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my ex
We only dated for like a month and a half.
But I was completely in love with him, we told each other we loved each other and stuff & he broke up with me two fridays ago, really unexpected.
He wont even talk to me.
Im so upset, all I do is think about him.
I want him back so bad.. but like I said, he wont talk to me.
What can I do?
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Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life?
give him a time nif he loves you he will come back
remenber its not you its him
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Well, you can talk to him, and then find out why he dumped you, and then put your self in his shoes and then follow the 10 break up comandments:
1. Move out if you live together.
2. You can't be friends.
3. Don't bad mouth him.
4. Don't sound desperate to get him back.
5. Get rid a things that reminds you of him.
6. Start exercising (great for mind and body)
7. Find a new interst.
8. Take a vacation.
9. Embrace change.
10. GO on a date.
hope i helped!
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True Love is something that takes time to build. Love doesn't just happen it is created and built by two people over time and trials of life. What you are feeling, which is just as real, is a strong infatuation powered by chemistry. Clearly your ex has gotten past it and is moving on. The worst thing you can do is go begging after him to talk to you about it. Take it for what it is, learn from it, pull yourself together, live well and force yourself to start smiling even if you dont really mean it yet. I once was told good advice by a guy I knew regarding a guy I liked who had stood me up. I wanted to talk to the guy and find out what was up? Why he didn't show? My guy friend told me "His actions already told you all you need to know. If you go around now asking for more he will see you as some annoying little puppy dog and will just wind up kicking you again. Why put yourself through that?" He was right and whats more is he gave me a rare look into the way a guy thinks.
In the future do yourself a favor. Don't be so quick to tell someone you Love them, and beware men that throw the word Love around so easily. To that kind of guy, Love is not an emotion but instead, it is a tool they use to get what they want at the time. There was a two little poem's I learned back when I was in school that you should know. Here they are:
Love starts with a smile,
grows with a kiss,
and ends with a tear.
Next one:
Your heart is not a plaything,
Your heart is not a toy,
but if you want it broken,
just give it to a boy
Simple but true. Learn from your mistakes and don't repeat them. Guard your heart till someone proves themself worthy of it. Take care and Good Luck.
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Okay, sweetheart not trying to be a bitch but think about it. It was a month and a half. Love doesn't occur that fast. My ex's and I have told each other we love eachother, but relationships unfortunatly do not last forever, in most cases. I dated this guy for a month once. We broke up and stuff and I thought I was completly in love, which made me want him more, I jsut did all I could to forget him, however no lie to this day I still miss him. And this was about 1 1/2 years ago. It just takes time. You can not make him take you back however, you can wait a while and try telling him you just want to be friends.
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