I AM A VERY NON-JUDGEMENTAL PERSON. I AM VERY INCITEFUL AND HAVE MANY LIFE EXPERIENCES. I CAN ALMOST RELATE TO ANYTHING, TRUST ME! I ASPIRE TO BE A SINGER AND HAVE MY OWN ALBUM SOMEDAY BUT NOT SURE HOW TO QUITE GET TO THAT POINT. LET'S TALK, IM HERE FOR YOU.
E-mail: labella1400@aol.com
Gender: Female
Location: suburbs of Chicago
Occupation: undecided
Member Since: April 21, 2008
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can you get pregnant or get any disease from giving head? (link)
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No you cannot get pregnant but there are numerous countless stds and stis
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So me and my friends are all being rappers for halloween. Ones being nelly, the other eminem, and I'm going to be k-fed. Hah I just don't know how to dres up as him, so any advice would be great :)
Thanks! (link)
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Wife Beater ( white ) should have food stains and stuff on it.
baggy sweat pants (joggers material ones)
a rimed hat popped to the side
one of those du rags or w.e. they are ahahaha
boxers sticking out of the baggy pants
no "bling" because that mans apearance is not deserving of it.
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Hi. 17/M
I want to ask girls out but there's just a voice at the back of my head that's constantly saying "Why would she ever want to go out with you?"
I'm a really funny guy and I can always make girls laugh, and I know that's a sign that they like you, but I still can't get rid of that damn voice. Where did it come from and how do I get rid of it! (link)
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What all you guys dont seem to understand is secretly we girls LOVE confidence. Why do you think that we chase after them. We also do like sweet guys aswell. But be who you are and find security in that. Like you said you get the girls laughing. Girls LOVE that. If funny is what you do then ask a girl out in a funny mannor. Seriously I have major self esteem problems and yet somehow all the guys like me hahaha it still sounds funny saying it. But be yourself babe and good things will happen. Im here for support :) good luck
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i need help with a skit i have to do. my partner and i have to be french citizens during world war two and we can't give away that were french but we can speak some french ha. any ideas? thanks a lot! (link)
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ok so your best bet would be speaking some common french phrases or a few sentences. I dont know how long you are supposed to do the skit but give me your age and gender and same as your partner then i will give you some tips. also need the amount of time that you must use in the skit. Good luck. BTW i speak some french. :)
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15/f
I really like this guy, we met and I managed to get his msn and myspace.
He flirts with me but I get the impression he flirts with a lot of girls. However, I don't think he'd cheat in a relationship - his last relationship ended cause the girl messed him around, not the other way round.
I just want him really bad, but don't know how to go about getting him to like me. Yes, I know you can't force someone to like you, but there are always things you can do that increase your chances.
So, how do I stand out amongst all the other girls he flirts with and get him to see me as actual girlfriend material?
Also, seeing as the only contact I have with him, without suggesting we meet up (and we don't know each other that well), is online, how can I flirt and get him to like me via msn and myspace?
(It's harder this way because I can't do eye contact etc.)
Please don't give any replies telling me to give up on him just because I don't know he likes me, or to stay away from him because he flirts with lots of girls. Because y'know what it's like when you want someone badly, no way are those things going to make you give up.
Thanks in advance, x (link)
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Ok gurli. Heres the thing. Because you do not know him well there is all those risks involved and yadayada. But im not here to preach; im here to give you a straight up answer. One that will help you. I understand that situation. I met this guy one time and then I got his myspace and aim. Total cutie!!! We flirted and talked for hours at a time. I didnt even know him. But i talked over the phone with him. I was myself. I told him my views on life and my favorite kinds of music. Make it like a friendship first. Although you may feel COMPLETLY dif. When guys gain a relationship with a girl just by jumping into an intimate relationship then you truely dont know too much about the other as you should while dating. You also wouldnt trust a stranger with your heart so why would you a cute stranger. You know. So first find some common ground build trust and a friendship then ask if he sees this going any further. Good Luck sweety. Im your age so I get the whole guy thing shhh. lol
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My teeth hurt A LOT. Not like, a cavity type hurt, but more like pain/soreness. It helps when I take advil, but what is wrong with me and my teeth???
And please don't just tell me to go to the dentist. (link)
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I myself have suffered from toothaches. I have found that I get severe headaches, migranes, my jaw hurts and even sick to my stomach. Recently I discovered that I grind my teeth in my sleep. This can cause all of these symptoms. Best bet is to get a mouth guard for when you sleep. Although it is not what you want to hear, you would be best off getting it checked out to make sure that it is the source of these pains.
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15/f
I have been having these weird symptoms for a LONG time now, like 5 or 6 months:
dizziness, extreme fatigue, headaches, shaking hands, numbness, and weird stuff like that.
anyways, the doctors thought it might be anxiety but i was quick to disagree because i wasn't feeling anxious.
Well lately i have been like obsessing over small stuff and my heart has been having irregular beats.
I was reading the symptoms of anxiety online and i'm pretty sure that could describe the reason for all of my symptoms.
I'm scared to tell my mom though. I don't know how to bring it up and i'm nervous about letting her down or something.
help! (link)
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Believe me I truly understand where your coming from!!! I suffer from such severe anxiety that I won't even get into it. I can tell you though that it is near impossible to do it alone. It seems like your symptoms are a signal of anxiety but yet it is difficult to say what anxiety disorder you would be classified with. Did you know that anxiety, ocd, and even eating disorders are types of anxiety? I'm turning 16 soon and I myself have been struggling for a VERY long time. It is alot easier to deal with and not fix but in a way relieve the anxiety and keep it that way. Tell your mom that you have been haxing these problems! Who knows you could end up discovering that part of your family has it as well! I did. If you guys don't have that great of a relationship write it down or give her an article about it. Something. How is she supposed to help when she has no idea. Always remember you did not choose anxiety it chose you. You do not ever need to feel bad or any less of a person. Good luck sweety and I'm here if you need me or just a shoulder to lean on.
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how can you give advice if you're not open-minded? i see a lot of answers on this site saying negative things towards certain religions and sexual orientations. and lots of labeling (preps, emos, etc).
i think that if you're going to try to help someone, you need to accept what they have to say and answer respectfully. am i the only one who feels this way? (link)
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I absolutly agree!!!
I am myself offended when someone is bias to certain ways or practices of another individual. (even when I do not have any similarities to the person)
I assume that there is a reporting site that you can complain or write a claim on a certain advice columnist but I am uncertain. I suppose that being stereotypical towards un-bias people is part of being on this site if you understand what I am getting at. Being critical of others advice, opinions or actions is in itself being bias. Opinions range from person to person so it is difficult to say whether a person is being judgemental or not. So in a way everyone is going to seem racist, bias, hypocritical, ect. So having numerous chances to have a variaty of columnists answer their questions they themselves can rule out the bias and un-bias.
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14/f
ive cut for like a year and for the 3rd time im trying to quit i just need someone to talk to about it and i dont mean a shrienk or anyone like that.im not trying to seek attention from this just help. i know how much my life can change if i keep cutting and how important it is to stop but i dont want to hear that.
if your a VERY trustworthy person that i could keep talking to and wouldnt annoy you then HELP ME PLEEZ! (link)
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i have gone through the same exact thing!!! very hard to deal with and i am still working on it. i would b more than happy to help you my aim is labella1400 and email is labella1400@aol.com
you can also add me on myspace
www.myspace.com/sweetmisery760
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haaha. okay
so ive been breaking out on like,
the top of my back around my shoulders i guess?
its not like...THAT bad,
but bad enough to make me stop wearing lowcollared shirts xD
so, um, i have a pool in the backyard too
so i dont know what to do for summer.
so any advice? tips? pleasee help (link)
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try poactive or another acne treatment on your problem areas!!!!
i had the same problem and i used the nuetrogena wave thingy and it all went away!!!
good luck!!!
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i always freak out right before im going to give my boyfriend head
itd be my first time giving a guy head
but i always get so nervous
but hes understanding
hes not pushing me at all
i just want to make him happy
im just pushing myself a little
i jsut dont see why i get nervous and what i can do to calm down! (link)
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well you need to make sure that YOU are ready for sexually interaction and if he's the one you want to do this to. It's good that he is not pushing you and that he is understanding. take a breather. It is not that big of a deal. You cant get pregnant from giving oral and its not as big of a step as intercourse. so relax. Think about how you'll feel after. If you know you will regret it then don't do it.
labella1400
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Okay so I've been having alot of stomach pains lately, It isnt nasaea. I have a doctor appointment tomrow.
But here the catch, I've been sexually active... could I be pregnaut??? I've had my period a few times since my last time but i've heard you can still have a period in the beginnig of pregnaucy.
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i honestly dont think that you are pregnant!!!
If you have had your period after sex then it is impossible to be pregnant. If you are still worried just go get a home test!!! You're fine sweetie. Stomach pains are so common! I have been diagnosed with numerous stomach conditions and I never knew that I had. Things will be ok. You are going to the doctor tomarow and you will resolve this issue. If at all you are pregnant(i promise that you aren't IF you had your period after having sex) then things will be ok. Everything will be fine. Tell me the results ok?
hope you feel better
xox labella1400
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I eat a ton then get full, then 10 minutes later get hungry again!
Im 14/f
120lbs.
what can i do to stop this? (link)
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its ok if you are active but if you are to the point where you are literally eating numerous helpings every hour then i would definetly talk to a doctor!!! you MAY have a tape worm or an underlying cause for this extreme bing eating.
good luck
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hey im celina.
and i realllyyy need help.
so ive been dating this guy for almost 2 months now. and mostly things have been great, a few fights here and there but nothing to big, everything usually ends up being fine.
But hes graduating soon, and lately hes been spending time with the kids in his grade, which makes sense i guess bc they arent going to be with eachother anymore, but i feel really wierd about it. Like, i've heard that hes been flirting with some of the girls in his grade when im not there and stuff like that. And hes always so bipolar with me, like one day he will be saying how much he loves me and wouldnt know what hed do without me and the next day he will totally blow me off for his other friends. He normally calls & txts me a few times a day and he hasnt talked to me since saturday, at all! And i really wana talk about how its bothering me with him, but he wont even answer a phone call,even when i know he has his phone!! ugh!! PLEASE help me, and i need someone to tell me more than "everything will be ok". Is this normal for guys to act like this? or do i need to do something about it?
help!
please!
thanks! (link)
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it sounds to me that hes being a total a$$ to you. If you continously call him and email him or w.e. he's gonna get fed up and annoyed. I would wait awhile and if he doesn't call back then I recommend breaking it off!!! You shouldn't be stuck in a relationship if he's not being commited and dedicated. I dont know what is going on with him but he should not be ignoring you or treating you poorly. graduating is no excuse for mistreating your girlfriend.
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okay so me and my best friend have been best friends for like a year now. we used to be so tight, we never fought or anything. then for spring break she invited me to go to the beach with her, and at that time she didnt no that i had depression and bi-polar problems, and she didnt no that i cut myself. so during it i was having alot of problems and i couldnt control any of my feelings and it was really bad, so the whole time she was always mad at me because i was in a bad mood, but i couldnt tell her anything. so finally we came back from that, and that night i told her of my problems. she took it really hard, but eventually our relationship went back to normal, or so i thought. from then on it seemed like everything was okay, but once in a while we would get into the occasional fight. so in the past couple months, it has gotten so bad like every other day we will get into huge fights. all of our friends are so sick of it and so are we. everyone knows that she is the one that ALWAYS starts ALL of our fights. she gets mad at the smallest things then she blows them outta proportion. about a week ago i was at her house and we got in the biggest fight she yelled at me to get off her property and that she wanted me to die and that i was a slutty whore and she hated me and all this stuff. then like an hour later she called me and apoligized over and over. i told her that i didnt no if i could ever accept her apoligy. so from then on like every day she will start another fight and tonight i was at her house and she was being so rude so i left and she got really mad at me and so now she is telling me how she doesnt want to be my friend and stuff, and now i dont no if its just going to be like last time where she apoligizes and stuff, because she texted me and she's like being really mean and saying how she wants her stuff back and to not talk to her. i dont know what to do i serously am thinking about killing myself and i dont know what to do anymore. i dont know how to handle her because i never say anything rude to her and even when were in fights im nice to her and i never yell or get mad and she always just blows everything out of proportion. i dont know where to turn or what to do just please give me any type of guidance. anything will help please. thanks in advance. (link)
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ok first off sweetie, kill the suicidal thoughts! it won't help to think negatively about your condition. you have these conditions they are part of you but they dont define who you are. as for your friend, you don't deserve that bull.i went through that too with my depression and anxiety,ptsd,ocd,perfectionism, ect. it's not worth the drama. she is taking the time to tell you not to talk to her when she is the one provolking you to. she is being immature. i believe this has nothing to do with you. it's about her and maybe her insecurities. next time she comes back and apologizes(by the way i garuntee will happen) tell her you accept her apology but you don't think it's good for either one of you to be close. you can still talk but you prefer the mello way of handling things and the friendship is just added stress. tell me how it goes ok girlie?
ttyl
labella1400
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Please give me a lot of suggestions for wedding songs! thank you!! (link)
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because you loved me-celine dion
looks like we made it-shania twain
forever and for always-shania twain
forever love- anna nalick
blessed-christina aguilara
you were meant for me-jewel
how do i live-leanne rimes
its gonna be love-mandy moore
you set me free-michelle branch
you get me-michelle branch
this i swear-nick lachey
perfect-alanis morrisette
take me there-rascal flatts
one sweet love-sarah bareilles
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im very young to be pregant.butt ive been geeting pains in my stomach.not cramps.i feel like vomiting but i cant.are theese symtoms? (link)
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they are a few of them but have you had sex? take a home pregnancy test sweetie im here for you if you need to talk just send a message
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I'm 17 years old. How can I convince my mom to let me get it done? I'm a ggood kid never in trouble. I think they're cute! At first she was like suuure. Then she started asking her friends and says "it leads to sex." YEA RITE. Omg. I can't believe she said that! My older brother told her "Well if she wants it, let her get it!" I really want it done! Any suggestions?? (link)
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thats how my father was hes a whole different story though. but i went behind his back and did it. I know its not the smartest most responsible thing to do but i wanted it done and i did what i needed to. you can get a person over the age of 18+ to go buy a kit at a sally's or hot rags store i think even hot topic sells them but its a do it yourself kit im not promoting it but getting it professionally done is the best way. i had my friend do mine but you can be paralyzed and have massive blood loss if its done wrong. mine was fine thank god but i wouldnt recommend taking that chance.
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Hey , I was wondering ,
I got a little situation , and don't know what to think of it ,
well see my bf and me started dating not too long ago , and he says he wont cheat on me he wouldn't do anything to hurt me , and all this other stuff , and hes becoming the QuaterBack for football.. and I don't know if I could trust him? Do you think I should trust a guy that says he won't cheat on me and won't do anything to hurt me if hes still the QuaterBack football player? because my friends don't trust him..
THANKS FOR YOUR HELP :)
Betty (link)
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betty,
seriously. the guy seems to not have given you any reason to not trust him. he cares for you and i would imagine you would care for him. If you like him then be happy for him if hes quarterback. just because some guys who get quarterback are man hoes does NOT mean that inocent ones are or will become one aswell.
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13/f.
Okay so, I'm know I'm probably 'too young' to even think about being in love, but whatever.
I have this best guy friend- Andrew. And I have like, the biggest freakin' crush on him. He does use me for money, because I think he knows he has me wrapped around his finger. Now, all my friends tell me he likes me back like; "Omg he so likes you," or "You can tell by the way he acts," or something.
What he does is:
-Always looks me in the eyes when talking to me or just when we're close.
-Ditches his friends to come and talk to me for a minute.
-He'll always smile at me out of the blue.
-When I call him a fagot [purposely or otherwise(:] he gets the "WHAT!?" face [ sorta like :O!?] and gets all emotional.
-Teases me like making faces.
I'm just wondering if he does like me back.
I'd figure it out myself, but
I'm too stupid to :P
Kthnx (link)
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it sounds like hes got a bit of a crush back. be all playful and flirty and when you two are alone in the halls or something pretend to get up all in his face like obvious joking but stop and kinda look him in the eyes. he may just make his move. but flirt with him.
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