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hey it's me again. sorry i keep bothering the hell out of you.

he didn't talk to me at all after we hung out last time, until today (half a week later). he was really casual and he said he was hanging out with his female friend today. and i was like, "uhm okay?" he definitely doesn't have feelings for me and he just hurts more and more because he has SO many other female friends. like he acts so chill around me yet he does things that makes me think that he likes me. in any case, do you think i should just move on or still wait around for him? should i try to make plans with him or should i just drop the whole thing? i fall for guys really easily but i can also get my ground back if i want it. he's not changing at all. he's always been & always will hit on tons of girls at once. i hate it, and it hurts. i'm asking you: keep going or give up trying? (i'll still stay friends with him) (link)
Hey. (Your not bothering me at all f.y.i)

If you are ABSOLUTELY 100% sure he has no feelings for you and is just having a "good time" *cough* then you shouldnt try to change him, hes probably stubborn and wont change. You should just find a guy who hits on you and you only :]

If you have any other problems with ANYTHING else, you can ask me them as well.

Sincerely,
Dan.


heyy ppl
so i have some probelms with my mac
a) i once delted EVERYTHING. like all my pictures from photobooth adn iphoto and it led to the following:
1) when i upload pictures on fb it shows those old albums and if i click on them no pictures show up to delete (i drag it to the trash but it wont go,,,,, how do i delte this?)
2) on my photobooth, there is an "album" or "section" or "folder" or wtvr titled trash. anything i delted from iphoto in one of my albums goes there. everythign i deted goes there but i have all these blanck boxes with dashed lines around them filling up most of the trash album. i gess it is all pictures id etled from y computer but i how do i get rid of these?
3) so i oploaded pictures to iphoto, i went through them and delted the ones i dont like. they delte. i go on facebook do upload and the pictures i delted STILL show up in the albums i delted them from?? how do i stop this!!!!


THANKS!!! (link)
Hm. Maybe use Time Machine to undo-deleting everything then just put all old albums + photos into one mega folder called "OLD" or something, then create a new folder called "NEW" or whatever name you choose, then put all your new stuff in that folder.

Or make an appointment at the Apple store and have an employee look at it.


Hey,

Yesterday I jailbroke my iPod Touch and things worked perfectly. I was editing sources, adding new ones, etc. when I accidentally deleted a source that was originally on the list when I jailbroke it. It was the iClarified source - I can't find the link of the source and I really want to have it back on the list..

Does anyone know what the source for iClarified is?...

I'm using 1.1.4 firmware if that matters...


Thanks in advance,
KK (link)
Hey,

Yea I jailbroke mine to, but I'm on 1.1.1. I dont trust anything higher, so I just stick to it. Now you can either find a site with all sources listed or contact iPODTOUCHMASTER and he'll help you. Or, well first off, how long did it take you to jailbreak it? If took under 20 minutes you may want to reset your ipod and jailbreak it again so the sources will be there.



WAIT: The source is:

http://installer.iClarified.com

Got it from:

http://www.iclarified.com/entry/index.php?enid=636

I think thats about it.

Hope this helps!
-dan



when i told my friend i am bisexual and that i liked her she supports me but doesnt see me in that way. the next day she text me "I HATE boys they are so annoying!! how are you?"
...okay why and what did she mean by that message? i relpy back saying i am okay and then she asked why i like her in that way....but i should've ask her what she meant by that. but what is your thought on it?? (link)
Maybe a boy had hurt her/joked around with her and it pissed her off and she was just saying that with no thought, and your just thinking seriously, or she could be saying something regarding feelings. You should ask her.


Okay my cousins have this kid that is one year old. And i am 15, but i am beginning to worry. Her parents pretty much ignore her and let her run wild. And she has gotten into the habit of screaming and biting. When you try to change her diaper she rolls and reaches up and tries to bite you and screams at the top of her lungs. And the wont whip her or put her in time out they just say no. and when they do hit her they are too lazy so they throw something small at her to get her attention and tell her no or they hit her on the head. I am wanting to take things into my own hands because they wont do anything. How can we get her to stop screaming and biting and stay still when we change her. I have tried putting her in time out. And it worked...once. Then i told her what she did and why she was there. I told her if she did it again i would put her back in the chair for 5 more minutes. Am i doing this right?? (link)
Hello.

Well parenting is very opinion based. People debate over and over how to punish children, but I dont think thats the main problem here..you said her parents ignore her. Should child protective services be notified of this? You shouldnt have to be a nanny or a second mother for that child because if the biological parents lack providing basic needs I think some kind of authority should be informed.


hey i wanted to talk to you a little further about this guy i like cause you're a guy.

well he has a lot of female friends, but a lot of them think he's annoying and they don't like him. he's sort of a wannabe-popular, yet he still has a lot of friends (at least he wants me to think that).

on a social networking site -- don't want to say which one -- he comments a lot of girls and he tells them how attractive they are & such. and we hung out pretty recently (we didn't do anything) but i really really like him. he isn't allowed to date so i'm not ever planning on tell him i like him, but he'd call me beautiful and such and i couldn't tell if he just says that to all girls or just me. and it hurt me when i saw that he was saying it to other girls.

he doesn't hang out with other girls a lot so idk i might be special in that. i'm pretty sure he thinks i'm attractive (but he thinks so of a lot of other girls) but i just wanna hook up with him. i know that's terrible but i don't want him to get in trouble if he's not allowed to date.

sometimes we talk all day about everything, and sometimes we go days without talking. we talk mostly online.

should i just wait until i get over him? i don't want to start anything, and i definitely don't want to get hurt. should i just try hanging out with him when i get a chance? should i try to, you know, make a move on him or would it make things really awkward?

i'm so sorry this is so long. i need a guy's perspective on this, and all my guyfriends have a crush on me now so i can't talk to them about it! hahaha i need youu! thank you so much! (link)
Hello,

Okay. Now this guy is NOT allowed to date, so he knows he can hit on everyone, basicly, and not start a commited relationship. Now judging by the social-networking site accident, I think he is not understanding the emotional damage he is causing when he hits on many girls at once, as you said, you were hurt when you discovered he had said your beautiful and then turned around and said it to like 3743028754 other girls.

Actually, how do you know hes not allowed to date? He could just be saying that so he can be all "cool with the ladies " and no relationship but he just WANTS girls to like him for an ego or something.

I'm not gonna tell you "YOU NO LIKE THIS BOY NO MORE" and I'm not gonna say "TELL HIM GIRL" because judging by what I'm told this guy is very confusing. I would wait a little bit longer to see how things unfold. If anything happens again you can tell me.

From,
Dan.


I have been trying to find the karoke version of this one song forever, and now I found it on youtube. Is there anyway I can get it onto a cd from there? (link)
No, but in the video description box to the left, does it say Artist, or give a download link? iTunes has alot of kareoke versions of songs, you should look there, then search (Name of song) Kareoke version on Google.


& I want like a table/stand for it.
Not anything big, I remember seeing something like a tv tray, but taller & its for a laptop.
Can someone please give me a website to look at.

Ive already look at bedbathandbeyond
& office depot.

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I'd go to IKEA.

They have a variety of tables/stands in many shapes and colors.

I got mine from there :)


when a guy fingers you is it like sticking a tampon in or is it bigger
& is there anyway 2 make it loose if ur still a virgin (link)
Question regarding the tampon:

How big are his fingers? Usually they are bigger then a tampon but it varies from guy to guy.

And to loosed it, not sure on that one. Maybe do it yourself a little bit every-so often?


what categorizes a guy as a player, besides the fact that he's had several girlfriends / dates several girls at once? a nice bulleted list would be amazing.

i need advice because i like this guy & he might be a player. i say "might" because he hits on lots of girls but isn't allowed to date / told me he isn't interested in just hooking up with girls. he hasn't gone anywhere with any girls. he just calls them "hot" etc. (link)
Hm.
- A "player" is technically someone who fools around with many girls at once.
- If he were do DATE many girls at once thats cheating, but may also be considered "playing".


It's pretty much a matter of opinion, so if you think he is judging on what I and what other people answer this question said, then he is.


ok so i have all these wierd acne bumps on my legs any advice on how to get rid of them would be appreciated
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Maybe you have dry legs, you should think about moisturizing lotion. If that fails, contact a doctor.


Is there anyway i can interview one? like an up and coming one or a famous one? anyone know any? I can do aim, e-mail, phone...anything!

please help (link)
Find a fashion designer of your choosing. Find a biography of them, find the "CONTACT US/ME" send an email saying "I wanted to interview you for a project..."

And then list 25 questions or however many you plan to ask.

Thats what I did when interviewing a Pixar staff member.

Good luck!

If you are unable to find anything, PM me and I'll try to find something for you.


how do i make it so that my name shows instead of "google" for google searches? (link)
You cant..well yes but no..

There is no way to customize GOOGLE.com, however, there are mirror sites. For example, you may find:

a site. com/GOOGLE

And this is a page that looks just like google and returns results just as google would, except HERE you can customize the wording!
Just searched "Custom Google Page" or things relating to that on Google. You'll find it.



There are a cOuple of answers i wanna ask , but please [ guys reply Only].

- What makes a guy " want " a girl , like say your in a relationship but what would make you just " lust " or want a girl bad.

- How come guys dont care as much as girls do

- & why do yall not like to express yalls feelings like we do?

Please answer those 3 questions , thanks :)
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Hello.

First off, I would like to point out that your correct. Most guys are like statues. They dont show any emotion. I am not like that however. (yes, I am a guy, no I'm not gay) I LIKE talking, and when I ask out my crush I will talk to her alot. When a guy wants to ask out the girl and/or hook up with her, thats considered him "Wanting her". And I care alot. ALOT of guys think they should have the stereotypical guy attitude; tough, not show emotion, be all cool. Tell your guy that you dont like him when hes like that and you want him to open up to you.


What is this movie about? I thought it was a love story. But I'm not sure. Can anyone just give me like what it is mainly about like a summery (link)
Its a romance story about a college student and his girlfriend during the Vietnam war. She is against him recruiting, they have issues, etc, but the whole entire soundtrack is remakes of Beatles songs. It was a pretty good movie.




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