ever really falling for him. we get along really well and we care about each other... there's not much to complain about. But i've really started liking this other guy, we actually met through my current boyfriend and just really hit it off, we've become good friends. i get the feeling he kinda likes me too so now what? he's a senior.. ready to graduate too while i'm just a junior but being with him feels so right.

do you think he's more ready for college and not a girlfriend?
any other advice would be great whether it's on my current relationship or my new friendship.. thank you!


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shadeskhosum answered Monday April 21 2008, 6:35 pm:
First of all end everything with Your current boyfriend now beacuse the more u spend time with him the more he wants you... you will do a big favor to him if you end things up with him now.. and plus maybe the other guy isnt sayin anythin beacuse you are dating his friend.... dont be selfish and end things with you current boyfriend now.... before its too late.... maybe once the new guy sees that u arent in the relationship anymore he will make a move...=)

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cloudy_conscience answered Monday April 21 2008, 12:45 pm:
I know where you are coming from, the same thing happened with my ex and I. I just wasn't in love with him anymore, I still cared about him, but I agree with you there is a difference. I also understand the thing you are saying about the guy you like, my current boyfriend is a senior and I am a junior, but you have to realize that guys do not mature half as quickly as girls. Which is why guys always date younger women. I think you should explain to your current boyfriend how you feel and try things with the new guy. Hopefully you will be lucky enough for you and your current to stay friends, that is what my ex and I try to do. Though it does cause problems sometimes.

Hope I Helped.

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