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15/f
I really like this guy, we met and I managed to get his msn and myspace.
He flirts with me but I get the impression he flirts with a lot of girls. However, I don't think he'd cheat in a relationship - his last relationship ended cause the girl messed him around, not the other way round.
I just want him really bad, but don't know how to go about getting him to like me. Yes, I know you can't force someone to like you, but there are always things you can do that increase your chances.
So, how do I stand out amongst all the other girls he flirts with and get him to see me as actual girlfriend material?
Also, seeing as the only contact I have with him, without suggesting we meet up (and we don't know each other that well), is online, how can I flirt and get him to like me via msn and myspace?
(It's harder this way because I can't do eye contact etc.)
Please don't give any replies telling me to give up on him just because I don't know he likes me, or to stay away from him because he flirts with lots of girls. Because y'know what it's like when you want someone badly, no way are those things going to make you give up.
Thanks in advance, x
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Ok gurli. Heres the thing. Because you do not know him well there is all those risks involved and yadayada. But im not here to preach; im here to give you a straight up answer. One that will help you. I understand that situation. I met this guy one time and then I got his myspace and aim. Total cutie!!! We flirted and talked for hours at a time. I didnt even know him. But i talked over the phone with him. I was myself. I told him my views on life and my favorite kinds of music. Make it like a friendship first. Although you may feel COMPLETLY dif. When guys gain a relationship with a girl just by jumping into an intimate relationship then you truely dont know too much about the other as you should while dating. You also wouldnt trust a stranger with your heart so why would you a cute stranger. You know. So first find some common ground build trust and a friendship then ask if he sees this going any further. Good Luck sweety. Im your age so I get the whole guy thing shhh. lol
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