its almost 5 months for me and my bf-were both 15. and i think i love him and i want to tell him.but we both take saying "i love you seriously" so we havent said it yet. i really want to but some things he does are keeping me. like it seems like he likes music more then me sometimes-which he says isnt true (because hes a big musican).and we only get to see each other 1 a week becuase he lives 30 mins away. and i feel if were on the phone he'll sing and i feel like hes not listening-i'll even go "right?" and he'll go "right!" and i didnt even ask him anything...but when im with him i want nothing but to be with him, at school i cant stop thinking of him and i just wanna be in his arms..its just on the phone when were not together things are -off.but when im with him.i get that feeling like i wanna tell him i love him really bad.but i dont wanna tell him i love him and him not feel the same way-because i dont kno if he feels the same way-.idk what to do..what do you think i should do?
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? cloudy_conscience answered Tuesday April 22 2008, 5:57 pm: If you feel like you really love him and you want to tell him then by george let him know. I know how you feel about him caring about music more though, my boyfriend is a muscian and a machanic[sp] and he often is engulfed in them, but it's not that he cares about them more it's just that they are something he really really enjoys doing. I, as his girlfriend, have to kind of let him have that time and try to be interested and let him talk about them and do his thing with them. Yes, it's super hard sometimes and it drives you crazy but when you love someone you will do anything to make them happy, even if it means listening to hours of stuff you don't understand haha.
Cmilner1607 answered Tuesday April 22 2008, 6:44 am: i think you two need to just talk abbout how you feel. i mean that sounds embarrasing and lame maybe but i think it will do you both some good. ask him how he feels lately about you guys, and tell him what you told me.. you sorta want to say the 'l' word but of course you don't want to seem pathetic or whatever. good luck! [ Cmilner1607's advice column | Ask Cmilner1607 A Question ]
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