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its almost 5 months for me and my bf-were both 15. and i think i love him and i want to tell him.but we both take saying "i love you seriously" so we havent said it yet. i really want to but some things he does are keeping me. like it seems like he likes music more then me sometimes-which he says isnt true (because hes a big musican).and we only get to see each other 1 a week cuz he lives 30 mins away. and i feel if were on the phone he'll sing and i feel like hes not listening-i'll even go "right?" and he'll go "right!" and i didnt even ask him anything...but when im with him i want nothing but to be with him, at school i cant stop thinking of him and i just wanna be in his arms..its just on the phone when were not together things are -off.but when im with him.i get that feeling like i wanna tell him i love him really bad.but i dont wanna tell him i love him and him not feel the same way-because i dont kno if he feels the same way-.i dont kno what to do..what do you think i should do?
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Not JUST another dumb teen love story. (because every teen love story is unique)
It seems like you're worried that you don't have his attention being 30 minutes away. Guys have a hard time concentrating on multitasking. Especially if they're 15. A way to maybe take the edge off is to do video chatting if you can.
If you truly feel like you love him, tell him when you think he's not listening. He might just hear you. And he just might say it back but was afraid to say it before.
Anytime you say "I love you" to someone, it's like baring your soul. If it's not returned, usually we feel crushed. So don't rely everything on proclaiming your love but give it hope.
Cheers,
stargirl
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ok..first off...i would like to say that im sorry taht he is like that! but i mean...if you really feel that way, you should tell him!! i mean, your just going to keep feeling hte same feelings over nad over and they probally aren't goign to change. so just tell him! if he doesn't feel the same way then thats just the chance you have to take but most likely he will because if one person feels it, then the other mostly does too!! musicans are people who also love music and that is probally a way to express there emotions out! that is probally why they do it so much!!! just tell him, that my opinon. most guys mostly any guy doesn't listen all the time too!!! guys just rn't good at that, its the way they are! but we have to live with it! and it hurts somtimes, but its the way life goes. so good luck and i really think you should tell him, but if you do, tell him in person and not over the phone! GOOD LUCK
~sealgirl~
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