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i like 3 guys
i like 3 guys and with all of them, somethings stoping us. one of us its age, one has a girlfriend and the other says he doesnt like me. (but theres reason to belivie that he does.) well im really sick of being single and i want to be with someone. and theres always some1 i can be with but thats just the point. i want to be with someone who also wants to be with me. and i want to be with them. not because of how i look but i am in the inside. and i think that that at least 2 of theses guys do. (btw if it helps, we are all friends but like none of them know eachother.
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Thats good that you want to be with them because of the inside and not the outside, but if the guys tells you he doesn't like you then he probably doesn't want a relationship with you right now, not to be blunt. The other age can be a big issue at your age, but if you like someone you really can't help that. Just make sure that he respects the boundaries that you set and doesn't push you into anything you are unsure of. I would stay away from the one with the girlfriend because that will only cause drama, and you really don't want more of that if you can avoid it. In the end go with your gut and who you like most.
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I have been in the same situation before. I was 14 and one of the guys was 16. The other guy was 18 and the last was a few weeks younger than me. If you are close friends with them then first go for the one that you are most compatible with (see yourself with) and then when you two are alone ask them casually, " Hey do you ever see us as more than friends?". That will show you the direction you should move in from there. I truely would not go for the one with a girlfriend! That may cause unwanted and unneeded drama. Good luck and feel free to ask any more questions!!!
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i suggest the guy with age difference. how much older or younger is he? if its more than 2 years older, forget that. if its more than two years younger, forget that. if its just a few months, then thats ok. my current bf is 3 months younger then me. i used to go out with a guy that was 2 years younger.
but if its older? well, there's nothing really wrong with that! i mean really. basically the difference between older and younger guys is that the older ones are waay hornier. but if you say no, then he should be cool.
but yeah. it all depends on the older and younger perspective. and how many years older or younger. remember: in either case, if its more than two years, just forget it. that could be illegal when he turns 18.
i hope it all works out! take care! :)
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